Jaiyeola Fiyinfoluwa

Partners who consistently avoid conflict in a relationship are a significant red flag.

Avoiding conflicts is often a toxic trait. You cannot truly gauge the strength of your relationship until you confront a disagreement. Conflicts and misunderstandings unveil the real character of the person you're dating or considering marrying. If you have never faced any conflict or argument since the beginning of your relationship, that is not a sign of peace; it’s a warning sign. Until your partner is provoked, you don’t know how they will respond.

Do not marry someone whose reaction to anger you haven't witnessed. Some people will present a facade of tranquility until after you say “I do.”

Partners who tolerate toxic behaviors without voicing their concerns tend to be emotionally unstable. While a peaceful relationship is possible, it is exceptionally rare to find one devoid of conflict and misunderstandings.

You may have seen individuals who, the moment they are hurt or their boundaries are crossed, cut you off entirely without any communication. They won't confront you or explain their feelings; they simply disappear. This is a toxic behavior and is far from mature. Marrying someone like this means risking a life filled with silent treatment—living under the same roof while they emotionally block you out.

How can you apologize and make amends if your partner can’t communicate how your actions hurt them?

If you are not ready to face healthy conflicts, arguments, or misunderstandings, stay single. If you believe you would be better off without a partner, then absolutely do not marry.

Understand this: conflict and disagreements will reveal your relationship's true strength and your partner’s true character. You must know how they will react when they feel cornered. If they show signs of abuse or violence, heed this warning—you are about to enter a marriage filled with high toxicity.

Be aware and make your choices wisely.

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At first, Odogwu left his bed for Chioma and slept in the chair

At 2nd time, Odogwu still rejected Chioma's sexual advances.

After spending a lot of money, he still held his dignity high...

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At first, Odogwu left his bed for Chioma and slept in the chair

At 2nd time, Odogwu still rejected Chioma's sexual advances.

After spending a lot of money, he still held his dignity high...

But someone with less than a 100k account balance will want to pin someone's daughter to the wall because of 1k shawarma

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This movie...the unforgetable line that stood out for me was when Odogwu said..

"Because I'm upset with you does not mean I should be mean to you"

Emotions are not a license to be cruel.

Being upset is normal. Disagreements happen. But the real test of love and maturity is how we handle our emotions when we’re hurt.

The fact that I’m upset with you doesn’t mean I should tear you down with my words, give you the silent treatment, or make you feel unworthy.

Too many relationships have been damaged, not because of the conflict itself, but because of how people react to it. Anger fades, but the words spoken in anger can linger for a lifetime.

Love is tested in the moments when it’s hardest to show.

Disagree, express your feelings, but don’t lose sight of the respect and kindness that your relationship is built on.

I hope we all learn to be kind in our anger.

"The fact that I am upset with you doesn't mean I should be unkind." - Odogwu Delulu.

Remember, any issue you face is you and your partner on one team against the issue on the other side.

Don't be unkind because you're upset.

If You Are a Single Lady Who Wishes to Get Married Someday, This Is for You

I have always seen posts on social media where people say, “Ladies marry who is ready, not who they love.”

This comes from real-life experiences where some married women end up having affairs with their former lovers.

Beloved sister, as an elder brother, let me speak to you. Your biological clock is different from that of a man. You will experience menopause; we will not. Society places a certain expectation on you, and when you are not married at a particular age, the pressure can begin to make you look older than you are.

So time is of the essence, and you must be wise.

You see all those “let’s see how it goes” relationships? You do not need them. Do not start an adventure in the wrong direction. By the time you realize where it is leading, you may have wasted five years and ended up as the victim.

If you stay, there is no guarantee he will marry you. If you leave, society may call you an opportunist. If care is not taken, you might find yourself trapped in a strange dilemma.

This is why I always advise you to enter a relationship when you are ready for marriage and with someone who is also ready—not just saying they are ready but showing it.

He should have something he is doing, a place to stay or the resources to get one, and a clear desire for marriage with you. Do not just fall for faith talks and sweet words.

Ask questions. If you do not get satisfactory answers, please enjoy your singleness. Serve God, develop yourself, and wait patiently for the right person.

Stop sharing your heart like Suya. Purpose first before partner. Good men still exist. They are looking for women of value. Place value on yourself, and you will see them come around.

Once again, this message is strictly for ladies who desire to get married.

I am your teacher. I have been around for a while, and I know these things.

Please show this to the ladies around you.
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