Ndidiamaka Munachimso

Can love be the hardest thing to find or replace?👇

Yes. Love can be one of the hardest thing to find and one of the hardest thing to replace. Not necessarily because there is only one person you could ever love, but because genuine love involves a particular combination of trust, emotional safety, shared history, attraction, timing, and mutual understanding. Once you've experienced that combination, another relationship can feel very different.

And replacing someone isn't really the goal. A new love doesn't have to replace am old one. It can become something different and meaningful in its own. Sometimes the hardest part isn't finding another person, it's becoming emotionally open enough to believe that something good can happen again.
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BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:👇

1. Some people earn a lot more than you in regular jobs because they have better opportunities.

2. Distractions are the biggest enemy of success. They hurt your ability to think.

3. Don’t listen to advice from people who aren’t where you want to be in life.

4. No one is going to solve your problems for you. It’s completely your responsibility.

5. You don’t need a hundred self-help books. You just need to take action and be disciplined.

6. If you didn’t go to college for a specific job (like a doctor or engineer), you can learn sales and make more money in 90 days.

7. Nobody really cares about you, so don’t be shy. Go out and make your own opportunities.

8. If you meet someone smarter than you, work with them instead of competing.

9. Smoking is not helpful. It will make you think slower and lose focus.

10. Being too comfortable can lead to bad habits and feeling down.

11. Don’t share too much information about yourself. Keep some things private.

12. Stay away from alcohol. It can make you lose control and act foolishly.

13. Always have high standards and don’t accept things just because they are easy to get.

14. The family you build is more important than the family you were born into.

15. Train yourself not to take things personally. It can help you avoid most mental issues.

16. If you don’t cut out distractions, they will keep you from reaching your goals.

*Stay positive and be your true self.*

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Some Realities of life that people don't want to accept:👇

1. Life pro tip: stop expecting.

2. The more you hide your feelings, the more deeply you feel them.

3. Forgiveness is accepting the apology you will never receive.

4. Everything we say at funerals should be said at birthday parties instead.

5. Real ones stay during bad times.

6. At some point, you’ll have to realize that some people won’t be ready for your love.

7. Growing sometimes means leaving people behind.

8. Change is scary but so is staying the same.

9. Letting people lose you instead of trying to convince them of your worth hits different.

10. Just because today wasn’t your day doesn’t mean tomorrow won’t be :)

20 sentences that will maximize your social intelligence👇

1. To solve an issue quickly, be soft on the person and hard on the problem.

2. Pretend everyone was sent to teach you something.

3. Pause in speaking + eye contact = confidence.

4. Make people feel important with the SHR Method: Seen, Heard, Remembered.

5. A person's favorite sound is their name, so remember it (h/t Dale Carnegie).

6. "Praise publicly. Criticize privately." -Warren Buffett

7. To give feedback, first make the other person feel you care about them.

8. "Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments." -Neil Strauss

9. The best networking strategy is a helping others first strategy.

10. Loneliness is a silent pandemic; assume people want to meet you.

11. Practice going first, e.g., "Hi, I'm Ben."

12. Build the habit of responding with "Yes, and" because it advances their idea.

13. Avoid complaining or gossiping (nobody likes to hear it).

14. Storytelling is a superpower; use a structure like setup, tension, & resolution.

15. Every dog has its day because dogs are friendly (lesson in there).

16."The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life." -E. Perel

17. To discover blindspots, build an inner circle that will give you honest feedback.

18. Normalize "I don't know anything about that yet" as a successful answer.

19. Record and study your speaking like an athlete watching game film.

20. "Great leaders create more leaders, not followers." Ndidiamaka Munachimso

What did you learn from "rich dad and poor dad"?

The Poor and Middle class work for Money, while the Rich have Money work for them
Pay Yourself First
It doesn’t matter how much you make; It only matters how much you keep that matters
Reduce Expenses and Liabilities
Aim for more Valuable Assets
Reinvest Excess Cash
Sorround Yourself with People who are Smarter than You
Learn to Listen
Quit Bad Habits
To Become Financially Free, You have to Mind Your Own Business
The Richest People in the world look for and build NETWORKS. Everyone else look for work.
Don’t waste a Good Mistake… LEARN FROM IT
Don’t be afraid of Your Worst Times. If You Learn from them You will Look Back on the… AS THE BEST TIME.
Rich People have BIG Libraries, Poor People have Big TV’s