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💜 DAY 8 — KNOWING WHERE TO TURN
This statistic really stopped me.
Only 3 in 10 women know exactly where to go to seek help for their mental health.
Which means 7 in 10 women do not know exactly where to turn.
That’s huge.
Because asking for help can already feel difficult enough without also having to work out who to call, where to go, what service is right, or whether your situation is “serious enough” to ask for support.
This is one of the reasons I wanted Liptember Ladies to be more than just a fundraiser.
I want it to help create conversations.
I want women to feel more comfortable saying when they’re struggling.
I want us to talk more openly about mental health before somebody reaches breaking point.
Sometimes the first step isn’t having all the answers.
Sometimes it’s simply knowing that you can say, “I’m not doing okay and I need some help.” 💜
And if you’re coming along to the Liptember Ladies High Tea Fundraiser, I hope it feels like a space where those conversations can happen without judgement.
🎟️ Tickets:
https://www.trybooking.com/1638449
🌸 Liptember Ladies
Independent fundraiser supporting the Liptember Campaign for Australian women’s mental health.
💗 LIPTEMBER DAY 8 — PINK 💄
Day 8 and today’s lipstick is a soft pink that feels a little calmer and gentler than some of the brighter colours so far. 💗
One thing I’ve been reminded of this month is that mental health doesn’t always look loud or obvious.
Sometimes it looks like keeping the house going, getting ready for work, making plans, smiling for the photo and still carrying a lot quietly in the background.
That’s one of the reasons I’m continuing to show up for Liptember — to help make conversations around Australian women’s mental health feel more normal, more open and a little less lonely.
Every lipstick selfie, every post, every conversation and every donation is helping shine a light on something that matters. 💜
Today’s question:
What helps you feel a little calmer when life feels heavy?
🎟️ Tickets: https://www.trybooking.com/1638449
🌸 Liptember Ladies
Independent fundraiser supporting the Liptember Campaign for Australian women’s mental health.
1️⃣ 🪥 My toothbrush now lives in the shower.
I hate the feeling of brushing my teeth and remembering to do it can be a struggle. So this week I moved my toothbrush and toothpaste into the shower with my shampoo and conditioner tins… and suddenly I’ve been remembering to brush my teeth before work.
2️⃣ 🥦 On Thursday, I cooked veggies before 7am.
My eating has been all over the place lately, so I got up earlier and cooked veggies so I’d actually have them ready for my lunch at work that day.
3️⃣ 🥚 I attempted to meal prep boiled eggs.
I used the egg boiler mode on my Thermomix TM6 and added vinegar to the water to help… except apparently I added WAY too much. Gooey eggs were not on the meal-prep plan. 😂
4️⃣ 🎥 I accidentally became a school-production videographer.
I volunteered to film it thinking I was volunteering myself. Turns out I also volunteered my iPhone, tripod AND editing skills. 😂 My daughter got to come along and watch the production too, which was a lovely bonus.
5️⃣ 💄 I’m organising a fundraiser while my brain is already FULL.
Liptember Ladies is only a few weeks away and I’ve got emails, letters, donations and silent auction goodies to organise. And I’ve just decided that THIS is the weekend I’m finally publishing the tickets! 🎟️ All while this week also threw some pretty heavy emotional stuff my way.
What are 5 random things YOUR brain has been juggling this week? 😂👇🏼
14/08/2026
When your 7-year-old can draw better than you ever could as a child… 😂🎨💙
This morning I woke up to find our daughter tucked into this little corner of our holiday accommodation, markers out, with Bluey sitting across from her as her model while she happily drew away.
Then she showed me what she’d drawn…
Ummm, EXCUSE ME?! 😂
She had sat there studying Bluey, drawing what she could see and choosing all the colours herself — and THIS was her finished creation. 🥹💙
I absolutely love watching her creativity grow and seeing her own little personality come through in the things she creates.
No fancy art setup. No big plan.
Just a kid who found herself a cosy little nook on our holiday, grabbed her markers, positioned Bluey across from her and decided she was going to draw. 🎨
Meanwhile, Mum’s over here thinking… I definitely couldn’t draw like this at 7. 😂
Very proud Mum moment this morning. 🥹💙
12/08/2026
Could the woman in this photo have imagined where she’d be 8 years later? 🥹
This morning, a post in the Business Mama Facebook group asked us to share a throwback photo from where our business or career began… and this is the photo I chose. ❤️
📸 17th June 2018 — just 2½ weeks into my business.
It was a Sunday and I’d caught the train from Traralgon to Newborough before travelling with a friend and a group of us from Gippsland to Melbourne for a training day.
Looking at this photo now, there are SO many things this version of me didn’t know yet.
For one… I definitely don’t have that much hair anymore. 😂
I had absolutely no idea that my daughter was already growing in my belly. That little baby I didn’t even know was there is now 7 years old and in Grade 2. 🥹
I was only 1½ months into a brand-new relationship with a man who I’ve now been with for more than 8 years — and we’ve now been married for just over a year. ❤️
And then there’s the business.
At only 2½ weeks in, I couldn’t possibly have known what it would eventually become.
Over the past eight years, it has changed, evolved and found a wonderful new niche that feels so much more like me and the things I care about.
And I definitely don’t think 2018 Summer would have believed that eight years later she’d still be running her own business, working in education support AND planning her very first Liptember Ladies High Tea Fundraiser High Tea Fundraiser from the ground up. 💄💜
Sometimes an old photo really does show you just how much life can change. 🌺
19/07/2026
💛 THE BIG REVEAL 💛
Ta da! 🎉
After a week of clues, mystery reels, yellow tickets, beanies, scarves, hairbrush hints and lots of guessing…
This was The Big Reveal.
Yesterday afternoon, I shaved my head and donated just under 28cm in length of my hair to Wigs for Kids.
Five weeks ago, a friend’s family asked their community if anyone would consider donating their hair. They had already been raising money for Wigs for Kids, with enough donations to go towards almost three wigs. Knowing that one wig costs around $3,300, I knew how much every donation mattered.
I put my hand up.
At first, I thought I’d simply cut my hair to the required donation length.
Then my ADHD brain did what it often does…
It came up with a much bolder idea.
“What if I just shaved it all off?”
I’ve shaved parts of the sides of my hair before, but never my whole head.
As I thought about it, I couldn’t stop thinking about the friends and family in my life who have gone through cancer, who are currently going through treatment, who have survived, and those we’ve sadly lost. I also thought about the children and teenagers who will one day wear a wig made from donated hair.
If my hair can help even one young person smile, then every centimetre was worth it.
One of the most special parts of the day was having our daughter there beside me. She helped cut some of the ponytails and even shaved part of my head. She experienced every emotion imaginable, and I’m so grateful she shared that moment with me.
As for me…
I laughed.
I cried a little.
And then something unexpected happened.
I walked away feeling incredibly empowered.
Like I really can do hard things.
Like I can chase the big dreams I have for Love & Organise.
And like it’s finally time to kick imposter syndrome in the butt.
To everyone who followed along with my clues, sent me messages, guessed what I was doing, or simply cheered me on…
Thank you. 💛
You gave me the courage to follow through with one of the boldest things I’ve ever done.
🌻 Now tell me… did you work it out before today, or did I actually manage to surprise you? 👇
18/07/2026
🌻 Today’s the day…
I honestly can’t believe I’m typing those words.
A few weeks ago, this idea popped into my head and I couldn’t stop thinking about it. It felt exciting, terrifying, a little bit crazy… and for a while I wasn’t even sure if I’d actually go through with it.
So instead of blurting it all out, I decided to have a bit of fun.
This week you’ve seen clues about tickets, beanies, scarves, a hairbrush and a whole lot of random reels. 😂 Some of you have been completely confused, some of you have worked it out already, and quite a few of you have been sending me DMs to see if your guess was right.
I’ve absolutely loved every minute of it.
But something happened this week that meant I couldn’t quietly change my mind anymore.
I told the teachers at the schools I’ll be working at this term what I was about to do.
Then I stood up in front of a whole school assembly and shared my plan.
The moment I said it out loud, I realised…
Well… there’s no backing out now! 😅
It was scary, but it also made everything feel real.
If you’ve only just joined me, or you’ve missed a few clues along the way, head over to my Story Highlights and watch “The Big Reveal.” Everything from this week’s adventure is sitting there waiting for you.
Today’s reveal isn’t about chasing views or trying to go viral.
It’s about stepping outside my comfort zone, supporting a cause that’s close to my heart, and doing something I’ve never done before.
I honestly couldn’t have done this week without all of you.
Every follow, every comment, every message, every guess, every person who’s laughed along with me or quietly cheered me on… thank you. It means more than you’ll ever know.
This week alone, 9 new people joined the Love & Organise community. That might not sound like a huge number to some people, but to me it’s the biggest week of new followers I’ve ever had, and every single one of you matters.
💛 So… what’s your final guess before this afternoon?
Leave your guess in the comments, or send me a DM if you don’t want to spoil it for everyone else.
By this afternoon… you’ll finally know. 🌻
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