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Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Mvuseni Makhaye, Jhonel Acibes

Good day family

Dear Lady, allow your breast to fall...

Let your breast fall. Yes, you heard me right. Let it fall, and be comfortable with it.

This is a topic we don’t talk about enough, and that’s why so many of us, as women, have quietly carried low self-esteem. We were told the wrong things. We were fed lies.

Growing up, many of us were made to believe that when a woman’s breast is not standing or firm, it’s because she has been touched by someone, that she has had s*x or done “too much.”

Some even say the only reason a woman’s breast will fall is because she has breastfed a baby.

But why didn’t they tell us the truth?

Why didn’t they tell us that growth happens in stages?

Why didn’t they tell us that age plays a role?

Why didn’t they tell us that body size, genes, hormones, and even a natural body chemical called estrogen can make the breast lose its firmness over time and that it’s completely normal?

Why didn’t they tell us that we all have different body types, and so we shouldn’t expect the same results?

Instead, we were taught to judge ourselves.

We were taught to look at a girl with firm breasts and say, “She must be a virgin.”

And to look at another girl with sagging breasts and assume she has “been around.”

We were not told that her body may just be maturing differently. That it may simply be her reality, and not a result of any sin or mistake.

Let me be clear...
This is not me promoting premarital s*x.

This is not me saying you shouldn’t take care of your body.

This is me saying, let the whole truth be told.

Stop making young women feel ashamed of their bodies.

Stop pushing us into surgeries, risky creams, and fake lives because we feel “not enough.”

Because let’s be honest, a lot of women who go under the knife aren’t doing it for themselves.

They’re doing it because of what society made them believe.

Because of what you said. Because of what they laughed at.

Not everyone has the strength to ignore those voices. Some believe them. And it changes

Happy Sunday

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Ra Ni Jay, Jhonel Acibes