Favour Godwin

99 PERCENT OF HUMANS DON'T LIKE THIS
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I got the insult of my life yesterday from my youngest sister because of this.......

i just realised that I have something called the first born syndrome.
That feeling you subconsciously have of wanting everyone around you to be better and also happy.
It pushes you to sort out life for them, bring in ideas you feel could better their lives even when yourself isn't straight or defined yet,
And many times the people in question whom you are trying to help turn their back against you.

I have said it some many times that I will never help any of my siblings again or even advice because it has brought me insult that I shouldn't have received,but I never stopped because I care too much,I never stop because it's something called first syndrome.

My husband even told me to stop advising my sister,99 percent of human beings don't want advice,they just to see your results and then what ever you are saying can make sense to them.

My dear my siblings have insulted me so many times because I gave them an advice that am not even forcing them to follow.

This really got me thinking of I have a problem.
Please my family do I have a problem.

SOMEONE'S STORY.
Favour Godwin
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WE JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER HERE.

My husband is teaching me something, and this is it in his words"learn to say your own side of any story, don't keep quiet except it's not necessary,you can't keep being the Villan in everybody's story,just because you feel Nobody will believe you.

Talk, let anything that want to happen happen.
You name is far much more important than riches,build a brand and a name void of scandals and terrible event, you are good,I know, you don't like to prove a point to anyone but you must always say the side of your own story it doesn't matter what anyone thinks or feels, save your name protect your name. preserve it, because before someone will want to come close to know you more,you must ring a bell and if it's bad, people will judge you before coming close to you.

Don't judge a book by its cover isn't for human beings especially Africans.
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Favour Godwin

I don't know if it's only me, but my strongest push don't really come from motivational speakers ooh.my biggest push comes from my guts,the first urge you get from your inner self to try something new,to give something a try, that's your guts.

It doesn't tell you how perfect or how bad something will turn out,it just tells you that you can do this thing.

So long as you still have faith and believe in yourself,your guts will always come through for you.
That's when you hear someone say they never give up.

You aren't different from any successful person out there that beat their chest and say I am resilient,I don't give up,you don't just listen to your guts or maybe the challenges of life has overshadowed it.
Search yourself,your guts is something that God put in every man, it's in you and it's still active.

Your faith is one of your strongest virtue on earth.
You believe or faith in anything you do or anything you are working on is strongest that the thing itself.

What makes us see result in the things we do is not because that thing is the best,but because of our believe in it.

Whatever you are doing now just make sure your faith in it is stronger that the thing itself, it's just a matter of time,you will see result.

In all you go through in this life,make sure that nothing absolutely nothing quenches your faith.

PLEASE TELL THEM NO AND WALK AWAY.

Learning to say No is a virtue, it's something that most people struggle with so if you can unapologetically say NO for a good course without feeling bad, you don't know what gold you have on your Inside.

This life is too hard to be a people pleaser,and being a people pleaser won't make people like you,it will even increase enemies, and do you know the funny part,you will hurt so many people.

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I just came to remind you again that when you act in anger you don't know what you are doing,neither do you even see what your actions are doing.

When I was dating my boyfriend now husband,and we have a misunderstanding,the kind of text message I use to send erhn could kill alot😂😂😂😂😂,God of mercy!!!.
And when we want to settle the misunderstanding and he shows me the message,I will never believe that I wrote that kind of thing because deep down in my heart, everything I sent to him is never my intention towards him.this is to show my foolishness that year.

Anger beclouds your sense of reasoning and judgement,you will think you are reasoning properly,but your brain is upside down.

Just tell someone to record your actions and display that moment and if you watch it later shame go must catch you.
They are better ways to settle things aside anger.😘🙏
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During the summer holiday last year,I wanted to engage my baby in the house,so I told her that we were going to plant.

She was so happy,like very happy, so we planted green peppers and water leaf.
Everyday of her life,she made sure she watched over this plant,she nurtured it with her time ,she took care of that plant ,more than she takes care of her own self.

On a very good day,she erred ,like she commit and my mom disciplined her very very well. She got angry when out and vented the anger on her plant, she uprooted everything,when her senses came back,she was trying to remedy the situation by putting the plants back in the bucket and covering it with sand. But,the deed has already been done,her 2-3 weeks of devotion,commitment, dedication,care, attention on those plants were gone and the plants dead.
One moment of anger, emotional outbursts without control can destroy all you have laboured to build for many years. That's how relationship and families break, and life changing opportunities are missed.

It's true that whenever we are angry,our IQ drops,and our reasoning tends to be very low. So please don't make decisions, at this point because,you will regret it because you think you know what you know what you are doing,but in real sense you don't know what you are doing.

This is why it is unapologetically stated by the Holy Bible that "anger rests in the bossom of a fool".

You don't know what you are doing when you are angry, you think you know but you don't know. This is why you should stop being angry without control.
# mental awareness # relationship , , series.

God of adulthood and responsibility, please come to my rescue.

This was bought for a whooping sum of 5 thousand Nigerian currency.😭😭.

FRIENDSHIP BOUNDARIES

We all always agree that there should be boundaries you set in business, parenting and your work place .
But there is something we don't know, that keeps spoiling our friendship with people and that is boundaries.

Boundaries is the thin line you place between you and friend, to help you help your friend from hurting you.

You place this boundaries base on your weakness, and her weakness.

For example: Never do business with a friend you know has financial integrity issues,it could ruin your friendship.

Another example, Never share a vision with a friend that has a no form of vision or aspirations in life.

You can set your own boundaries according to what you know your friend or friends are likely to do.

Thank you my loves 😍.