Messy Moms Club

how is it September already!?

mental health check… how’s everyone doing 💕☀️

xoxo MMC

so in love 🌸

they will know love 🤍

Motherhood will break you.

It will take the girl you once were—the one with time, with freedom, with a name that belonged only to her—and it will lay her to rest.

It will steal your sleep, your certainty, the illusion of ever being fully prepared. It will reshape your friendships, your priorities, the way you see yourself. It will stretch you so thin you’ll wonder if there’s anything left of the person you used to be.

And there isn’t.

Because she is gone. But in her place?

Someone stronger. Someone softer. Someone who carries an entire world in her arms and loves so fiercely that every broken piece stitches itself back together.

the “i got them to 18, i’ve done my job” mindset is WILD. as long as i’m alive, my kids are my kids and i’ve got them no questions asked. period.

raise a son who…

holds the door open for strangers, hugs mama tight no matter who’s watching,
isn’t afraid to say “I love you.”,
takes care of his girl when she’s not feeling her best,
stands up for his siblings always, and chooses his friends wisely.

raise a son who knows that he’s just as responsible for the house and dinner as his wife. who shows up to games, who teaches his own kids what a good man looks like.

raise a son who treats everyone with kindness and respect, thinks before he speaks, and loves big, stays humble, and does what’s right.

because this world needs more good men. 👌🏼

what you see vs what you don’t see

What you see here is
A mom who you believe “doesn’t care”.
Her roots grown out,
How can she walk around with that hair?

You see a mom
Who is wearing stains with milky smell.
She was never like this,
Wow her standards really fell.

You see the mom
Her nails aren’t done anymore
They are plain and dull
Man she must be a bore.

You see the mom
Who has bags under her eyes
She appears so exhausted
Truly her happiness is lies.

You see the mom
Screaming for someone to help her
But that’s no one’s job…
She wanted this, let her suffer

What you don’t see is…

You don’t see the mom who rather
Spend her time at home
Then go to the salon with out her babies
And feel so alone.

You dont see how happy she is
To see her babies well and fed,
She doesn’t care about her clean clothes
Who cares if she wore them to bed.

You don’t see the mom
Who skips doing her nails
She rather spend that time and money
Because we know this time quickly sails.

You don’t see the mom
Who stayed awake with her baby
She was going to go to bed trust me,
But she thought “I’ll just watch him a bit more maybe”

You don’t see the mom
Who feels she’s not doing enough.
She’s done she’s tired
She doesn’t wanna be tough.

So you see… What you see vs what you don’t see
Are two completely different things. Motherhood isn’t easy, and it takes a village. Let’s spend more time lifting eachother up instead of tearing eachother down.

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✍🏽📝MMC 💜

ya’ll think eggs are expensive… wait till ya fertilize one 🤣😜

😎😎😎

Motherhood is my whole world right now.

My conversations? Almost always about my kids.

My favorite compliment? Being told I'm a good mom.

Time alone? Practically a luxury.

If my kids aren't welcome, I'll probably pass.

Give me a cozy weekend at home with my little family, and I'm in my happiest place.

🤍

As we get closer to spring and summer break and all the tropical vacations, here’s a handy chart to help you pick the safest swimwear for your family!

Bright colors like neon yellow, orange, and pink stand out in the water, making it easier to spot swimmers in case of an emergency.

Darker colors or those that blend in—like blue or green—can make swimmers harder to see, especially in deep or murky water. High-visibility colors are especially important for kids and weaker swimmers.

A simple choice can make a big difference.

Stay safe, friends! 🌊☀️