harsh truth

Don't let people notice your insecurities by constantly seeking for other people's validation of your worth... if you're really capable, the outcome of your work will speak for itself how outstanding you are as a person.

I never compete with other people. I am happy with my present state... plus there are two important reasons why i shun competing, first, you cannot have what i have and second, you do not have anything i need.

...when caring for others, just make sure that you are not stupid enough not to care for yourself first... if not, your strenght will meager... you cannot give something that you do not have, meaning, you can only care for other people if you are in your best...

Never the role of a hero. You can share the umbrella, you cannot give the entirety of it and leave nothing for yourself.

...a strong woman just happen to know her boundaries and if it is not respected, people might get confused as to how she react as being mean... in the same manner, never confused kindness with soft spokennes, it's two different thing. There soft spoken ladies who are good at plotting other people's disaster, and that is not kindness...always remember that a strong woman can be kind as long as her boundaries are not violated and a timid and soft spoken might also be mean for no reason. Point is, never generalize.

It's not just about the title, great power comes great responsibility once said by spiderman's uncle... and how accurate it is...? a leader should takecare of the people he is in charge of instead of flaunting the powers that goes with it...