Carmen Shawn Midlife Wellness & Lifestyle Coach

Carmen Shawn Midlife Wellness & Lifestyle Coach

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Helping women in midlife rebuild their health with clarity, confidence, consistency and realistic support. No quick fixes. No shame.

I’m a WELLNESS & LIFESTYLE COACH that specializes in helping women through Perimenopause and Menopause, after advising your doctor or Holistic Practitioner. I’ve always been a body-positive advocate and self-love junkie! Attempting to prove to women that when you feel better you do better! I really want women to be proactive and support their bodies in a way that helps them get through “the chang

08/03/2026

Bronze medal in my age group! 🥉

This race actually felt really good, and for the first time in a while I could really feel the improvements. While I didn't hit the exact time I was aiming for because of a strained hip flexor, I'm proud that I got to the start line, gave it everything I had, and came away feeling like I accomplished exactly what I needed to.

Every race teaches you something, and I learned a lot this weekend.

Now it's time for a short break until September to let my body recover and focus on strengthening my hip flexor, adductors, core, lower legs, and my end-range strength coming out of the blocks. Sometimes the biggest improvements happen when you step back, rebuild, and come back stronger.

I couldn't ask for better teammates or a better track community. Thank you to everyone who made the Canadian Masters Outdoor Track & Field Championships in Laval, Quebec such an amazing experience.

I can't wait for the new season and to see what more improvement is ahead! 💙🏃‍♀️

07/23/2026

I recently had the opportunity to join Dr. Shawna Darou, ND, on her podcast, Unstoppable at Any Age... and honestly, she had me at the title. 😬 Shawna Darou, ND

I'm so grateful she gave me the space to share my story. We talked about my journey, from starting in the health and fitness industry at a young age to navigating the different decades of life, competition, setbacks, and everything I've learned along the way. It was such a meaningful conversation, and one I'm really proud to share.

One of my favourite takeaways from our conversation was this:

"If your plan only works on your best days, it probably won't work long term."

So many people think they have to be perfect. They think they have to eat perfectly, work out the same way every day, and never miss a beat. But life happens. We get sick, plans change, work gets busy, and sometimes we just don't have it in us.

That doesn't mean we throw the whole day away.

Instead of saying, "Screw it, I'll start again in a few days," ask yourself, "What's one thing I can still do for myself today?"

Maybe it's having a healthy breakfast. Maybe it's going for a short walk. Maybe it's drinking more water.

It doesn't have to be everything. It just has to be something.🙏🏻

Those small actions are what build consistency, and consistency is what leads to lasting change.

Thank you again, Dr. Shawna Darou, for such a thoughtful conversation and for inviting me to be part of Unstoppable at Any Age. ❤️

07/14/2026

Your timeline. Your pace. 🌿

So many of us stay stuck because we think everything has to be perfect before we begin.

"I'm not fit enough to join a gym."
Which is exactly why you'd join one.

"I missed a week, so I failed."
No... you had a week where life happened.

"This plan isn't working."
Maybe. Or maybe you just haven't given it enough time.

We put ourselves in boxes based on how we look, what we've done in the past, or how many times we've "failed."

The truth is, life isn't one straight line. We all stop. We all get off track. We all have setbacks.

The people who succeed aren't the ones who never stop.

They're the ones who keep starting again.

Not because they're more motivated. Not because they have more discipline.

Because they stopped believing that one setback meant the end of the story.

Start late. Start unsure. Start after a bad week. Start after a bad month.

Just... start again.

❤️ Progress isn't built by being perfect. It's built by refusing to let all-or-nothing thinking decide your future.

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Photos from Carmen Shawn Midlife Wellness & Lifestyle Coach's post 07/01/2026

Happy Canada Day!! 🇨🇦❤️

06/04/2026

When I joined a Masters Track Club at 54, I thought I was just signing up to sprint. 🏃🏻‍♀️

What I didn't expect was how much it would change the way I see myself.

For years, especially working in the fitness industry, I felt like my value was tied to how I looked. As women, we're often taught that our appearance is our currency. 🎯

Track changed that.🙏🏻

Today, I focus less on how my body looks and more on how it moves, feels, recovers, and performs. Instead of forcing my body to fit a certain image, I'm learning to work with it. Ironically, that's when positive changes started happening naturally.

The community has been one of the biggest gifts.🏆

I've been part of fitness environments where people were judged by their appearance and leanness. This is the opposite. People support each other, share advice, celebrate progress, and genuinely want to see one another succeed.

Nobody cares if you're the fastest. Nobody cares what you look like.

They care that you show up. 🤜🏻🤛🏻

And it's incredibly inspiring to train alongside people in their 60s, 70s, and even 80s who continue to compete and challenge themselves. They remind me every week that aging isn't about decline. It's about adaptation.✨

There was a time during perimenopause when I could barely recover from workouts. I wasn't sure I'd ever feel strong again. What I've learned is that our bodies can recalibrate when we give them time, patience, and the support they need.

Instead of fighting my body, I've learned to trust it.❤️

That shift has changed everything!

05/29/2026

This doesn't just apply to young girls.👇🏻

Starting a sport in midlife can be just as powerful. ❤️

For me, starting sprinting has been a game changer. Not because of the times on the clock, but because of what it's taught me about myself, what I'm capable of, and how much more there is to discover when you stop worrying about being perfect and start showing up. 💪🏻

05/28/2026

Do women ever fully talk about the emotional side of aging? 🤔

Not the “age gracefully” quotes. Not the anti-aging marketing. Not the filtered version.

The real version.✨

Because if I’m honest, aging can feel hard sometimes.

I think women experience it differently in a lot of ways because so much of our value in society has been tied to youth, beauty, fertility, desirability, sexuality… all of it. 💯

And whether people want to admit it or not, you feel those shifts as you age.

I can’t have babies anymore. I weigh more than I used to. I have wrinkles I never had before. And sometimes it feels like we live in a world obsessed with staying young forever. 😵‍💫

Meanwhile women are quietly trying to figure out who they are now.

What’s strange is that at the exact same time, I’m actually happier with myself than I’ve ever been. 💃🏻

I like who I am now. I value depth more. Connection more. Real relationships more.

Intimacy to me now feels less about performance and more about feeling emotionally safe, understood, connected, and truly known by the people around me. ❤️

I think that’s one of the biggest shifts aging has brought me.

And maybe that’s the part we don’t talk about enough: Aging can feel painful and beautiful at the same time.🎯

What’s one positive thing aging has taught you? Comment below! 👇🏻

Photos from Carmen Shawn Midlife Wellness & Lifestyle Coach's post 05/23/2026

Somewhere along the way, we were taught to fear aging. 🫣

But honestly?

Midlife has been the first time I’ve actually started becoming more myself. 🎯

Less performing. Less proving. More clarity. More honesty. More power.
We really can become the stars of our own lives. ✨

05/21/2026

My biggest menopause mistake I made? 🤔

Thinking my body had failed me.

And honestly, I understand why I felt that way.

There wasn’t enough information.
Now there’s almost too much.😵‍💫

Women are overwhelmed with advice, fear, conflicting opinions, quick fixes, hormones, supplements, “expert” opinions, and endless rabbit holes that often lead nowhere except more confusion and frustration.

But at the end of the day, this is a transition. A major one.
Not a personal failure.💯

And yes, sometimes it’s messy. Rocky. Emotional. Exhausting.
It definitely was for me.

But things started to shift when I stopped treating my body like the enemy.

The moment I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started getting curious about what my body needed now… everything changed.💓

My body recalibrated.
Not overnight. Not perfectly. But it did.

And a big part of that came from redefining what health meant for this stage of my life.

I stopped chasing who I used to be.
I stopped basing my goals on an old version of myself.

Instead, I started building habits, goals, and routines around the woman I am now and the future I want for myself moving forward.

That changed everything.💪

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