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He invited me on a date and asked me to pay. Surprisingly, that was the date he used to propose to me. I said yes only for him to ask me to pay when the bill came. I thought he was even joking. He insisted that he had never had a lady pay for him so I should set a record. The waitress was standing there. She was getting embarrassed so she turned to walk away. I called her back and asked for their momo number. I paid.

When going back home, instead of being thankful, he was teasing me. "Wow, you're a different breed. Is this your first time paying for a man too?" When I didn't respond, he asked if I was angry. I told him, "I'm not angry but next time, let's talk about it before it happens. I was embarrassed. You put me on the spot. What if I didn't have money to pay?" He said sorry while laughing at me.

Our relationship was a few hours old but I regretted not telling him to give me some time to think about it. He got down along the way. He only gave me a peck and walked away. He didn't pay the Uber. The whole night was messed up for me. He got me asking myself if I'd made a mistake.

I let it go, hoping it was just a blip. A few weeks later he texted asking for a loan; "Just Ghc200. I'll pay. Be the first girl to ever give me a loan."

"What next?" I asked myself. "First girl to buy him a car? Or The first girl to buy him a wedding ring."

I texted back, "I can't. I don't have that much to give away." He replied, "So, how much do you have? Even if it's GHC100 I don't mind. You'll be the first girlfriend I've ever taken a loan from."

I didn't give him but I've lost interest in the relationship. I said yes only a few weeks ago and this guy already wants me to be the first in everything for him. Isn't that a red flag? Would it be absurd for me to leave a man because he wants me to be the first woman who did everything for him? Does it sound honest in your ears or it's just a trick to fleece the little that I have from me?

10 TRUTHS ABOUT A WOMAN'S WETNESS

1. Some women naturally get wet during ovulation. A clever husband learns to discern when his wife is ovulating to take advantage of her wetness for more lo******ng

2. The purpose of a woman's wetness is to make s*xual in*******se which entails the friction between the p***s and the va**na, pleasurable

3. When you don’t sufficiently make your wife wet, she will hurt during pe*******on

4. Making your wife sufficiently wet is in your best interest, your p***s will enjoy more when she is really wet

5. When you hurt your wife's emotions and heart, she will struggle to get wet for you

6. The goal of foreplay: kissing, fondling, sucking, rubbing is to prepare the wife for s*x by making her wet

7. You can make your wife wet just by talking to her naughty, s*xual things

8. You can use your wife’s wetness to rub her cl****is for extra pleasure

9. Some wives get wet at work and cannot wait to get home to husband and take her clothes off

10. When pumping inside and the wetness makes a sound, don't be ashamed of it. Sometimes s*x has a sound.

Ladies am I making sense here?

Happy sunday lovely people
Share and remain blessed ❤️🙏

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I'm a 32 years old woman from Lusaka Ibex area... My Problem started last week when my husband came back home late, me and the kids were in the living room watching a movie, he sent them to bed. Because he insisted that we need to talk.. Then called me and knelt down and started explaining.
He struggled at first, shaking at the point of crying... Then he said.

"Honey there is this lady who’s pregnant for me and she has been thr£atening me that she will sp0il my marriage, i have tried to avoid it to reach you, i know I'm f0olish enough for bringing this to you but i don't want to lose you and i don't know what to do... If i lose you I will never forgive my self, the only option she gave me was taking her abroad. Now her Demands are quite high for me, this money can really help our kids in the near future. Yes i didn't think of it though when i was doing all this fo0lishness but please don't leave me. Please forgive me that's why i have come to you and confess it to you myself!! You and the kids are all i have...

Now my problem is that I don't know how to tell my husband that the woman is just a chronic liar who just want his money for cheap S€x. I know 100% that it's a fat lie because I know that my husband is imp0tent. I will not want to loose my marriage if he realizes that the 3 kids at home are not his. What is your advice on how to close this Chapter, should i follow the woman?. And before you Judge me, a woman will do anything or everything to keep her marriage. Others go as far as sleeping with pastors or sangoma's for children... My children are still his blood coz they are from within the family. Pls advice me , how do I handle this issue?

AVOID THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP
1. You should avoid a relationship that is based on s*x alone. It has no future. If all you do is to sleep with each other instead of
discussing things that will benefit your life then that relationship is a waste of time and destiny.
2. Avoid any relationship that has no direction, purpose or aim.
3. Avoid any relationship that doesn't add any positive impact on your life.
4. Run away from any relationship that gives you more sorrows than joy.
5. Run away from any relationship that makes you cry or gives you more tears and cry than laughter.
6. Do not stay in a relationship where you love someone but the person makes you unhappy many times.
7. When you see signs that a relationship can't work, don't try to make it work. IT JUST CAN'T WORK. There is no need remaining in such r/shp. Flee from it.
8. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner.
9. Avoid any relationship where you are caged or restricted from enjoying your basic fundamental human rights. No relationship should restrict you from your
rights, not even marriage.
10. Most importantly and above all. Avoid any relationship that will keep you far away from God.

TODAY’S FOOD FOR THOUGHT

“ While in a public transport some days ago, a woman on my row started begging people for financial assistance.

The man sitting directly in front of me dug hand in his wallet and gave her N500, then others followed, she eventually got over a thousand naira within that short period.

Not long after that, the same man that gave this woman N500 then wanted to buy a bottled water, and the hawker had to run to catch up with us because the man wanted to give him N100 and he had to collect his N50 change first before handing him the N100.

The scenario touched me!

Immediately, I requested for a bottle too and gave the guy 500!

A woman beside me shouted...Ahh, let him give you your change first before giving him money😳💁🏻!!

She looked at me as if I'm a "mutula", a new person in lagos wey dem never show😀.

As the guy was struggling to run and give me change, I bade him good bye not to worry!

The most touching part of the story is, even when I thought we've left this guy far behind as the traffic had moved, he ran to still catch up with the bus and prayed wholeheartedly in show of appreciation!

You know why?? He knows the value of that money, he knows how much bottle or sachet of water he would sell running from bus to cars before getting that.

The woman who saw me as mutula eventually went speechless!

Lesson passed in the bus! Simple🤷🏾

We all feel comfortable giving beggars big money but find it difficult leaving small change for genuine hustlers.

We unconsciously encourage begging at the expense of those who work so hard, that's why you see corporate beggars increasing on a daily basis on the streets of Nigeria and Nigeria

The Husband Store

A store that sells new husbands has opened in Manchester , just off Deansgate where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:

You may visit this store ONLY ONCE!

There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs

She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

'That's nice,' she thinks, 'but I want more.'

So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking.

'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going.

She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework...

'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!'

Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor.. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.

Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

Cuppy

WOMEN AND S*X

1. A wife doesn't have to be s*xually boring. We need to put off the mind set that a woman outside the marriage is more s*xually appealing than the wife

2. Women have s*xual needs too. The wife's role is not to satisfy the husband s*xually as her needs get ignored, she too should be satisfied. Both are meant to enjoy

3. Most women find the missionary style most intimate because the husband and wife look at each other while doing it

4. A lot of women feel that their husbands are selfish in bed, only focusing on getting to his climax and then forgetting her. Remember her. Please her

5. A wife will struggle to flirt with you and give herself to you if she suspects or knows that you are cheating on her. Faithfulness is a turn on

6. For a woman, foreplay begins by how you treat her before things get s*xual

7. A woman who tells her husband no when he wants to make love to her, will push him away and when the time comes when you desperately wants him to touch her, he might find it difficult to rekindle that desire because he was bruised by her

8. You might have a very decent, Godly well-behaved wife but during love making she becomes aggressive, passionate and moaning naughty things. Allow her, it is her marriage, she is entitled to express her pleasure freely

9. Sometimes a woman will want it fast and hard, sometimes she will want it slow and gentle. Study her rhythm and mood

10. Your wife might love doggy style because of how your p***s feels when inside her at that angle. Doggy style has different sensations than missionary because of the positioning of the p***s

11. Some wives love being in control, she might want to be on top of you or to have you relax as she gives you pleasure. Relax as a husband and let her do you, you don't always have to be the leader

12. A wife's wetness is special, it should never go to waste. Make use of it and enjoy her wetness even if it is a quickie...

How do you justify yourself if you cm FAST?
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So, if you've come SO FAST, it's not a problem at all.)) You can REALLY make a joke out of it.

There are 2 options:
1. You've got a great body, you got me overexcited)) Now we'll rest and everything will be fine).
2. I haven't had s*x in a while. In 10 minutes I'll recover and everything will be fine).

Explain in that style - it's ABSOLUTELY OK and 99.99% of girls WILL understand, it's like even complimenting HER on how hot she is)

3. Women want to feel emotionally secure.
Women want security. Yes, financial security is important, but it comes second to emotional security. Women do think about the house, bills, and tuition, but feeling emotionally connected and knowing we are there for her, no matter what, is what really matters.

4. Women want to feel listened to.
Men, she doesn’t want us to fix it, she just wants us to listen. She doesn’t want or need our solution to the problem, even if she asked for our opinion. She does want us to understand how she’s feeling about the problem and identify with her in that feeling. “Thanks for sharing that with me” or “I’m so sorry that happened” might be good words to consider saying to her.

5. Women want to feel beautiful.
She needs to know, deep within, that we find her beautiful and that we only have eyes for her. She doesn’t just want to know, “Am I beautiful?” but, “Am I beautiful to him?” There may be many mirrors in your home, but the mirror that means most to your wife is you.

5 Things Men Must Know About Women

Men must know that:

1. Women want to feel loved.
Many women feel insecure about our love for them. There are two things we men can do about it. First, reassure her. In times of conflict, we should tell them we love them no matter what and that everything will be okay—“I love you. We’ll get through this.” When she’s upset, she doesn’t need space,” she needs a hug and to be held. Second, pursue her. Women need to be pursued throughout the relationship, just as we pursued them before we got married.

2. Women want to feel understood.
Women need us to understand how they think and feel, even though that is virtually impossible. It would help us to understand that most women’s thought lives are like computers, with multiple windows open and processing all at once. Unlike men who can only process one thing at a time, women are constantly juggling multiple thoughts and emotions all at the same time. On more than one occasion, I’ve watched my wife, daughters, and their friends having a conversation where three of them were talking at once about three different things. And guess what, they all understood each other! So, hopefully, if we can generally understand how women think, we might be better able to understand how they feel.

MENSTRUAL CYCLE AND OVULATION PERIOD....Married
ones.
Most girls don't understand this because of much heavy
grammar used to teach it, and we don't listen to our
body too. I read, I started listening to my body for signs
and I arrived at the simple analysis/
steps........
MENSTRUAL PERIOD:The time blood flows out of your
private area, when you use pad.
MENSTRUAL CYCLE: Days it takes to see another blood
in the month. If you last saw your period in June 11th
and it started again on July 10th 2017, then you have
30days cycle (count from 11 June to 10 July).
NOTE: It is erroneous to believe its 28days cycle,
different women have different cycles ranging from 21-35
days.
OVULATION PERIOD: This is time to get pregnant without
stress. This is 2 weeks after your period or 2 weeks
before the next period.
Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation (unsafe)
period.
1. From the first day you see the blood of your period.
2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the
first day of the blood stain.
3. Mark the 15th day with a pen.
4. Mark 3 days before the 15th day, and mark 3 days
after the 15th day.
6. You will notice you have 7 days marked.
These 7 days are your ovulation/fertile days also known
as unsafe period.
That is if you have s*x on any of these days, then you
have 98% chances of being pregnant.
7. Do this every month diligently
EVERY OTHER DAY IS YOUR SAFE PERIOD.
For example:
1. If your period is 11th July, 2017,
2. 15 days after the first day of the blood stain will be on
25th of this July too (2weeks after) counting from 11th.
3. 15th day is on the 25th July 2017.
4. 3days before the 15th day is 22, 23, 24.
5. 3days after 25th July 2017 is 26,27,28.
6. 22-28th July (7days) is when you are ovulating. It is
your fertile period.
**Don't forget that the 7 days is a reminder that s***m
stays in the female body for about 7 days. Any s*xual
contact in between ovulation period will form something
that has ears, eyes, etc.
TBC...

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