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When it comes to Genuine relationship,.You should not have to Constantly Fight for Basic Love,. Loyalty.. Friendship does not mean there will never be Disagreement or difficult seasons,. true friendship does not mean who is adding more effort to the relationship,. just play your role,..and in true friendship, you should not have to beg someone to care,.or Complete for attention,. attention should come naturally, you don't have to fake it to look like real.

Stop Chasing and Simply Observe who makes the Effort when you stop doing all the WORK,..Who is there with you when you are not active,.. Know your place,. Respect THEIRS,..and protect your peace because the right people will not make you feel like you have to FIGHT every day just to remain in their LIVES, NO..think, about it..

Refuse to make difficult and negative people the Center of your attention,.. every Hour you spend Obsessing Over someone's behavior is an hour you could have spent improving your own life,.. Your energy is limited,. Invest it wisely,. Focus on your goals,. Celebrate the people who inspire you learn from those who are ahead of you,.. Support the people who are growing along side with You,.

Learning to say"NO" is one of the most important BOUNDARIES You can develop,..You don't have to accept every INVITATION,..You don't have to agree with every request,..You don't have to give your Time,. Money, Energy or Attention,.. Simply because someone expects it from you and you don't have always owe people a long explanation for your decision,.. Sometimes " NO" is a Complete answer,.

Stop expecting Perfection from yourself and from others,.None of us has all the answers,..None of us gets everything right,.We all make mistakes,.we all have flaws,.we all carry strength and weaknesses that shapes who we are,.. that is what makes us humans..so,stop expecting Perfection from anyone or anywhere.. because nobody is perfect..

Treat people with care if you value the best they have to offer because once that version of them is gone,.it may never return,.Once you treat someone in a certain way,. Don't expect the same energy initially gave you,. that version of them is no longer available,. from now on...You will receive the energy you created,.. always give back the same energy that was given to you,..

The way you treat people shapes the relationship you will have with them,.when someone shows up with kindness,. trust and genuine efforts,. they are offering a version of themselves that is open,. generous and willing to invest in the connection,. that energy is a gift not a GUARANTEE,.

People who become angry simply because you said "NO" may be more upset about losing access to you than they are about your actual Decision,.. Stop treating your boundaries like something you need Permission to have,. Protect your peace,. Protect your time,.time is precious don't waste it or trade it for anything,. make good use of your time,. Protect your energy,in this September protect what belongs to you..

In this new month of September,. Build a life you genuinely enjoy,.. Don't live a fake life style,.. even if nobody is watching you, let your success be meaningful to you, Let your choice reflect your Values,. Let your peace be more important than your IMAGE,. because TRUE freedom begins when you no longer need an Audience to feel Worthy,. because,you will never be free until you have no need to IMPRESS ANYONE,. LET keep September Positive,.

IN THIS NEW MONTH OF SEPTEMBER,..Meet new people,. Remember, Variety and Diversity is the SPICE of Life,.the more you Learn from other people the more you can relate to them,..You don't have to agree with everyone you meet in this month of September,..You don't have to adopt every belief or Lifestyle you encounter,..You simply need to remain CURIOUS Enough to Listen and humble enough to learn new things in this new month..
HAPPY NEW MONTH EVERYONE., Remain blessed and Motivated.