Glamora

- Practica y todo vendrá. - Desikashar.

"El cuerpo es tu templo. Que esté limpio porque su alma vive allí. - B.K.S. IIENGAR, YOGA: El camino hacia la salud holística.

In communication between adolescents and adults, between codependents and dependents, in marital relationships, there may be a problem of balancing the manifestation of care in relationships. Where is the fine line that separates one from the other? Caring is an action that conveys to the other person the message “I see that something is happening to you, and I care.” Noticing this, I can offer some help or options for resolving the situation, if it is necessary for another. Control is a form of manipulation and an important personality trait that can sometimes be acquired by a person in order to survive in a variety of family situations. And then beliefs may arise that if you want everything to succeed, you must strive to control everything and everyone. Of course, first of all, yourself, your feelings, behavior, but then this feeling grows and turns into control over the behavior of an already adult child, husband / wife, dependent person. The controlling person no longer asks you if you need help, whether his actions are pleasant to you or not, but he himself begins to act. There is an illusion that something can improve from such control. In fact, the reverse reaction occurs, the more control from the outside, the less initiative a person has, and it becomes possible to evade responsibility.