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If you don’t LOSE YOUR BREATH before picking up that phone call, make I bend 🤣🤣🤣🤣….

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I literally almost fainted and cried for several hours afterwards 😫😫😭😭😭….. Sometimes, being careful isn’t enough when they start moving ….. Mums can relate 💯💯

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And the funniest part is, most mums don’t even use that time to do anything “exciting.” Except you have a business or work remotely, we just want to sleep some more 👏👏
Yes or Yes? 🤣

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Every mother is figuring motherhood out in real time, whether she just had her first baby or has raised children for years. No two children are the same, and what works beautifully for one child may completely fail for another. That’s why motherhood needs more grace and less pressure. Advice can come from a good place, but sometimes too many opinions can quietly make a mother feel like she’s constantly getting it wrong. And over time, that can slowly chip away at her confidence, even when she knows her child better than anyone else.
If I were to start motherhood again, one thing I would fight harder to overcome is the fear of being judged by other mothers❤️❤️… Especially in African homes where everybody naturally has something to say about how a baby should be carried, dressed, fed, covered, uncovered, or comforted. One person says the baby is cold, another says the baby is too hot. Someone says cover the baby’s hands, another says leave them open. It usually comes from care, but for many new moms, it can feel overwhelming trying to hear everyone’s voice while still learning to trust their own. Sometimes mothers don’t need more correction. Sometimes they just need the freedom and confidence to learn their child without feeling constantly evaluated.

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Postpartum hair loss be acting gangster because before having children, I genuinely thought it just meant losing a little hair after childbirth and then everything goes back to normal. Nobody told me you could be years into motherhood and still looking at your edges wondering if they plan to return from their vacation. Meanwhile every other hair on my body is growing confidently like it has a purpose and a retirement plan. At this point, I honestly feel like all the hairs on a mother’s body should just agree on one location and grow on our heads because this arrangement is getting disrespectful 😭
Please tell me I’m not the only one thinking this way😫😫

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❤️I know they usually mean well, but sometimes it feels like women are expected to slowly disappear after a certain age or after motherhood. Like joy has an expiration date. Like caring about yourself is only acceptable before children…..
“I used to dress up like you.”
“I used to care about my appearance like you.”
“I used to have energy like you.”Every time an older woman starts a sentence with “I used to be like you,” I immediately start wondering what exactly she means by that.
Especially when they say things like, “I used to be like you before I had kids.” Meanwhile… I already have three children. So what are we comparing exactly? Because you don’t know my personality, my capacity, my mindset, or even my genetics. Sometimes it feels like women automatically assume motherhood is supposed to slowly drain every interesting part of you until all that’s left is survival mode.
And maybe that’s the part that unsettles me the most. The way some women talk like caring about yourself, dressing up, resting, laughing loudly, or having energy is something you eventually outgrow once life gets harder. Like joy has an expiration date for women. But some of us are trying very hard not to disappear while taking care of everyone else, and I don’t think that should sound unrealistic. PEACE ✌️

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Did the “memo” change? How many outfits do you wear for school runs daily? Comment 1 or 2, let’s know ourselves 🤣
TEAM 1, I’m already in the comments

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The BRAVEST kind 🤣🤣🤣🤣: they’re not bothered 🤣
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