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APOLOGY CANNOT OPEN THE DOOR DISRESPECT CLOSED,THE AXE FORGET BUT THE TREE REMEMBER .

KITCHEN TIPS YOU NEED TO KNOW

1. Never store Onions and Potatoes together because both produce a gas that causes either of them to spoil quickly.

2. Put two or three orange leaves in your hot palm oil on the fire. Let the leaves turn black before removing it. By then your palm oil becomes pure groundnut oil also giving your food a nice taste.

3. To avoid feeling a peppering hotness on your hands after cutting pepper with bare hand scrub your hand with salt and red oil then wash it.

4. If you happen to over salt a pot of soup, just drop in a peeled potato. The potato will absorb the excess salt.

5. If your Soup or Stew goes sour while warming it, add little piece of Charcoal and remove after warming, the taste will come back.

6. Never put citrus fruits (oranges, lemon, lime, etc) or tomatoes in the fridge. The low temperature degrades the aroma and flavor of these fruits.

7. When storing empty airtight containers, throw in a pinch of salt to keep them from getting stinky.

8. If your salt is becoming lumpy, put a few grains of rice in with it to absorb excess moisture.

9. To reuse cooking oil without tasting whatever was cooked in the oil previously, cook a 1/4" piece of ginger in the oil. It will remove any remaining flavors and odors.
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Hope you learnt something

FACT ABOUT SHY PEOPLE

1. They can talk and chat openly even crack jokes with you on social media but in real life they are ice😩

2. They fit pass you for road simply because of their shyness🙍🏻‍♀️. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding🤦‍♀️

3. Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over because they don't joke with that person😘

4. They hardly cheat💯. Before you see them, dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people and always like staying alone👌🏽.

5. They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their lovely one.
People usually sees them as too proud people but they are not.

6. They can endure alot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide🤔, you have lost them kpatakpata✌🏽.

7. They are too emotional😥. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them🌝.

8. They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through😒

9. You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them🤗
They are unpredictable and stubborn😎

If you're in this table, gather here let's know ourselves.
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Me alone 🥰😍

NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY

*ANYONE THAT ANNOYS YOU* --is teaching you patience and calmness.

*ANYONE THAT ABANDONS YOU* --is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.

*ANYBODY THAT OFFENDS YOU* --is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.

*ANYTHING THAT YOU HATE* --is teaching you, unconditional love.

*ANYTHING THAT YOU FEAR* --is teaching you the courage to overcome your fears.

*ANYTHING YOU CAN'T CONTROL* --is teaching you to let go.

*ANY "NO" YOU GET FROM HUMAN* --is teaching you to be independent.

*ANY PROBLEM YOU'RE FACING* --is teaching you how to get a solution to problems.

*ANY ATTACK YOU GET FROM PEOPLE* --is teaching you the best form of defence.

*ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU* --is teaching you to look up to CREATOR ( *GOD* ).

Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.
Be polite, calm, gentle and thankful to God because He will be with you to the end.
Life had taught me lessons. I do not see people at my cross road, because humans are not reliable. I only see God as the author and finisher of my faith.

*R E F L E C T I O N S*
*When you live your life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.*

*The beauty of life, is that it comes with disappointments and betrayals, from people you least expect.*

*Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time crying over these betrayals and disappointments, and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.*

*Remember One Thing:* *Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain. You are only hurting yourself.*

*The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid and ungrateful people, and you will always come across them at one point or another in life. But the best thing to do, is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.*

*You can’t get everyone to love you, think like you or behave like you... never.*

*We must learn to tolerate and overlook certain things, we must try to bury the faults of others and move on with life.*

*Anger, Hatred and Intolerance have caused most of the world's problems and solved none.*

*Life is short, you don't know how much time you have left*

*I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you hold grudges against, and iron out your grievances.*

*Muster the courage and apologise to that person you have offended.*

*Life is not measured by the amount of money, houses or companies you have, but by the positive impact you have made in the lives of others.*

REMAIN BLESSED 🙏🏿❤️

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BY AGE 35. YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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When I say "I love you more", I don't mean I love you more than you love me.

❤️ I mean, I love you more than the bad days ahead of us.

❤️ I love you more than any fight we will ever have.

❤️ I love you more than the distance between us

❤️ I love you more than any obstacle that could try and come between us.

❤️ I love you the most.

Let me just share this piece from Chinua Achebe's Things Fall Apart:

"... after Okonkwo took the case of the theft of his mkpara to ndị Ichie, he was convinced that he would get his property back, afterall, these were elders stricken with age with grey hairs to shun gainsayers.

Okonkwo was elated when these great custodians of the traditions and customs of the land summoned Ikeogu to explain why he took that which belonged to another man. Both men were to appear before the elders in the next Eke market day.

Okonkwo went home a happy man, praying the gods will help ndị Ichie to do the right thing. Ikeogu went home alarmed for he sensed disgrace was afoot. He, however, decided to use his special charm on the elders before the appointed day. Ikeogu was well known to have the best ọka in the land, and he took baskets of this to the elders as "prayers" for their forefathers.

Eke is here. Okonkwo went and stood before the elders, as did Ikeogu.
"Bịa, Okonkwo, did you say Ikeogu stole your mkpara?" Asked one of the elders. "Ee, nna anyị", he responded.
"Did you see him enter your house to steal the mkpara?" An elder queried.
"Ichie, I did not see him but my neighbours saw him, in fact, if you take a look at the mkpara, you will see my family's carvings on it."
"Slow down Okonkwo, those neighbours of yours who said they saw Ikeogu, what were they doing around your compound? Or, were they expecting Ikeogu to come to your house that day to steal?" Another Ichie enquired.
"Ichie, I cannot answer that, in fact, even Ikeogu is not denying his crime."
"Mechie ọnụ gị, this boy, shut your mouth!" boomed the voice of Ichie Mmiri.

"But ndị Ichie, you can see the mkpara has my family's markings and I do not have another mkpara at home, this is mine."
"Eh? Really?" quipped another Ichie. "So you think it's only your family that has these markings in the entire clan, ọkwa ya? Besides, those your neighbours, it appears they just gathered to observe what's going to happen to your house, they were expecting Ikeogu to rob you, who does that?"
"But, my elders, can't you at least ask Ikeogu to swear..."
"Swear what, Okonkwo?" Thundered Ichie Mmiri. "In fact, just go home forget the mkpara, and allow Ikeogu to take care of it. Ndị Ichie, are we in agreement?"
"Eeh! Yes!" They all chanted in unison.

Okonkwo went home a sad man and prayed that his ancestors will retrieve his stolen mkpara..."

Chinua Achebe wrote this over six decades ago precisely in 1958, and it has played out in real life today at the supreme court.

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;

16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;

17. Never give advice until you’re asked;

18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;

19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;

20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and

21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message".

APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have....
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Women who genuinely support other women… HEY Queen 🥰👑💐☝🏿🫶🏽💕✨

I want u now by faith, tell yourself that" Am not a failure,am not a bagger and am not a candidate of sickness my time has come."

DISCOVER HOW WOMEN ARE BRA!NWASH INTO ACCEPTING EMOTIONAL V!OLENCE...part 1

At a Church wedding service, the officiating Pastor admonished the couples to preserve their marriage because divorce was not contemplated at the creation of the marriage institutions.
So, the watchwords are endurance.
“Guard your marriage against d!vorce with the weapons of endurance, tolerance, patience, and submission”.

The pastor indoctrinated in the name of solemnization of the holy matrimony in fear. Take note, the pastor intoned, “Young lady, the bride, today we are here celebrating your beauty and character because you have found a man, dear to your heart, now we joined you in marriage.

Remember, you will face the greatest shock and shame if you dare, under any circumstances, return to your parents’ house, you will be den!grated and d*press*d. You may even d!e. So, no matter how bad, stay in your marriage. Bear everything that confronts your marriage day in and day out.
Endure attitudes and id!osyncras!es. No retreat. No surrender.

Marriage is a covenant. It must not be broken. There is no more room for you in your father’s house. Marriage is “going away from your parents, and his house, to face forever what your husband serves to you daily, good or bad”.

Take this to heart, my dear daughter, the bride; “ nobody will listen to excuses or explanations, as reasons for d!vorce. You will be laughed at. Scorn*d. D!sregarded. To be safe, do what your husband tells you to do at all times.

Avo!d what is to be avo!ded. Because your husband !s the head of the fam!ly. Keep your eyes on the ball- no d!vorce. You are not returning to your father’s house after the solemnization of this holy matrimony, today.

I was stunned because of the pastor-infused fear in the said Marriage. From that day, she carried the burden of dy!ng in silence.
Readers is marriage an endurance race ?