Violet Wadden

We love you 😭🕊️🤍💔

Obviously I didn’t get the memo of what to do with our hands

Welcome to Episode 14. 💄✨

We spend so much time worrying about the reflections we see in glass, but we rarely talk about the reflections we get from the people around us.

People in your life are temporary, you on the other hand are not temporary in your own life. It is always, always better to be alone than to be surrounded by people who force you to look into a warped mirror. Find the tribe that reflects your true light, learn to love your own quiet spaces, and protect your peace. 🕊️🌿

The “Universal Hardware” of Empathy.
I have a personal belief: People actually do know how you feel. ✨
We often get defensive when people try to relate to us because we want our pain (or our joy) to be a one-of-a-kind experience. But while your path is 100% yours, the emotion at the end of that path is something we are all built to feel.

Whether it’s the excitement of a perfect makeup look or the adrenaline of a sports game—the triggers are different, but the happiness is identical. When we realize this, the world feels a lot less lonely. 🕊️🧠

Making DIY K-Beauty toner pads tonight using the Green Tea Fresh Toner 🌿💚 The ultimate hack for oily or sensitive skin!

These DIY pads let your skin deeply absorb the Jeju green tea, Cica, and Anti-Sebum formula to balance oil, calm redness, and minimize visible pores.

It’s an Amazon best-seller with over 4,000 reviews because it gives weightless hydration and instant glass skin with zero greasy feel! ✨ Tried this hack yet?

SHOP the Green Tea Fresh Toner now on (link in my bio) ✨

Huge thank you to for sending me this to try out! I love ittt! 💚

Why “belonging” is the ultimate brain-hack. 🧠

I’ve been MIA for my birthday week and the week following, and it was exactly what my nervous system needed. Coming off a hard month, feeling that sense of community and love reminded me of the science of Social Buffering. 🤍✨

The Science of the Glow:
• Oxytocin vs. Cortisol: How feeling loved literally “shuts off” the brain’s stress alarms.
• Social Buffering: Why being with your tribe physically repairs the damage done by isolation.
• The Reward Center: How joy re-wires your brain to make self-care feel easy again.
• I’m washing off the birthday glam tonight feeling more like myself than I have in a long time.

Thank you for all the birthday wishes and for being a place where I feel I belong. 🕊️🧼

PRODUCTS USED:
- Gently Off Wipes
- .global .official .global Melty PDRN Oil Foam Cleanser *
- Vitamin C Brightening Toner Pads
- LHA + AHA Korean Watermelon Toner Pads
- Watermelon Glow PHA + BHA Pore-Tight Toner
- Salicylic Acid 2% Solution
- Collagen Elastin Plus *
- Madagascar Centella Probio-Cica Bakuchiol Eye Cream *
- Watermelon Glow Pink Juice Moisturizer *
- x Lip Sleeping Mask in “Rainbow Sherbet”
- Headband from x
- Fuzzy Shrek sleep pants from

Everything marked “*” has been kindly gifted. Huge thank you to the brands!! 🫶

The coolest and tastiest hidden tropical oasis off of Main St. Perfect for summer!!🧉

📍The Shameful Tiki Room - 4326 Main St, Vancouver, British Columbia