TemmyT.

There is a strange kind of loneliness in marriage:

Being heard, but not understood.

Your spouse knows what you said.

They just don't understand why it matters so much to you.

That gap deserves conversation—not another argument.

Some mornings don't need motivation.
They need direction.
May God make yours clear today. 🙏🏽

Put this in mind as you go to bed cos many are guilty of this..

One day your parents may stop asking you for things.

Don't mistake their silence for not needing you.

Before asking, “Why doesn't my spouse understand me?

Ask

“Have I ever explained what I need without turning it into an accusation?

Your salary pays for your time.

Your reputation determines what people trust you with next.

Protect both.

Sometimes the opportunity you keep praying for would require you to become the person you're currently avoiding becoming.

Think about that.

If someone hurts you but genuinely changes afterward, should their past behaviour continue to define how you see them?

Yes or no—and why?