Oyiza 4 life

Dear parents, tell your daughters the truth about marriage, not just the wedding.

I thought that marriage is having së.x every night.

I never knew that there are times your husband will be completely broke.

I thought marriage was Netflix, cuddles and cute matching outfits.

I didn’t know that marriage is work. Real work.

I didn’t know that love is not enough.

I didn’t know that “I’m a wife now” comes with weight.

I didn’t know that sometimes, even with a good man, you’ll still cry.

So dear parents, please sit your girl child down, tell her the truth.

Tell her that marriage is not a fairy tale.

Tell her that some days she’ll give more than she receives.

Tell her that her husband will not always be strong.

Tell her that being a helper is not just a title, it’s a job description.

Because some of us walked into marriage with romantic pictures.

But reality humbled us.

Marriage is beautiful but only when you understand the assignment.

Our Marriages must work.

Stella Justice, the celebrity lawyer.

Thank you Sir.
MY TAKE: ADDRESSING ABDULHAMID DFLOWERBOY'S PROLONGED REMAND

Most times I chose to observe from a distance, even though I am "within". And I will not forgive myself if I don't speak out on this matter.
Attached below are some of the comments made by the young man in question. After carefully reviewing them, I asked myself: "where is the lie? "
I have concluded that this young man is suffering not because of falsehoods, but due to his inability to navigate the law in his favor and the betraying silence of the affected appointees who lack the courage to speak up.
His accusations, if properly channelled, is deserving of investigation by the government, with remedies applied where necessary.
His Excellency, Alhaji Ahmed Usman Ododo, seeks to work with people and followers who will speak the bitter truth for the good of Kogi State.
As a citizen, I have ignored false posts about myself and taken corrections from those that are critically true. While we are all different, I urge the Accountant General to release this young man and let him face his conscience, if indeed she is not guilty of the accusations leveled against her.
As appointees of H.E. Alhaji Ahmed Usman Ododo, we must embody the principles of our principal, remain open to his followers, and work to grow his support base, not engage in actions that are inimical to his image.
Unfortunately, I must use this platform to address this issue, as she has not been receptive to private counsel.
It is pertinent to note that her numerous unchecked actions can potentially undermine the gains painstakingly recorded by the good works of H.E Alh. Usman Ododo , and this has prompted my public response.
Let it be clear: I am not condoning any wrongdoing. However, in tandem with the lessons I have learnt from His Excellency, Alh. Ahmed Usman Ododo a man who loathe any form of injustice, if this youngman remains in detention, I will have no choice but to seek legal intervention to ensure justice is serve

I WILL MARRY YOU

Sister i will marry you is not marriage, give me your mummy's number is not marriage. I just spoke with every1 in your family even your ancestor is not marriage. I sent some stuff to your parents is still not marriage. Haven't you seen my people? Is still not marriage.

My mum is fond of you, is not marriage, i love the way you cook, you will make a good wife, is still not marriage.

My parent and siblings can't stop talking about you, my dear that is still not marriage. I have engaged you, so you have nothing to worry about, that is not marriage.

Untill he come and pay your bride price, perfect the wedding plans and take you home, that is when you are assured to be his wife.

Till then, you leave your heart opened, be wise in all you do and remember not to engrossed in wifey acts for who is not worth it(you are not a wife yet )

Don't place your mind on anybody who is not yet married to you and stop bragging that he's yours yet.

Sister you are the daughter of a respected man and a future wife to another. Don't let young boys fool you into their temporary lust. You know your worth.

Note: Marriage is what happens inside the home not on social media Signed!✅

12 LAWS OF KARMA

1. THE GREAT LAW
What ever we put into the universe will come back to us.

2. THE LAW OF CREATION
Life doesn't happen by itself, we need to make it happen.

3. THE LAW OF HUMILITY
One must accept something in order to change it.

4. THE LAW OF GROWTH
When we change ourselves our lives follow suit and change too.

5. THE LAW OF RESPONSIBILITY
We must take responsibility for what is in our lives.

6. THE LAW OF CONNECTION
The past, present and future are all connected.

7. THE LAW OF FOCUS
We cannot think of two different things at the same time.

8. THE LAW OF GIVING AND HOSPITALITY
Our behavior should match our thoughts and actions.

9. THE LAW OF HERE AND NOW
One cannot be present if they are looking backward.

10. THE LAW OF CHANGE
History repeats itself until we learn from it and change our path.

11. THE LAW OF PATIENCE AND REWARD
The most valuable rewards require persistance.

12. THE LAW OF SIGNIFICANCE AND INSPIRATION
Rewards are a direct result of the energy and effort we put into it.

"My First Child Was a Baby Girl, I L00st Her Because I Couldn’t Afford Hospital Bills" – Ibrahim Chatta Opens Up on the Painnful L0ss and How He Met Olayinka Solomon

Everything in my life came late. I got into school four years after I should have. By then, my mates were almost graduating. My younger sister got married early and kept moving forward. I felt left behind. I didn’t fail WAEC. I always scored above 200, but UNIBEN kept rejecting me.

Each time I tried to go to school, my dad would say maybe it was time to marry. Suitors had already started coming 15 years ago. I felt tired and confused. Maybe school wasn’t for me after all.

But my mother kept praying. She would always say, “None of my children will marry a cockroach husband.” People laughed, but she didn’t stop. Her words stayed with me.

Today, I’m an actress. I’m married. My sister is married too. And just like my mother prayed, we didn’t marry cockroach husbands.

– Ekene Umenwa

BE CAREFUL WHEN TAKING PHOTOS OF NEWBORNS!!*

This morning, I was called to the home of one Alhaji to examine a baby girl who was born three weeks ago.

When I arrived at the house:

They complained to me that the baby girl seems to have trouble seeing. Since the day of her naming ceremony up to the time I'm sharing this message, her parents have noticed that she doesn't respond to light or to hand movements near her eyes or face.

Because of this, I suggested they consult a pediatrician at Nassarawa Hospital. I called a pediatrician and explained the situation, but he said this case should rather be seen by an eye specialist.

The surprising part that made me share this with you is what the eye specialist said when I called him. He asked, "Did they have a naming ceremony at home?" I said, "Yes, they did, and it was well attended."

Then he said that it's now being observed that many babies who had home naming ceremonies, where the husband’s and wife’s relatives took pictures of the newborns with their phones, end up with visual problems. The flash from phone cameras, especially during the early days or first one or two months of life, can damage the retina—the part of the eye that sends visual information to the brain.

This happens because relatives often insist that the baby open their eyes for a photo, and at that moment, the flash from the phone’s camera can harm the baby's retina.

Taking photos of a baby during the naming ceremony can potentially cause permanent blindness.

Please, let’s be careful. And let’s educate parents and relatives about the dangers of insisting that a newborn open their eyes for photos.

Please share this message so others can benefit.