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i spent literal THOUSANDS last year in therapy & on personal development courses (healing flex) 

here is what i learned 📝 

most of the issues that i have stem from having low self confidence, so here is how to fix that s**t 👇🏼

How to Build (Real) Self Confidence: 

GoTcHa BiTcH!! You have to build your self esteem first. OK but how?? 

1️⃣ Act With Integrity 
- integrity has 2 definitions.
1. “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.”
2. “the state of being whole and undivided.” 

1) living with integrity means staying true to your values, being honest in your actions, & taking responsibility for your choices. It’s about consistency, transparency, & accountability, fostering trust & authenticity in relationships, & ultimately leading to fulfillment & inner peace.

2) being whole & undivided, pretty much means you can’t function properly when there are parts of you that are “broken.” Think of a bicycle wheel, when one of the spokes is broken, it jeopardizes the integrity of the entire bicycle from operating effectively. We operate this way as humans. Become aware of your unhealed s**t, & stop blaming others & pointing the finger.. cuz it’s usually gonna be pointed back at you 👉🏼 (yOu SpOt iT - you GoT iT).

2️⃣ Treating Others With Respect ✊🏼 

Show consideration, empathy, & fairness to others, valuing (or at least listening to) their opinions & feelings, & communicating openly & honestly.

you don’t have to agree with everyone, but you definitely don’t have to be an as***le about it.. so save your energy for the mfs that really deserve it 😎

3️⃣ Giving 100% of What You Have to Give

We aren’t always going to be feeling 100% that’s just reality, especially as we get older. S**t happens & there always seems to be something you can shake your fist at 🤡 we all have good days & bad days. so even if you’re not operating at ⚡️ LeVeL 9 dEsTrUcTiOn ⚡️ still always give 💯 so when you rest that sweet lil head of yours on your pillow at night, you know you did your best 😘

📸 @ridgemeadows
💄 @tiff_vicious 
#elevatedbyannie #thebeautycharmer #westkelowna #ylw #westkelownalashes 02/27/2025

i spent literal THOUSANDS last year in therapy & on personal development courses (healing flex) here is what i learned 📝 most of the issues that i have stem from having low self confidence, so here is how to fix that s**t 👇🏼 How to Build (Real) Self Confidence: GoTcHa BiTcH!! You have to build your self esteem first. OK but how?? 1️⃣ Act With Integrity - integrity has 2 definitions. 1. “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.” 2. “the state of being whole and undivided.” 1) living with integrity means staying true to your values, being honest in your actions, & taking responsibility for your choices. It’s about consistency, transparency, & accountability, fostering trust & authenticity in relationships, & ultimately leading to fulfillment & inner peace. 2) being whole & undivided, pretty much means you can’t function properly when there are parts of you that are “broken.” Think of a bicycle wheel, when one of the spokes is broken, it jeopardizes the integrity of the entire bicycle from operating effectively. We operate this way as humans. Become aware of your unhealed s**t, & stop blaming others & pointing the finger.. cuz it’s usually gonna be pointed back at you 👉🏼 (yOu SpOt iT - you GoT iT). 2️⃣ Treating Others With Respect ✊🏼 Show consideration, empathy, & fairness to others, valuing (or at least listening to) their opinions & feelings, & communicating openly & honestly. you don’t have to agree with everyone, but you definitely don’t have to be an as***le about it.. so save your energy for the mfs that really deserve it 😎 3️⃣ Giving 100% of What You Have to Give We aren’t always going to be feeling 100% that’s just reality, especially as we get older. S**t happens & there always seems to be something you can shake your fist at 🤡 we all have good days & bad days. so even if you’re not operating at ⚡️ LeVeL 9 dEsTrUcTiOn ⚡️ still always give 💯 so when you rest that sweet lil head of yours on your pillow at night, you know you did your best 😘 📸 @ridgemeadows 💄 @tiff_vicious #elevatedbyannie #thebeautycharmer #westkelowna #ylw #westkelownalashes

I’ve had these photos in my drafts for so long 🫠 

I write/create content, then I overthink 💭 then I feel paralyzed by fear that something isn’t perfect or good enough. I don’t take action, then feel guilty & s**tty about it.

I’ve been taking some personal development courses & I’ve been learning so much about myself.

One of the courses taught me about my “acts” which are ways that I live based on events that happened in my life. One of my “acts” is the bs I just told y’all about ☝🏼 

This “perfectionism” keeps me from completing tasks. It holds me back from opportunities & achieving my goals.

I also learned about something called “your probable almost certain future.” The default mode that you’ll most likely revert back to because you’ve already programmed yourself to be a certain way 🤖

My wonderful friend took these photos in the summer. I’ve been hesitant to share them, because at the time I was at such an unhealthy place: mentally, emotionally & physically 🤡

I was in the best shape of my life prior to this photoshoot, but after an unexpected break up, I defaulted back to my binge eating & self sabotaging behaviour that completely derailed my healthy compounding habits (my probable almost certain future 🙀) It f*cking sucked. 

But you know, sometimes you’re the windshield & sometimes you’re the bug 🐛 🐛🐛 

All we can really do is have gratitude for the life we do have & the people who make it worth living, have compassion for the people who suck because they’re the ones who need it the most, & become aware of the mirrors 🪞 that show us what we need to work on 💀

I’m working on being present & getting better, one day at a time 😎

So the old Annie looked at these pictures & felt like she couldn’t post them because she felt like she looked unhealthy & out of shape. The new & healing Annie is acknowledging her body dysmorphia & the fact that she’s talking in the third person. Regardless, she’s gonna face her fears & post her s**t, because she knows that one day she will look back & think, “dang I looked pretty good & I wish I appreciated it more” 🥰♥️

📸 @ridgemeadowsphotography 

#elevatedbyannie #gratitude #love #faceyourfears 02/27/2025

I’ve had these photos in my drafts for so long 🫠 I write/create content, then I overthink 💭 then I feel paralyzed by fear that something isn’t perfect or good enough. I don’t take action, then feel guilty & s**tty about it. I’ve been taking some personal development courses & I’ve been learning so much about myself. One of the courses taught me about my “acts” which are ways that I live based on events that happened in my life. One of my “acts” is the bs I just told y’all about ☝🏼 This “perfectionism” keeps me from completing tasks. It holds me back from opportunities & achieving my goals. I also learned about something called “your probable almost certain future.” The default mode that you’ll most likely revert back to because you’ve already programmed yourself to be a certain way 🤖 My wonderful friend took these photos in the summer. I’ve been hesitant to share them, because at the time I was at such an unhealthy place: mentally, emotionally & physically 🤡 I was in the best shape of my life prior to this photoshoot, but after an unexpected break up, I defaulted back to my binge eating & self sabotaging behaviour that completely derailed my healthy compounding habits (my probable almost certain future 🙀) It f*cking sucked. But you know, sometimes you’re the windshield & sometimes you’re the bug 🐛 🐛🐛 All we can really do is have gratitude for the life we do have & the people who make it worth living, have compassion for the people who suck because they’re the ones who need it the most, & become aware of the mirrors 🪞 that show us what we need to work on 💀 I’m working on being present & getting better, one day at a time 😎 So the old Annie looked at these pictures & felt like she couldn’t post them because she felt like she looked unhealthy & out of shape. The new & healing Annie is acknowledging her body dysmorphia & the fact that she’s talking in the third person. Regardless, she’s gonna face her fears & post her s**t, because she knows that one day she will look back & think, “dang I looked pretty good & I wish I appreciated it more” 🥰♥️ 📸 @ridgemeadowsphotography #elevatedbyannie #gratitude #love #faceyourfears

Embracing my authentic self & sharing it with all of you 🌟

Hi, I’m Annie Jackson 🤍 you might know me as @thebeautycharmer 🐍

Becoming a mom has opened my eyes to a whole new level of self-discovery. Seeing children express themselves without filters or masks makes me reflect on how much we, as adults, shape ourselves based on past experiences or the opinions of others. 

Babies have this incredible ability to communicate their needs freely, through crying & making all kinds of weird noises. But somewhere along the way of growing up, we lose that freedom & become afraid to express our true desires & emotions 🎭 

We spend so much time trying to impress others, seeking validation & acceptance. We wear masks to fit in, even if it means sacrificing our own authenticity. It's absolute baloney!! And to make it even worse, to cope with the discomfort, we engage in unhealthy behaviors that harm us in the long run🌪️🚫

But here's the beautiful part: once you become aware of these patterns, you have the power to change your energy AND transform your life 😌✨ 

I've spent the past few years rediscovering who I truly am & cultivating self-love, & it has completely transformed my mindset & the people I surround myself with 🌸

I've said goodbye to some friendships, but I've also gained incredible new connections. I cherish my ride or dies even more now, & I'm beginning an exciting new chapter that fills me with pure love & joy 😌

As someone with ADHD & a million ideas, I'm not entirely sure where this page will lead, but I want to share book recommendations, podcasts, & quotes that have guided me on this journey of healing & authenticity. 📚🎧💭

My intention is for you to feel elevated emotions, because you f*cking deserve it! 🌟 & if you're still reading this, bless your heart & soul 🥹 I appreciate you 🫶🏼 & I'd love to hear about anything that has moved or inspired you!🥰

photos by my friend @ridgemeadowsphotography ♥️

#elevatedbyannie #authentic #authenticity #levelup #elevatedemotions #bliss #grateful #gratitude #love 02/27/2025

Embracing my authentic self & sharing it with all of you 🌟 Hi, I’m Annie Jackson 🤍 you might know me as @thebeautycharmer 🐍 Becoming a mom has opened my eyes to a whole new level of self-discovery. Seeing children express themselves without filters or masks makes me reflect on how much we, as adults, shape ourselves based on past experiences or the opinions of others. Babies have this incredible ability to communicate their needs freely, through crying & making all kinds of weird noises. But somewhere along the way of growing up, we lose that freedom & become afraid to express our true desires & emotions 🎭 We spend so much time trying to impress others, seeking validation & acceptance. We wear masks to fit in, even if it means sacrificing our own authenticity. It's absolute baloney!! And to make it even worse, to cope with the discomfort, we engage in unhealthy behaviors that harm us in the long run🌪️🚫 But here's the beautiful part: once you become aware of these patterns, you have the power to change your energy AND transform your life 😌✨ I've spent the past few years rediscovering who I truly am & cultivating self-love, & it has completely transformed my mindset & the people I surround myself with 🌸 I've said goodbye to some friendships, but I've also gained incredible new connections. I cherish my ride or dies even more now, & I'm beginning an exciting new chapter that fills me with pure love & joy 😌 As someone with ADHD & a million ideas, I'm not entirely sure where this page will lead, but I want to share book recommendations, podcasts, & quotes that have guided me on this journey of healing & authenticity. 📚🎧💭 My intention is for you to feel elevated emotions, because you f*cking deserve it! 🌟 & if you're still reading this, bless your heart & soul 🥹 I appreciate you 🫶🏼 & I'd love to hear about anything that has moved or inspired you!🥰 photos by my friend @ridgemeadowsphotography ♥️ #elevatedbyannie #authentic #authenticity #levelup #elevatedemotions #bliss #grateful #gratitude #love

Photos from The Beauty Charmer's post 09/29/2023

🌸 hair extensions 🌸

reinstalled this sweet angel’s tape in extensions to add some length and thickness to her fine hair ✨

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