Toyor's Diary

You have two girlfriends.
One is beautiful but always angry.
The other is calm but too clingy.
Men choose your destiny.

You have two friends.
One always disappears when you need help.
The other appears only when they need ur help.
choose one.

Two mothers-in-law.
One sides with her son in every argument.
The other involves the whole family in your issues.
Pick one.

You have two suitors.
Both are doing well.
One has pride, the other has anger issues.
Choose one.

Not every struggling relationship is failing.

Some relationships are just growing through uncomfortable stages.

The real question is: are both people still willing to grow together?

Another day to remind you that you mean nothing to a man who already has a wife at home.

One of the saddest feelings is watching someone slowly lose interest while you’re still trying your best to keep the connection alive.

Sometimes the energy changes before the words do.

How to win a cheating man's heart back:

1. Don't argue, cry, cling to him or beg him to stop. Silence treatment is a weakness to all men. 😐

2. Deny him access to your body and focus on yourself. 🤐

3. Don't ask for answers. Just pull back and let him chase the reconciliation. 😒

4. Give him consequences he never saw coming. Not punishments, just boundaries. ✨

5. Glow up quietly. Get prettier, get busier, get happy, get mysterious. Let him see what he lost. 🌺

6. When he comes back, make him work for access. A cheating man needs structure, not softness. 👌

The wist:
If you do these, he will come back. But the question is do you still want him?

Top 10 mistakes you should never make as a woman.

1) Never be in a rush to move in with a man before marriage. It's a trap, 90% of the time.

2) Never let him know you depend solely on him for everything...or he'll start losing respect for you.

3) Never be in a rush to spill every detail of your past or secrets. Hell surely use it against you one day.

4) Never allow a man to instigate you against your family or friends. In the end you might end up lonely and isolated.

5) Never try to teach a man how to be a man. You might have to teach him forever.

6) Don't do wifey duties or get pregnant for a man when you're still just a girlfriend. He might not be seeing any future with you.

7) Never disrespect your parents or family because of a man or in presence of him, you may regret it in the end.

8) Don't stay with a man when you notice signs of violence in him. Most of them are wired that way and would probably never change.

9) Don't choose the man you love over a man that loves you. The man that loves you would do anything for you, the man you love will only show up when it's convenient.

10) Don't forget to build your own life, money, and confidence. You'll be glad you did in the long run.

A real woman protects her peace, standards, confidence, and future.