ETF R&F Independant Consultant

Learn from what’s behind you, but look forward to what’s ahead.
It would be a sad existence if you believed your best had already come and gone.
Believe instead the truth, that the best is yet to be, because that part is up to you.♥️

What. A. Night!!!🥳
Def Leopard. Journey. Steve Miller.🎸🥁🎹🎤

Don’t mind me, just admiring the beautiful girl that FaceTimed me on this Happy 4th.🩷

TWO. WHOLE. MONTHS.🩷

(Outfit from my pineapple loving sis Melissa Wellmaker)

If you see your glass as half empty, pour it into a smaller glass and stop complaining.🍸

A mother gives you life.
A mother-in-law gives you her life.♥️

I don’t know if the warning label needs to go on me, or this bottle of Ignite. But I’m feeling 100% more sassy, and who knew THAT was possible?!😁

With one of the many ingredients being 5-Hydroxytryptophan, it’s no wonder I’m feeling so good! 5-HTP helps raise serotonin levels in the brain, contributing to better mood. 5-HTP may have a positive effect on sleep, anxiety, appetite, and pain sensation too.

Are you feeling worn out? Fatigued? Or not yourself?

Leta talk about getting you started with Accelerate Trio with Ignite! 💚

***Also a GREAT pre-workout!! 💪👊✌️

Ride or die: {Noun}
The ultimte friend, who’s got your back, through anything, til the end.

Thanks for YOU sister! It was such a big weekend and you stepped right up, and I’m so thankful for you!🖤

Of all the things that I want people to remember about me, the most important is that I was an ordinary mom, who loved my children extraordinarily much.🥰

This weekend I give my last son away….

No truer words. Deep breath. Here we go.
You always hear about a girl’s daddy “giving his daughter away” on her wedding day. I had never thought much about the mommas and their sons. But y’all mommas give away something too. Something just as precious. Something I knew I would never get back.
I gave away being the one he hugs and kisses
I gave away being the one he looks for in a crowd
I gave away being the first person he turns to when things get tough
I gave away being the one he makes laugh in the middle of day
I gave away being his number one girl
I gave away a piece of my heart
I gave away my son
Deep down I know he will always love me but I also know he loves her more. He loves her more than his momma and that’s ok. That’s how I knew he had found the one. But isn’t that what we want? We want them to marry a girl who they will put first even if it means we become second.
Mommas,
Love him while you are still first
Kiss his sweet baby face and linger in those lanky teenage hugs
Drive him to school even when he is grumpy and doesn’t say a word to you
Listen when he needs to vent and blow off steam
Love on his friends
Bring the motrin to school for the 100 thousandth time. He may have a headache OR he may just want to get out of class and chat with you for a minute.
Sit next to his hospital bed even though he screwed up
Soak up every minute under those Friday night lights.
Love him, forgive him and forgive yourself for the things you didn’t get right
Because one day, you will give him away....
You will stand and watch him give his heart to the love of his life. You will dance and he will say the sweetest things about who he has become because of you. He will hug you tight and it will feel a little bit like a goodbye. You will become his second best girl and it will be so dang HARD.
Yes, I’ve done this twice now, but this is the last time.
Author: Alyssa Becnel