Life with Ben and Jenny

This news about Blessing CEO losing her second son is honestly heartbreaking. 💔 As a mother, I can’t even imagine the kind of pain she must be going through right now. May God give her the strength to bear this loss. 🙏🏽

But at the same time, this whole situation should teach us something. Sometimes, the people we choose to bring into our lives and the decisions we make can come with consequences we never expected.

When Blessing started her relationship with IVD, considering all the controversies already surrounding him and his past, I kept asking myself, “Of all the men in this world, why this particular man?” Since that relationship became public, it seems like her life has been surrounded by one controversy after another.

Now she is dealing with serious legal issues, and in the middle of all this, she has received the devastating news of losing her child. I have seen reports saying the young boy had asthma, but since the full circumstances of his passing have not been officially confirmed, I will not speculate or blame anyone.

One thing I will say, especially to women, is this: please choose your relationships wisely. Protect your peace, protect your future, and never allow love to make you ignore things you would normally question.

Regardless of whatever mistakes Blessing may have made, today I see a grieving mother who has lost her child. 💔 May God comfort her and her family, and may her son rest peacefully. 🙏🏽

This life can change in the blink of an eye. May God help us make choices that will bring peace into our lives, not more battles. 🙏🏽

The situation may be bigger than you, but it will never be bigger than El Roi—the God who sees you. 🙏🏾❤️

Talk to Him. He sees what you’re going through, He hears your prayers, and He knows exactly what you need.

Trust Him. 🙏🏾✨

Mommies abeg, how una dey take make una daughters’ hair? Because for this my house, na serious struggle! 😫😂

I remember when I gave birth to her as my only daughter, I was already imagining all the fine-fine hairstyles I would be doing for her every week. 😂 See me planning hairstyles like say na by force!

Fast forward to today, this girl no even want make I touch her hair, talk less of sitting down to make different hairstyles. 😭😂 Once she sees comb, na battle line be that!

Mommies wey get two, three or more daughters, abeg how una dey cope? Because if one daughter is giving me this kind of struggle, I salute all of una! 😂🙌🏾

Is making your daughter’s hair a struggle in your house too, or na only me? 😂👇🏾

Abeg, what’s this hype about not covering ogbono soup while cooking? 😂

I’ve heard a lot of people say, “Don’t cover your ogbono soup o! If you cover am, e no go draw well.” 😂 Meanwhile, some people say it doesn’t matter whether you cover it or not.

Me, I’m wondering because ever since I’ve been cooking ogbono soup, I always cover my pot and I’ve never experienced my ogbono not drawing. 🤷🏽‍♀️

So, my people, what’s your experience? Do you cover your ogbono soup while cooking, or you leave the pot open? Have you ever covered yours and it stopped drawing?

Ogbono soup experts, gather here. Let’s settle this matter in the comment section! 👇🏽😂

Good morning from my Ada, my one and only precious baby girl. 🥰💕 Ada said I should greet you all before the weekend officially begins 😂😂. Happy Friday, everyone!May your weekend be as sweet and beautiful as her smile. ❤️🥰