Time out with Blessing

IF YOU SEE SOMETHING, SAY SOMETHING Kudos 👏 to the Ratel Movement

One powerful lesson I’ve learned from the British people is this “If you see something, say something.” It’s boldly written on their trains. And because they practice it, once any British person sees a potential danger, they call the police almost immediately. That simple habit has helped reduce crime and protect citizens.

I’m happy and glad that the RATEL Movement is also beginning to practice and promote this. It was because one RATEL member observed something suspicious and reached out to celebrity Oris, the RATEL leader, who then called the police, that an arrest was made. Upon arrest, it was discovered that the man had kxxilled his girlfriend and bur*ied her. He must have been getting away with evil for a long time, but thank God that through this “see something, say something” culture, his end has come. He should face the full weight of the law. Anyone capable of such evil should not remain in society to harm more people.

Kudos to the RATEL Movement for this beautiful work. 👏

When we see something and say something, we are also building the nation. Let’s speak up. Let’s protect lives. Let’s build a safer society.

cubanachiefpriest and Helen Ati .

A PLEA FOR MERCY, PEACE, AND A DNA TEST

For over 4–5 years, this woman has been on the internet, insisting that Cubana Chief Priest is the father of her child. She has cried, begged, cursed, danced, acted drama, and gone to shocking lengths all in a desperate attempt to get Pascal to agree to a DNA test. So far, he has not shown up. Instead, we see luxury and affluence.

At first, I felt she was doing too much. Like many single mothers, I thought if the man refuses to care for the child, she should just carry the responsibility and trust God. But after seeing her today and hearing her condition, my heart broke. She has lost faith in God. She has lost hope that anything can ever be well around her. She cannot get a job. Her TikTok, where she makes money, seems to be shadow-banned, and people keep reporting her page. She says nothing is coming from there. She appears helpless and depressed.

I am calling on well-meaning Kenyans and Nigerians to please come to her aid. Cubana Chief Priest and his friends please talk to him. Let him present himself for a DNA test. If he is innocent, the test will clear his name. If he is responsible, the child deserves support. Either way, this matter should not drag on while a mother and child suffer.

No child should grow up watching their mother beg for acknowledgment. Let us be merciful. Let us help her. Let us give this child a chance at a better life.

Verydarkman recommends the same prayer I recommended.

Earlier today, I shared a short reflection on today’s Gospel with my followers. My message was simple we are all God’s people. We can speak to God directly. Yes, we still value our priests and spiritual leaders they guide us, celebrate Mass, hear our confessions, encourage us, and pray with us. But Jesus already gave us a clear model of prayer, the Lord’s Prayer. It is simple, honest, and has stood the test of time.

A few hours later, I saw VDM’s video, and at some point we were saying the same thing. He was also reminding people about the Lord’s Prayer as the structure Jesus gave us. I was glad I had already shared my reflection before seeing his, so it is clear I did not copy anyone. At the end of the day, truth is truth. We will not lie for anyone. We are here to speak the truth.

I appreciate that VDM has a large audience and is using his platform to promote truth to believers and non-believers, and to those in authority. That is why I continue to appreciate him and speak about him. May we all seek God sincerely and let our prayers be real.

Learn to pray by yourself. 🙏
Not just when someone else is praying. Not just when it’s convenient. But personally, intentionally, and honestly.

You are a man of God.
You are a woman of God.
Open your mouth and pray.
Pray just the way Jesus taught us to pray. 🕊️

Your prayer life is yours to build with Him. Don’t stay silent speak to your Father. He’s listening. 🔥

MY TAKE ON B-LORD & VDM’S COURT CASE

B-Lord and VDM were in court today, but unfortunately the case did not hold. The session has been adjourned to later next month or before the end of this year.

My own is simple we do not need this unnecessary drama .

Yes, at some point B-Lord went too far. Yes, at some point I think he tried to retrace his steps and apologise. But Sowore whether he was invited or he jumped on the case aggravated the matter with pride. Instead of calmly talking to VDM to please withdraw the case, he kept granting press interviews, insisting the case should be struck out. I agree the case should not really go on since it’s an online matter, but the manner he presented it is the problem. And VDM, being another stubborn person, is now trying to prove Sowore wrong.

If I were B-Lord, or B-Lord’s wife, or his mother, I would humbly go to Sowore and beg him. Beg him for the sake of the children, for the sake of peace, to join us in begging VDM to withdraw the case. Let him drop that authority and pride. Let him beg VDM. That way, VDM too might decide to be humble and withdraw. But when you talk in a boastful and proud way, VDM will want to prove a point.

This whole thing is not necessary. It can be sorted out amicably with a lot of humility and wisdom oooo .

That’s my take. Think about it. 🤔

VDM COMES THROUGH FOR BLESSING CEO — A LESSON FOR US ALL ❤️🙏

For many months, Very Darkman and Blessing CEO were not on good terms. She dragged him, insulted him, called him names, and even rallied people against him. It was messy.

But today, life has dealt Blessing CEO a painful blow. She is grieving the loss of her baby. And instead of compassion, many people are still holding on to the past, unwilling to hear her out or forgive her.

Then VDM did the unexpected. He put their differences aside and showed up with his lawyer to see how they can help get her out and possibly sort out bills. That is humanity. That is maturity. That is doing the right thing even when you have every reason not to.

This is a lesson for all of us
We all deserve a second chance.
We should be our brother’s keeper.
We should not fight forever.
We should not live fake lives.

Today it’s her story; tomorrow it could be any of us.

I wish Blessing CEO healing, peace, and strength. And I hope we all learn something positive from this and apply it in our daily lives.

My honest take on the Nigerian Pastors vs VeryDarkMan (VDM) debate.

I saw a video where a Nigerian pastor reportedly called VDM “useless,” “senseless,” a “non-entity,” said his days are numbered, and used all sorts of unprintable words against him. My own take is different.

Pastors are not supposed to lay curses on anyone from the pulpit. We are called to follow Jesus not because He was weak, but because He was strong enough to endure insult, persecution, and false accusation without cursing anyone. Jesus showed unconditional love. So why can’t some Nigerian pastors responding to VDM follow the exact teaching of Christ?

The gospel of Christ is not built only on tithes, offerings, and a beautiful life. Every soldier of Christ, every saint who truly worked for God, faced persecution in one form or another serious persecution that cost some their comfort, their reputation, and even their lives. But today, it seems some Nigerian pastors love the enjoyment side of ministry while avoiding anything that has to do with accountability, correction, or facing persecution for the love of Christ.

Instead of enduring persecution in the love of Christ, they go to church on Sunday and base the entire teaching on responding to VDM someone they call a non-entity. That is not the example of Christ.

I strongly believe pastors should follow the example of Christ by enduring insult, loving their enemies, preaching the truth, and leaving vengeance to God. I also believe pastors need very deep theological and philosophical training training that helps them study the moments before creation, during creation, after creation, the life of Christ, and the reasons behind all the teachings we see in Scripture. The pulpit is too sacred to be reduced to personal vendettas.

This is not about defending VDM. It is about defending the character of Christ in public ministry. I am not against pastors; I honour faithful pastors. But if we cannot carry the cross, we should not pretend to carry the pulpit.

I just shared a video on this. Watch it, and let’s discuss respectfully.

Nigerian Catholic Community, St John’s Cathedral Independence Celebration & Thanksgiving Mass.

We came from every corner to thank God for His mercies. Thank You, Jesus! To God be all the glory. 😊🙏🏾🇳🇬🇬🇧

Hello October 👋 be good to us...oya guess my next destination 😉