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Barely 3 years ago, I was a frail alcoholic, a pity to look at. Body shaking every time alcoholic levels dropped. People knew it was just a matter of time before they said their condolences. Then I embraced sobriety, fought my way through the shackles of addiction and I can say Soberness is a gem. If I could yes you can. Addiction is dream killer. THE RESOLVE MUST ALWAYS BEAT THE URGE

Even Sonko has seen the dangers of alcohol

Addiction has no shame. In this pic a friend of mine had money and a lady so he bought me alcohol and made me stand outside my own house as they continued there business. He gave me 200 bop to give my son go play PS. Am glad I got sober almost 3 years now and when I look back at the things I did for alcohol I feel sick to the stomach. Quitting is possible and staying sober is a reality. If I can do it, you can also do it

All it takes is a day and a decision. If you are battling addiction ,start today. Hate the life and make that sober decision. One day at a time, it gets easier with each passing day. Make this motto THE RESOLVE MUST ALWAYS BEAT THE URGE . Your daily anthem

Don’t hate the addict. Hate the disease.

Don’t hate the person. Hate the behavior.

And if it’s hard to watch, imagine how hard it is to live.

Addiction is one of the most misunderstood human battles out there. From the outside, people see the lies, the broken promises, the chaos, the repeated mistakes. It’s easy to turn that pain into anger toward the person. It feels personal. It feels intentional.

But addiction isn’t a character defect. It isn’t a lack of willpower. It’s a disease that hijacks the brain. It distorts judgment. It rewires reward systems. It convinces someone that the very thing destroying them is the only thing keeping them afloat.

That doesn’t excuse the behavior. The damage is real. The trust that gets broken is real. The consequences are real. Boundaries are necessary. Accountability matters.

But hatred doesn’t heal anything.

When you hate the addict, you reduce them to their worst moments. You forget there was a human being there before the disease tightened its grip. You forget that most people in addiction are fighting a war inside their own mind that you can’t see.

If it’s exhausting to watch someone spiral, imagine waking up inside that spiral every day. Imagine promising yourself you’ll stop and feeling your own brain betray you by nightfall. Imagine the shame. The isolation. The self-loathing. The constant awareness that you’re hurting the very people you love.

Addiction is loud on the outside, but it’s suffocating on the inside.

Most addicts don’t hate themselves a little. They hate themselves deeply. They feel trapped in patterns they don’t fully understand and can’t easily escape.

That’s why it’s important to separate the person from the behavior.

You can love someone and refuse to enable them. You can care about someone and still say, “This behavior is unacceptable.” Compassion and boundaries are not opposites. They’re both necessary.

Addiction impacts families, marriages, children, and friendships. It leaves wreckage. It leaves scars. That pain is valid. But underneath the behavior, there’s usually pain that existed long before the substance showed up. Trauma. Anxiety. Rejection. Depression. Unprocessed grief.

For many, the substance was first a solution before it became the problem.

That doesn’t make it right. But it makes it human.

So don’t hate the addict. Hate the disease that distorts their thinking and fuels destructive behavior. Don’t dehumanize the person while fighting the addiction.

If it’s hard to watch, imagine how hard it is to live it.



— j. anthony |