DIEU au centre de l'Amour DACDA

INVESTIGATE YOUR PARTNER...

Your partner is not an angel, I hope you know that?

I hope you know they have weaknesses aside their strengths and if you do not consciously work with their weaknesses, they may end up tearing your marriage apart.

Weaknesses that people do not deal with are what destroy marriages.
Investigate your partner before marrying them.

Ask serious questions. Probe them. Listen to their siblings, friends and colleagues. What are they saying about them? Don't just focus on all their good qualities and ignore the flaws only to have them stare you in the face after wedding.

My sibling kept telling my spouse I was authoritative, I was bossy and domineering and that is the truth. I am the first born and a choleric as well! A first born is a leader, a choleric is a leader, so when you have two combined leadership traits, you have Margaret Thatcher in the making.

Hubby listened attentively and carefully, patiently worked on me till I began dropping the weaknesses one by one.

The reason why you are finding out about your partner's weaknesses is not to criticize or condemn them, it is to help them get better and know how to live with them peacefully in marriage.

I listened to my husband's siblings while courting, took note of his weaknesses and we both worked on it through the years. We both keep improving and getting better by the day.

Study them around others. How does she treat her father and brothers? She will treat you same way. How does he treat his mother and siblings? He will treat you same way.

If he insults his mother at any slight provocation and abuses his sisters a lot, he has a major character issue. You should both sit down and map out ways to overcome this weaknesses before you settle down or work through the process and see him get better and better by the day.
No one is perfect. Not you or your partner.

We all have weaknesses. Work on yours,. Let your partner work on theirs. You both should help each other become better and better
"For two are BETTER than one". That is the essence of marriage.

May the good Lord grant you understanding.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2019; reposted 2023.

DIEU est AMOUR
Dieu est le fondement de l'amour
Il est au centre de l'Amour
Alors invite à faire le chemin

*Le mariage est une institution divine*
Alors il est sacré 💥🥰💥♥️🤞



1. « L'Éternel Dieu dit : Il n'est pas bon que l'homme soit seul ; je lui ferai une aide semblable à lui » (Genèse 2:18).



2. « L'Éternel Dieu forma une femme de la côte qu'il avait prise de l'homme, et il l'amena vers l'homme. Et l'homme dit : Voici cette fois celle qui est os de mes os et chair de ma chair ! on l'appellera femme, parce qu'elle a été prise de l'homme. C'est pourquoi l'homme quittera son père et sa mère, et s'attachera à sa femme, et ils deviendront une seule chair » (Genèse 2:24-26).

❤️‍🔥Plaire à Dieu est une obligation, plaire aux hommes n’en n’est pas une !

Vis pour plaire humains et tu finira par devenir un pantin de plaisir.
Les grands esprits sont focalisés sur l’essentiel et cet essentiel est le cœur de Dieu.

Si tu es choqué , que jésus te donne sa paix.

Le ciel nous restera favorable !!
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Parole de Pasteur Joëlle Gloria M.Kabasele ✍️

Lorsque tu choisis le Dieu tout puissant comme le fondement de ton mariage tu n'échoueras jamais.
Les vents, les tempêtes, les secousses viendront mais tu resteras enraciné car ton Rocher ne s'écroule point.
Amen

Fêter?? Non!!!
Vivre une chose pleinement c’est apprendre à comprendre le sens véritable de son existence.

le 8 mars 1857 des femmes ont été assassinées parce qu’elles revendiquaient leurs droits.
Une date pleine d’émotions et de rage.

Femme, la conscience de la valeur de ton intelligence ainsi que de tes compétences te permettront de refuser les miettes de la société et de vivre c’est que tu vaux.

La conscience de l’être fait appel a la conscience du devenir.

Le ciel vous est favorable les dames!!