The Illest Oracle

There are auspicious times to do rituals virtually that aren't recorded or captured for repurpose media.

The End Romance Addiction Master Class won't be recorded or offered as a replay.

This is a Virtual Sacred Space of Vulnerable Expression - attendees are safe to open up to explore their relationship vulnerabilities in this 2-hour deeply transformative session.

What's one belief about yourself you're ready to let go of?

I hope you got some rest and maybe took a moment to reflect for Winter Solstice.

It's December 26th and the Sun has begun its procession back towards the North.

May the winter be a time of retreat for you.

Moving against nature got us fuqed in the EARTH game.

Man's world got us forgetful about where we really live and who we really are...

Find your way back to living within the cycles of nature.



P.S. Look at what Sage made out of clay.

Sis, Are You in Self-Denial?

Let’s Talk About It.

You’ve been doing all the things - showing up for everyone, showing off your multi-tasking skills, holding it together, pushing through even when you’re running on fumes.

But here’s the truth: self-denial can look like strength until it doesn’t.

It’s time to get real about the subtle ways we put ourselves last.

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7 Signs You Might Be in Self-Denial

1. You’re Exhausted, But You Keep Going Anyway.
Rest feels like a luxury you can’t afford, so you push through the burnout.

2. You Say "Yes" When You Really Want to Say "No."
You don’t want to disappoint anyone, even if it costs you your peace.

3. You Downplay Your Own Needs.
You tell yourself, “It’s not that serious,” while your mind and body are screaming for attention.

4. You Avoid Asking for Help.
You wear independence like armor, even when it’s weighing you down.

5. You Put Others’ Happiness Above Your Own.
You light yourself on fire to keep others warm because that’s what you’ve always done.

6. You Feel Guilty for Wanting More.
A dream, a break, a moment of joy—it feels selfish to want these things for yourself.

7. You Can’t Remember the Last Time You Played or Rested Without Guilt.
When was the last time you let yourself just be?

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Sis, you are not alone!!

These patterns are part of a story we’ve been told for generations. But here’s the good news: you can rewrite it🥳

It’s Time to Choose You.

Through the Creative Resilience Wellness Practice, we dismantle the cycles of self-denial and reconnect with rest, play, and creative expression. These aren’t luxuries—they’re your birthright and the keys to your wholeness.

Imagine:
✨ Resting without guilt.
✨ Saying “yes” to yourself unapologetically.
✨ Living fully, creatively, and joyfully.

Ready to take the first step?

Drop a 💜 in the comments if you’re ready to stop surviving and start thriving. Let’s talk about how the Creative Resilience Wellness Practice can guide you into alignment and wholeness.

Your journey starts with a choice. Will you choose you?

🖤 With love,
The Illest Oracle

✨️ 5 Days of Creative Resilience Wellness Tips ✨

When life gets heavy and hard, I play 🥳

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Day 2 ✨ Tip 2: Play as a Mood Lifter

The Illest Understanding: Life feels too serious, and the joy you once knew seems out of reach.

Creative Resilience Tool: Rediscover your childlike wonder by engaging in a simple, playful activity - try drawing with crayons, dancing in your living room, or playing a quick game with a friend or family member.

The Illest Benefit: Play shifts your focus from what’s wrong to what feels good, releasing feel-good hormones and sparking creativity.

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Stay tuned for Day Three for another Creative Resilience Wellness Tip🥳

✨️ 5 Days of Creative Resilience Wellness Tips ✨

Day One - Rest has been vital to my journey. I've experienced energetic sickness - the kind that can't be diagnosed or cured by conventional or natural alternative medicine.

It was the type of imbalance that didn't respond much to any of the tools I had in my Wellness Toolbox at that time.

I had to create new medicine. I had to look at how I was USING my body.

It was the subtle patterns of beliefs and behaviors that moved against my true natural that needed the light of my awareness to heal.

Awareness opened up the channels to observe the choices I made that were tethered to the beliefs I held true and the behaviors I let run without a checks and balances system in place.

The medicine that cured my ailing body was REST, PLAY, & CREATIVE EXPRESSION.

These 3 elements that are now interwoven into a behavioral psychology based system called the CREATIVE RESILIENCE WELLNESS PRACTICE!!

I will share one Wellness Tip for the next 5 days to support you in integrating rest, play, and creative expression into your Holiday Season🥳

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Creative Resilience Wellness Tip #1: Rest as Restoration

The Illest Understanding: You’ve been running on empty, carrying the emotional and physical weight of everyone else’s needs.

Creative Resilience Tool: Set aside 10 minutes each evening for a "quiet hour." Turn off your screens, light a candle, and journal on one question: What does my body need right now?

The Illest Benefit: Rest involves more than just sleep. It calls for you to organize and seek support by giving yourself permission to pause. This practice restores your energy and reconnects you with your inner voice.

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Stay tuned for Day Two for another Creative Resilience Wellness Tip🥳

Them quiet, stealth God Mothers of the ATR, tho🔥

They ain't silent but you will never know the work they do in service to their mission.

May the light of abundance shine into your life for all of eternity. 🥳✨

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I see the human relationship experience as a web of connection.

Think of yourself as a point of energy in a huge web of human interaction - like how stars collide and what's created based on that impact.

What I want you to observe is:
- You're a destination.
- Your presence has a coordination, orientation and occupation in time and space.
- You're something to arrive at.
- You're an experience, add water only type recipe.
- You're like an energetic planet to navigate or explore.
- You're a soul spirit formed into MATTER made of cosmic and planetary material. Elevate your self-concept.
- Your voice is the sound of your world. Yes, you can be heard without saying a word.

I could go on and on about the glory woven in your skin and our connection to each other.

May your web be elevated into dimensions of harmony, truth, love, power, and healthy collaboration.



P.S. It might be a lil frosty where you are...here's a throwback July birthday celebration energy. May the fire of your spark of divinity keep you warm ✨️

Welcome to Winter...

Late Fall through Spring are feminine energetic seasons.

Body Symbolism:
Right Hemisphere of the Brain, the subconscious, all internal neurological auto-animation patterns, creative expression, intuition, imagination, foresight, insights, shape energy into matter alchemical power, psychic energy, internal systems, vision, optimism/faith, nurturing/care, goals centered around the whole versus self, and the spiritual side of the emotional body.

Focus and conservation feels cold and deadly to those ill prepared to walk her dark halls.

Stillness and quiet resilience is how power is generated here.

Retreat becomes necessary to conserve energy and time to honor the longer hours of night - inaction phase of the yearly solar procession.

You see our obsession with ACTION - the SUMMER time of our lives - places us in opposition to INACTION.

Our social value systems keep us humpin and hustling AGAINST ourselves with the intentional view of inaction being a sign of weakness.

The Sun enters the Aquarian Star System every late winter - this the type we on for the next 2000 years - elevation of the divine spark of individuation to strengthen collective humanitarian efforts and rearranging of chaos into order.

Is Winter weak🤣

I bet yo a*z stay in dat house so the cold focus of nature's inaction don't kill you🔥🥳 My favorite season within metaphysical principles- internal transmutation though the power of inaction, retreat, stillness - a willingness to die to outdated patterns - burning down the old and using the ashes to create anew.

It's DESTRUCTION season and I am The Firestarter🔥

Book a session if you burning ish up this Winter - ijs - I got bodies on dis HOT machete👿



P.S. Stay tuned for my next hair transformation - my blonde era has ended 🥳 Dem curls is POPPIN tho!!

You're sick because that's the only way you feel you deserve rest.

It only makes sense to stop when your body stops, right?

Because, you totally doing nothing irritates you and some folks you think want the best for you.

I recently shredded people and places like snake skin - slowly and precisely.

One major thing I noticed is how much my ego wanted to convince me that the way I was operating was quite OK and if I would just...blah blah blah...rattles off some false or negative belief.

That bold face lyin a*z protector made me so heated one day during summer of 2023, I snapped within me.

YOU REALLY ARE GOING AGIANST MY BEST INTEREST, I yelled at myself - my ego and animal aspects looked around like damn she done figured it out again.

High level observation activated - present moment clearing enabled - I went to WERK on my inner world.

I aired that bish out for old and new. Collapsed time on ALL paradigms of sickness, disappointment, and fear. And guess what, I HAD TO FIGHT. Literally, stand at the door of my inner world with a sword in one hand and a gun in the other - wishing a m***a would try me. Slice, dice, pew pew, blinky blink type ish 🔥

Then I reached the fractual thought world - the subtle behaviors that drive my choices. Bish be gone utterances became my weapon. Nice and polite while a serious spiritual warfare is waging over the occupation of my temple is at hand - I 🙌🏽 Think 🙌🏽 Not 🙌🏽

One day - they retreated and placed a white flag at the door. They went back to their respective inner territories. My Innerverse entered a state of peace and love I still don't have words for...

From my own chaos I birthed order via rest, play, and creative expression.

I got what was taken from me back - I got ME back.

May rest be with you.