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*MARRIAGE AND INFIDELITY*

~ _The evil of broken fellowship_

Infidelity in marriage has a major root cause—the lack of the fear of God. And a troubled marriage fuels infidelity; it's a motivator for "the beast" to break loose. When there's the fear of God, couples follow His Word to make interesting and make fruitful their marriage and family life. As much as "the beast" would always want the liberty to go wild, a good marriage tames it and eventually dominates it. Couples who choose to work on themselves and work on their marriage will make it work. Humans are relational beings. We are directly or indirectly always seeking relationships; we are always seeking to be received and to receive. That's how life was meant to work. Marriage is a safe relationship where two persons feel received and valued.

When this purpose is abused, fellowship is breached. The thing about fellowship is what occupies us. We are easily occupied in an exciting way by the thing or the person who accepts and values us. No one in life is without this fellowship; it's either with things or with people. The evil of a troubled marriage is the broken fellowship, which opens up the couple to be occupied by something or someone else. That's when infidelity finds its best shot. Infidelity doesn't only have to be with a person; it can also be with a thing. You become unfaithful when the time to spend with your spouse is now spent on things like your job, movies, novels, your phone, etc. At this point, your pleasure is found in those things than in your spouse. That's infidelity.

Infidelity is giving the attention your spouse deserves to something or someone else. That's what broken fellowship does; it is promoted by a troubled marriage. On the other hand, where we are reveals where we are not. To not be with your spouse when you should, is to be somewhere else (in mind or in person). The question is: who or what do you spend that time with? Humans aren't sticks. They can develop emotions for anything and for anyone. There's no luck about success in marriage. You either make it or it mars you. This is the point couples should get; broken fellowship fuels a troubled marriage, meanwhile restored fellowship begins the reconciliation process.

What then is the problem? It's the distance. What then is the problem? It's the breach of fellowship. What's the problem? It's the silence. What's the problem? It is the isolation. What's the problem? It is refusing to communicate. What's the problem? It is the lack of forgiveness. Good marriages have been damaged by prolonged disagreements. And sometimes over petty things which forgiveness would wave and fellowship would avoid. As couples, don't push yourselves to the extreme. Be assured of this: *Fellowship embarrasses all the devil's plans against your marriage. Don't give "room" (space) between you and your spouse; Satan would occupy it.* Whatever and whoever takes that time you ought to be spending with your spouse is an enemy to your marriage, no matter how it or he/she makes you feel. Be warned.

That friend with whom you spend time and ignore your spouse is an enemy; whether male or female. And you the friend who spends more time with your married friend who ought to be spending the time with his/her spouse, you're an enemy to their marriage. Cut down things or stay off. If you're not there, their idleness would get them back to each other. Don't occupy the space they need to be with each other. Be warned. Couples, the Bible says don't let the sun go down on your wrath. Problems grow . The more it is kept, the more the lack of fellowship. The more distant the more complicated it becomes. Respond quickly; forgive quickly and get back to fellowship.

The longer fellowship stays broken, the more Satan sows bad seeds between you, making it even more difficult to reconcile things. Be warned about your lack of fellowship. Couples need to understand this and outsmart the strategy of Satan against their marriage. Break the pride and say I am sorry. Hush the anger and forgive; 70x7 times? Yes! If you're not ready for forgiveness, then forget relationships. In relationships, we're dealing with people who can fail; only God doesn't. So, when we're set for forgiveness, we're set for building strong and healthy relationships. Let it go and always do so quickly. Give Satan no room! Make things up and keep doing so. It's required of those who'll make it in marriage.

Satan hates when you forgive each other because you just closed his door! Do you understand this? So, don't be ignorant about this and say you don't know what you're doing when you hold grudges and refuse to talk and have fellowship. Fellowship is the strength of all relationships, especially marriage. Sit down, talk often, spend time together, share, respect each other, listen, plan, walk together, etc. It's a mandatory requirement. Work at yours until you get to this level. Marriage not intentionally worked on won't work. Remember, give no room to Satan. Be faithful, and refuse to submit to infidelity. Infidelity is burying your marriage alive. . At least, kill it first!

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