How to find Miss Perfect a guide for Cross Dressers

It was mid-morning last Friday at work when a courier suddenly showed up with a package just for me. Curious, I opened it, and my heart completely melted—inside was a gorgeous red rose alongside a matching red dress!

There was a little QR code included, so I scanned it with my phone. Instantly, a message popped up: my sweet hubby had reserved a table for us at a local spot for a surprise lunchtime date! Right on cue, Chris De Burgh ’s Lady in Red started playing through my speakers.. There was a note telling me to wear that dress for our lunchtime date.

All the girls at the office were absolutely floored. They were sighing, talking about how their husbands never do anything like that for them. Honestly, not a single week goes by without my amazing crossdressing husband doing something utterly romantic like this for me.

The single girls at work keep asking where on earth they can find a guy like him, and the ones stuck in loveless marriages ask me the exact same thing. I’m always so tempted to just tell them point-blank: "Girls, you need to find yourself a loving crossdressing husband!"

We had the absolute best, most romantic lunch date EVER.

So, the very next day, since I was working from home, I decided to return the favor with a little playful teasing. I sent my CD hubby a cheeky picture text that said:

"You're always wearing my lingerie when I'm not around, so I thought I'd send you a photo of me wearing yours!"

Tell me—based on the options below, would you like a relationship like ours?

A. I’d love such a marriage.
B. I’d like such a marriage.
C. I have no opinion.
D. I wouldn’t like such a marriage.
E. I’d hate to have such a marriage.

As someone who is happily married to a crossdresser, I’ve never understood why single women rule out CD partners. Just because a man loves women’s fashion doesn’t make him gay at all—it’s just a sweet, expressive side of who he is!

Next time you’re at the mall, look around. Women shopping with typical male partners often look exhausted while their guys complain about the time or the money. But shopping with my husband? It’s a dream! I’ll step out of the fitting room and he’s already picked out five more cute outfits for me to try. Or we’ll be walking down the street, and he’ll spot a dress in a window and say, 'That is so you, babe—you HAVE to try it on!'

Having a CD partner is honestly the best of both worlds: it’s like having a fabulous best friend who gets fashion, but he’s completely straight and head over heels for you.

Do you agree with the sentiments in the photo?

A) Strongly agree
B)Agree
C) Neutral / Neither agree nor disagree
D) Disagree
E) Strongly disagree
Photo from jessica starr

As an out and proud bi woman, I can tell you from experience—when I first met my crossdressing hubby, she showed up in a stunning black PVC dress and completely owned it. She was super upfront right from day one about her love for dressing up and going out in public, and I was just as honest about being bisexual. Zero drama, zero hurt feelings.

So recently, she met a single CD guy, I met a single bi woman, and naturally, we decided to play matchmaker—just flipping the script this time. She showed up to date number one looking like an absolute knockout in black PVC, casually owned her bisexuality, and laid down one condition: for date two, he has to come glammed up as his gorgeous female self.

So picture this: a total babe shows up to date #1 rocking black PVC, tells you she plays for both teams, and insists your next date is a full glam girl's night out. How are you handling it?

1. Marry me on the spot!
2. Say less—dinner's on me!
3. Neutral vibes; no opinion.
4. Thanks, but no thanks.
5. Lose my number and take a hike!

Photo from boots 472

Because of how demanding my CD husband’s job can be, he has some super stressful weeks. From Friday through Sunday, his absolute favorite way to unwind and decompress is by fully embracing his feminine side and spending the entire weekend as a lady.

Whenever we do this, Friday night is our cozy girls' night in—think wine, pizza, chocolate and a classic chick flick! On Saturday, we head out for some serious retail therapy, and I strictly insist she goes fully dressed as a girl so the experience feels completely authentic. Honestly, whenever I’m browsing for a new dress, skirt, or blouse for myself, I always catch myself thinking, “Oh, how stunning would my lovely CD wife look in this?”

Saturday night means glamming up for a proper girls' night out on the town! After our night out, some intimate le***an lo******ng, and a sweet, romantic Sunday dinner, my darling CD hubby is feeling completely relaxed, refreshed, and ready to step back into her normal self.

This photo says “To escape life’s stresses, I like to dress as a girl and just not be me for a while.”

Does this photo describe you? Use the options below to respond:

A. This describes me completely
B. This describes me
C. I have no opinion
D. This doesn’t describe me
E. This doesn’t describe me at all

photo from heather smith

As an out and proud bisexual woman married to a crossdressing husband, if I'm being completely honest... I actually prefer her as a woman! Don't get me wrong, my hubby is a seriously handsome guy, but there is just something so deeply special and magnetic about a partner who is confident enough to fully embrace her feminine side.

We are super strict about following the 2:2:2 rule to keep our intimacy alive (a date night every two weeks, a weekend getaway every two months, and a weeklong vacation every two years!).

When we're getting ready for a girly date, one of my absolute favorite rituals is doing each other’s makeup. I even ask my hubby not to shave for a few days before our night out. There is something so utterly magical about watching a man with stubble transform right before my eyes into a breathtaking, confident woman.

In this photo, you can see a CD husband getting all dolled up by his wife.

Would you love to have a wife who does your makeup like this?
A. I would move mountains for such a wife.
B. I want such a wife.
C. I have no opinion.
D. I don’t want such a wife.
E. I really don’t want such a wife.

Photo from jenny halvorsen

One of the things I love most about being married to my CD husband is the sheer amount of fun we have together! So many of my girlfriends are stuck in boring or loveless marriages, and honestly, they’re super envious of how amazingly my hubby treats me. We go on a date every single week without fail.

Most couples miss out on the absolute joy of truly getting ready together. Usually, the husband is dressed in two minutes and sits around complaining while his wife takes ages to get glammed up. But not us!

When my girly hubby and I are prepping for a proper girls' night out, it becomes this whole gorgeous bonding ritual. We help shave each other down, pamper ourselves with facials, and do each other’s makeup. Then comes the best part: helping each other into our prettiest lingerie, styling our wigs, and picking out matching dresses and heels. I can’t even begin to tell you how much fun it is!

This photo says “There is nothing more fun or sexier than playing dress up with your girlfriend.”

To what level do you agree?
A. I strongly agree
B. I agree
C. I neither agree nor disagree
D. I disagree
E. I strongly disagree

Photo from Cyndis captions.

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