Alphahood

The Dangerous Rise of Men Who Won’t Date 'Woke' Women

Let’s cut to the chase.

There’s a growing tribe of men who are no longer interested in dating “strong, independent, opinionated” women—especially the ones who lead with buzzwords like patriarchy, misogyny, gaslighting, and my truth.

To them, “woke” doesn’t mean awareness. It means combat.

And they’re checking out—boldly, strategically, and in large numbers.

This isn’t just a trend. It’s a reckoning.

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1. Men Who Are Tired of Debating Over Dinner

A date used to be about connection. Now it’s an interview—and men are the suspects.

“Do you support women’s rights?”

“How do you define masculinity?”

“Do you identify as a feminist?”

"How much do you make per annum?"

Say the wrong thing, and you’re labeled toxic.

Say nothing, and you’re labeled weak.

Many men are asking: Why pay to be preached at?

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2. Men Who See Woke Dating as Uromantic.

It comes with rules, disclaimers, emotional clauses, and ideological landmines.

Don’t raise your voice. Don’t correct her. Don’t open the door—unless she wants you to.

She’s offended by compliments. But offended if you don’t give one.

You’re not dating a woman. You’re navigating a HR manual.

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3. Men Who Avoid Women Who Want Equality—Until the Bill Comes.

They want partnership… with privileges.

Split the chores, split the power, split the leadership.

But on birthdays? You better bring a king’s ransom.

On Valentine’s Day? You better show up like a billionaire.

And God forbid you say: “Let’s split the rent.”

Suddenly, you’re the villain of late-stage capitalism.

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4. Men Who Take Charge--And Won't Settle for Less.

Correct her? You’re gaslighting.

Disagree? You’re manipulative.

Have standards? You’re controlling.

The modern woke woman doesn’t want a man. She wants a mirror—one that reflects back everything she says without friction.

But real men aren’t mirrors. They’re architects.

And architects build—they don’t echo.

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5. Men Who Explore Their Options.

The men who refuse to play the woke dating game.

They’re not complaining.

They’re quietly building.

Some date overseas.

Some date younger.

Some go ghost completely.

And guess what?

They’re not broke. They’re not bitter. They’re not backward.

They’re just done begging for love and reciprocity.

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6. Men Who Won't Procure Damaged Goods.

They won't settle for hoes and overused cars.

Women who threw caution to the wind in their youth to "explore options".

But comeback with healing stories and overnight transformation.

See Megatron, the leader of Decepticons! 😂

Men who refuse to be guilt-tripled into settling for less than they deserve.

Men who pick their women and not wait to be picked.

7. Men Who Reject Signing Up for Instant Fatherhood.

Marriage is not noddles. It's not cornflakes.

It shouldn't come with prepackaged babies and diapers bills.

Modern men know this and they won't buy your sob stories of how you narrowly escaped from the toxic baby daddy.

Or how you left him for lacking dreams.

They are not interested in raising another man's kid ---doing all the work and getting none of credits.

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Final Word: It’s Not That Men Hate Woke Women—They’re Just Tired of the Performance

You can be educated, ambitious, even outspoken.

But if your entire personality is resistance—don’t expect men to sign up for war.

Masculine men want peace. Not politics in the bedroom. Not protest in the living room. Not partner debates at every disagreement.

They want women who bring warmth, not warning labels.

Discipline. Not traumas.

Because if dating you feels like walking on eggshells?

Don’t be surprised when they stop walking altogether.

Let's the roaring begins.

The 7 Types of Women Nietzsche Warned Would Destroy Great Men”:

Friedrich Nietzsche, the great German philosopher, once said: “Man shall be trained for war, and woman for the recreation of the warrior.”

But modern women flipped it.
Now men are the prey.

These aren’t just women.
They’re forces of chaos—designed to derail vision, corrupt discipline, and bury legacy.

Here are the 7 Nietzschean archetypes every man must avoid if he wants to die respected, not disrespected.

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1. The Temptress of Comfort

She doesn’t fight you—she lulls you.
Soft words. Soft touches. Endless pleasure.

But Nietzsche warned: “Comfort is the enemy of greatness.”

Stay with her, and you’ll trade your warpath for her warm bed.

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2. The Devourer of Will

She doesn’t want your love. She wants your strength.

She feeds on your ambition, your drive, your fire—until nothing’s left.

Like a parasite, she grows stronger the weaker you become.

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3. The Chaotic Muse

She makes you feel alive with her wildness.
But chaos is not inspiration—it’s infection.

You’ll spend years confusing her storms for passion.
And one day, you’ll wake up realizing you built nothing but ruins.

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4. The Pretender of Truth

She speaks of “alignment” and “authenticity.”
But every word is propaganda.

Her “truth” changes depending on what gives her power.
Nietzsche called this the will to power disguised as morality.

If she bends truth for herself, she’ll break you with lies.

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5. The Power-Worshipper

She doesn’t want you.
She wants your throne.

She studies your weaknesses. Competes with your strengths.
And when she wins, she won’t build beside you. She’ll mock you.

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6. The Eternal Victim

She wears weakness like a crown.
Every slight becomes a story. Every failure becomes your fault.

Nietzsche warned: “Beware those who cling to suffering—it is their weapon.”

Her victimhood is a strategy.

And if you rescue her, you become the villain she needs to keep her story alive.

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7. The Nihilist in Disguise

She laughs at faith.
Scoffs at family.
Mocks legacy.

Nothing is sacred to her—because she believes nothing has meaning.

She’ll pull you into her abyss of apathy.

And if you stay, you’ll become what Nietzsche feared most:
A man with no purpose.

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Final Word

The Temptress. The Devourer. The Chaotic Muse. The Pretender. The Power-Worshipper. The Victim. The Nihilist.

Different names. Same outcome.

They don’t just ruin men.
They ruin the empires men could have built.

Nietzsche was right: modern women are no longer the “recreation of warriors.”
They’ve become the predators of warriors.

And if you want to live, lead, and leave a legacy?
You must resist them.

Because in the end—
Great men are not destroyed by war.
They’re destroyed by the women who convinced them peace was safe.

— © ALPHAHOOD. Magnus Media

Marrying a Single Mom Doesn’t Make You Noble—You’re Just a Loser

She may be sweet—but her past isn’t dead, it’s just sleeping.

Let’s stop the pity party.

Not every single mother is a victim.
Some are survivors of tragedy.
Others are products of their own bad choices.

But if you, as a man, don’t pause and ask the hard questions before marrying her—
you’re signing a contract that could ruin your peace, your pockets, and your future.

Here’s what men wished someone told them before they became the second husband to someone else’s story.

1. If She’s So Sweet, Why Did the First Guy Let Her Go?

If she cooks, cleans, sucks, and shuts the f*ck up, then why did he leave?

She smiles. She calls you “My King.”
But why didn’t her first king keep her?

If she was left, it says something.
If she left, it says even more.

Because the woman who easily walked away from the father of her child?

Don’t think you’re special—you’re just next in line.

Men don’t discard women who bring peace.

So if her first choice didn’t satisfy her, what makes you believe you’ll be the upgrade?

2. You’re Not the Landlord—You’re a Tenant

When her baby daddy is still around—especially if he’s in jail or “finding himself”—you’re just a placeholder.

A stepdad paying rent on someone else’s property.

And when he returns?
Your lease might expire.

They share a permanent bond: the child.
And bonds create loopholes.
Late-night calls.
“Family-only” events.
Old memories.
And sometimes… unfinished business.

3. You’ll Never Truly Have Her

You love her.
But she’s emotionally split.

There are family trips that won’t include you.
Co-parenting phone calls that turn into flirty laughs.

Your stepchild wants to visit their dad—and of course, she has to go with them.

You’ll wake up one day and realize:
Your wife is still playing wife somewhere else.

4. That Child Isn’t Yours—But the Bill Is

Let’s be honest.

It’s easy to love a child when the house is peaceful.

But what happens when the fights come?
When you can’t stand the sight of her?

Now you’re still stuck feeding, housing, and raising a child…
who shares no blood with you—and might even hate you for replacing their father.

You can’t discipline them fully.
You can’t mold them fully.

You’re paying the full price—for a bond you didn’t create.

5. Okafor’s Law Still Applies

When old lovers reconnect, it doesn’t always feel like cheating.

It feels like “checking on the kids.”
“Dropping school fees.”
“Just one drink, for old times’ sake.”

And before you blink, the spark is back.
Because when people have shared a child, the door never truly shuts.

The question is:
Can you live in a house with a backdoor always open?

6. Stepchildren Come with Step Problems

They fight with your biological kids.
They call you by name, not “Dad.”
You can’t discipline them without backlash.

You side with your child?
You’re wicked.
You side with hers?
You’ve betrayed your blood.

So now you’re stuck asking:
Are these really siblings, or are you just forcing unity on strangers?

Imagine being the firstborn of your father, but treated like the second or third in your own home.

That’s what your kids live through.
Every day.

7. Her Child Will Always Prefer Their Real Father

Let’s be honest.

You’ll buy gifts, pay bills, and show up for PTA meetings.

But the moment you correct that child?
She reports you to her father.

And guess what?
You’ll be the villain.
You’re fighting battles in a war you didn’t start—and might never win.

8. Her Past Comes with Luggage, Not Just Baggage

You’ll be judged by a standard set by the man who left.

You’ll hear phrases like:
“He never did this.”
“He always made me feel that.”
“You’re acting just like him.”

She says she’s over him.
But she compares you to him every time.

You’re not just marrying her.
You’re competing with her memory of someone who didn’t even stay.

9. Most Men Regret It—They Just Can’t Say It Out Loud

Go online.
Search the forums.
Read the stories.

Thousands of men are stuck in marriages they regret—
not because they hate the woman,
but because they married a situation.

They loved her.
But her past came with pressure.
Her child came with conflict.
And her ex came with access.

Here’s the Harsh Truth

There’s nothing you’re looking for in a single mother that a single woman doesn’t have—without the stress.

Yes, some women are worth fighting for.
But those are rare.
I’ve read about them in fiction. I’ve never met one in real life.

So don’t go into this thinking you’re the captain save-a-hole.
You’re not rescuing her—you’re inheriting her drama.

And the worst way to deal with any woman is to act like you have no other option.
It makes you an automatic simp.

Here are my final words:

Some single mothers are noble.
They lost good men to war, to death, to circumstances beyond their control.

But many are single because of attitude, entitlement, toxicity, or poor choices.

Before you marry one, ask yourself:
Are you marrying peace?
Or adopting chaos with lipstick on it?

Because the truth remains…
You’re not her fresh start.
You’re just her second draft.

The comments are open.
Let the debates begin.

Dear Son, She Didn’t Cheat by Mistake

Son, sit with me for a moment
and hear this truth clearly—

she didn’t cheat by mistake.

No woman “accidentally” gives another man access
to the parts of her life that were supposed to belong to you.

Cheating isn’t a slip.
It’s not a moment of confusion.
It’s a pattern of decisions—
small, calculated choices she made
long before the betrayal became visible.

And I need you to understand this,
because if you don’t,
you’ll spend months believing you could’ve prevented it.
You couldn’t.

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Cheating doesn’t begin in the bed. It begins in the heart.

A woman doesn’t cheat because she tripped into another man’s arms.
She cheats because she opened the door
long before he arrived.

She cheated the moment she entertained his attention.
She cheated when she hid conversations she knew would hurt you.
She cheated the second she let emotional intimacy grow
where it never belonged.

By the time she crossed the final line,
she had already crossed ten smaller ones in her soul.

That is not a mistake, son.
That is preparation.

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Don’t blame yourself for the decisions she made in secret

I know you keep replaying everything—
what you missed,
how you should’ve loved harder,
or what you could’ve done to hold the relationship together.

But hear me clearly:

A loyal woman communicates.
She doesn’t wander.

A faithful woman fights for the relationship.
She doesn’t escape into another man’s arms.

Her cheating wasn’t a reaction to your flaws.
It was a reflection of her character.

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Cheating wounds more than the heart—it wounds a man’s identity

It breaks your confidence.
It shakes your masculinity.
It makes you question your instincts, your value, your intuition.

But the worst thing you can do
is carry the blame for someone else’s betrayal.

Unfaithfulness is never caused by your weakness—
only by her willingness.

She didn’t cheat because you weren’t enough.
She cheated because she never learned how to value what she had.

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Don’t let her tears rewrite the truth

Some women cry because they’re sorry.
Others cry because they got caught.

Some apologize from guilt.
Others apologize from fear—
fear of losing the stability you provided,
fear of losing the life you built,
fear of living without your forgiveness to hide behind.

A woman who cheats and calls it “a mistake”
is trying to shrink the seriousness of her betrayal
so you won’t make her face the consequences.

Son, don’t fall for that.

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Healing doesn’t happen by holding on to who hurt you

You don’t heal by fixing her.
You don’t heal by performing for her.
You don’t heal by making yourself smaller
to keep her from running again.

You heal by remembering who you were
before the pain made you forget your worth.

A loyal heart cannot protect you from a disloyal partner.
But wisdom can prevent you from returning to her.

Walk away with dignity.
Don’t negotiate with betrayal.
Don’t normalize disrespect.

You deserve a woman whose loyalty doesn’t evaporate
when another man gives her attention.
A woman who sees commitment as a covenant,
not a cage.

And until life brings her your way,
heal, grow, and rise.

Because a man who survives betrayal
is capable of surviving anything.

Remember this, son—

**she didn’t cheat by mistake; she cheated by decision.**
And that decision is her burden to carry,
not yours.

—Dad

Marriage Won’t Kill You—But the Wrong Wife Will Bury You Alive

The most dangerous mistake a man can make Is marrying the wrong woman.

As a man, your greatest asset is not your career or your stocks, bonds, or cybertruck.

It's who you choose to build your legacy with.

Because one bad decision at the altar,

You lose 50% of your adult life to mystery

It will can cost your peace, your purpose, your kids, and ultimately your legacy.

Let’s break it down.

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1. A wrong woman adds nothing to your life but will only drain you

She is like a leech who sees a good place to suck from

She is not willing to build with you

She’s only there for the benefit

She wants to be there as the trophy wife

she feeds off your money and glow

While you get drained.

Marry the wrong woman and you just might not recognize yourself when she’s done with you.

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2. The life you think you have built for years, she’ll bring it down in months

You have sacrificed your years by working so hard

You planned your future with so much intentionality

You knew what you wanted for your life

You were on that route until HER.

She came in without understanding your vision

You were doing fine before her

And now, you are walking on eggshells

Because of her constant disrespect and silent treatments when things are not going her way

The crazy part is, your focus starts to run down

Because you are too busy trying to amend fights and not have a broken home

It gets too late before you realize you are not in love but in a war zone.

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3. The wrong woman is a slow poison—she doesn’t kill immediately

Funny enough, she might not be a cheat

She might not divorce you either,

She knows respect is a big deal for a man

So she withholds it from you,

There can’t be two men in a home

But she challenges your leadership

These are enough to disturb your growth as a man

The place you should find peace

Is the reason for your constant headaches

That’s the perks of marrying the wrong woman

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4. A wrong wife will cost you divorce—in worst cases, your destiny

Who needs an enemy when you have one in your house?

She doesn’t see what you see

She can’t understand your vision

Where you are headed to,

every minute you spend trying to explain yourself to someone who refuses to understand you

Is a minute you could’ve been building your life,

You’ll spend years trying to help a short sighted woman who can’t even see your worth.

And all because you married someone who didn’t believe in

Or more, couldn’t see where you were going.

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5. She’s not a multiplier, she’s a substraction

Women are naturally multipliers,
The saying is accurate, you give a woman a house

She makes it a home

But the wrong woman?

She a big subtraction!

She takes your energy,your money

and your focus.

In return, she gives you stress

You spend more time explaining and patching emotional tantrums

At a point, you start praying for silence

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6. Give a wrong woman a ring and watch her weaponize it

That’s what she’s good at,

Manipulation and gaslighting

And of course, she knows she has the backing of the law.

Society won’t see her misbehaviors

Even when you speak,

There goes the expected phrase “Man up”

Her best way to ruin you is to leave

You lose half your assets

And still pay for child support

In worst cases, you will lose access to your children
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7. Dear men, you future is too important to marry the wrong wife

Marriage is not just about love,

It’s a ministry, a convenient

And if you marry wrong

You are not just putting yourself at the risk of hurt

But of losing EVERTYTHING

Because marrying the wrong woman is like being locked with retrogression .

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Final Word:

For a man, you dont need a woman that just needs you

You need a woman that sees you

And when I say this, I mean she sees beyond who you currently are

And who you are growing into

You need a woman who respects, supports and brings peace to your life.

Because a wise man once told me

Marriage is one of the greatest decisions you can make

Marry the wrong spouse and you are standing the chance of losing 50% of your life.

Choose wisely.

The Entitled Woman Will Eventually Make You Pay for Loving Her

At first, she’ll look like everything you prayed for.
Soft voice. Sweet energy. Warm smiles.
She’ll say she wants love, partnership, and a real future.

But look deeper—

She doesn’t want love.
She wants a lifestyle.
She wants a man to **finance the fantasy she created in her head.**

And when that fantasy fades,
you’ll learn the truth the hard way:

The entitled woman never loved you.
She loved what you could give.

Let’s break it down.

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1. She Mistakes Your Sacrifice for Service

You give — she demands more.
You try — she moves the goalpost.
You love — she calls it “bare minimum.”

To her, effort is not appreciated.
It’s expected.
Your sacrifice becomes her standard.
Your generosity becomes her entitlement.

And the more you give,
the less she respects you.

Because the entitled woman doesn’t see your effort —
she sees her advantage.

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2. She Wants the Throne Without Wearing the Crown

She wants to be treated like a queen,
but refuses to act like one.

You lead — she argues.
You provide — she complains.
You plan — she calls it controlling.
You correct — she calls it oppression.

She wants your loyalty without giving you peace.
Your protection without giving you respect.
Your strength without offering submission.

And when you finally start protecting your sanity,
she’ll say,
“You changed.”

But all you did was stop betraying yourself.

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3. She Loves the Benefits — Not the Man

She doesn’t see you.
She sees what you offer.

Your time.
Your money.
Your energy.
Your stability.

You’re not her partner.
You’re her provider disguised as her peace.

And the day the benefits slow down,
so will her affection.

Because her love was not emotional —
it was economical.

And once her gains expire,
her loyalty expires with it.

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4. She Weaponizes the Love You Gave Freely

You open up.
You trust her.
You confide in her.
You expose your scars.

But to an entitled woman,
vulnerability isn’t connection —
it’s leverage.

When she’s angry,
she’ll use your confessions to cut you.
When she wants control,
she’ll remind you of what she “put up with.”
When she wants power,
she’ll punish you with silence and guilt.

She doesn’t nurture your heart.
She negotiates with it.

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5. You’ll Pay for Loving Her — In More Than Money

You’ll pay with peace.
With time.
With self-esteem.
With sleep you’ll never get back.
With effort she never remembers.

Because loving an entitled woman
is entering a one-sided contract
where she writes the rules
and you carry the consequences.

And the cruelest part?

When she finally leaves,
she will still find a way
to tell the world *you failed her.*

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# # **Final Word**

The entitled woman doesn’t destroy men with hate —
she destroys them with expectations.

She turns your love into a duty,
your effort into obligation,
and your presence into proof
that she deserves more.

She drains your heart,
empties your peace,
and leaves you questioning your worth.

So hear this clearly:

Don’t fall for the woman who believes love is owed to her.
Fall for the woman who’s grateful it was given.

Because the entitled one?
She’ll always make you pay for loving her —
as if your kindness was a crime.

The 4 Types of Women Who Will Ruin You Faster Than Debt

A man’s greatest downfall isn’t always his enemies

It’s the woman he lets into his life.

Because the wrong woman doesn’t just cost you peace

She costs you your joy, money

and sometimes, your whole life.

Lets talk about it;

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1. The woman that feigns Independence—but Still Wants You to Fund Her Life

She says, “I don’t need a man”

But somehow, she still expects you to pay for

Her rent, vacations,

And even, foot her lifestyle bills

This type of woman is not looking for a partner

She’s looking for an ATM,

And the moment you stop funding her lifestyle?

All love drains and you are left wondering where all her promises ran to.

She was never interested in you,

She was focused on what you could offer,

These type of ladies,

They’re leeches sent to suck men dry.

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2. The one that’s the victim in every story—she’s never at fault.

Haven’t you noticed?

Every story she tells makes her the good one

Or the one that’s always hurt.

Her ex was the toxic one

And her friends?

They are always jealous of her

She has gained a diploma in shifting blames

And the day you disagree with her

You become the villain in her next story.

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3. The Entitled woman—she believes she’s the catch

The woman that believes she’s the catch,

She believes that all your life should be lived for her

And whatever she demands of you should be done,

It begins from the day you assist in paying for her groceries and rent

It became a constant thing she expects you to do at all times

And when you don’t?

She gets angry and threaten to leave

That’s not just entitlement,

It’s manipulation.

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4. The woman who sees your vision but doesn’t understand it.

She’s there for the thrill,

and the sweetness that comes with being with you

But tell her your goals for the next five years

And it all sounds like gibberish to her

She tells you she sees it

But she wants you to relax and have fun

Why?

Because life is not meant to be taken with seriousness

Such a woman will ruin you

She sees your vision but she’s not willing to be there and push you to do better.

She’s not there to build with you

She’s there for the fun of it.

And the moment she can’t get it?

She says, “you are no fun”

And moves on to the next.

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Final Word:

Men don’t fall because of weakness

They fall because of misplaced priorities and women,

These women don’t just waste your time

They drain your energy, your resources and your purpose.

Sometimes the best relationship advice is simple

It says, it’s better to walk alone than be dragged by the wrong woman.