Everythingwoman_by_ella

Don't ever think that you're more hardworking just because you have a paid job, and don't ever look down on yourself for being a full time mom. It takes a strong, very strong woman to effectively be a full time mom. You are a super woman, irrespective of the role you choose to play in the home.

As a woman, i can't overemphasize the importance of being strong. You can't keep allowing your emotions to cloud your amazing sense of judgement. You need to know when you quit, and quit. Cos in the end, you'll end up being hurt and looking for closure.

If a man wants to be with you, he WILL be with you. No excuses. He tells you you're a blessing to him, but he's reluctant to make the blessing permanent. Girl, you're being played.

Society will tell you, that a man will lie to his woman because he loves her....

Your inability to be yourself around your partner, is a huge red flag. Don't even bother. You can't can't force the vibe. Besides, do you really want to live like that?

It usually starts with a 'little' slap on the cheek. And then he apologizes. You taking him back, says a lot about YOU. And then, another slap. And you go back, till it becomes an intervention. In that relationship/union, love doesn't exist. Cos it's obvious the abused doesn't love herself, so how can you give love?

If a man slowly makes you abandon your friends, only to get closer to his, be sure he's leading you to hell.

Quit holding on to those words. A man's words don't mean much. A man will show you how he really feels about you, and tell you what he knows you wanna hear. He's fooling you if he does the opposite of what he says. Stop being his fool. He'll leave you eventually