Heaven with Hel

Heaven with Hel

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I am a beauty therapist but I tailor make my treatments for Guys (or anyone who identifies as human)

Facebook is hassling me to state what kind of page this is! This is MY work page! And I pretty much post anything I like on it ! You are welcome to like my page whether you know me or not. I will probably put content on here that relates in some way to my business but I'm not making any promises. Some of you know me personally and some of you probably don't. My personal page is almost tot

Being the scapegoat is about carrying the weight of what the family refuses to heal & here’s why…

😤 1. “You’re a threat to our denial.”

You see and speak the truth they’re trying to hide. That’s why they discredit you — not because you’re wrong, but because you’re right.

🧲 2. “You hold the emotional weight we refuse to carry.”

They dump their guilt, shame, and dysfunction onto you so they don’t have to deal with it. You’ve become the emotional landfill for the family system.

🧠 3. “You’re the most self-aware one here.”

Deep down, they know you’re different — more introspective, emotionally intelligent, and willing to grow. But instead of admiring that, they attack it.

🪞 4. “You reflect back what we don’t want to see.”

Your boundaries, your healing, your questions — they mirror the dysfunction they’ve normalized. And that makes you dangerous to the family illusion.

💬 Being the scapegoat isn’t about who you are — it’s about what they’re trying to avoid.

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Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study.

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Being the scapegoat is about carrying the weight of what the family refuses to heal & here’s why… 😤 1. “You’re a threat to our denial.” You see and speak the truth they’re trying to hide. That’s why they discredit you — not because you’re wrong, but because you’re right. 🧲 2. “You hold the emotional weight we refuse to carry.” They dump their guilt, shame, and dysfunction onto you so they don’t have to deal with it. You’ve become the emotional landfill for the family system. 🧠 3. “You’re the most self-aware one here.” Deep down, they know you’re different — more introspective, emotionally intelligent, and willing to grow. But instead of admiring that, they attack it. 🪞 4. “You reflect back what we don’t want to see.” Your boundaries, your healing, your questions — they mirror the dysfunction they’ve normalized. And that makes you dangerous to the family illusion. 💬 Being the scapegoat isn’t about who you are — it’s about what they’re trying to avoid. ************************************************** Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #somatichealing #somaticexperiencing #somatictherapy #somaticexperiencing #healingtrauma #childhoodtraumarecovery #childhoodtrauma #traumasurvivor #fightorflight #survivalmode #copingwithanxiety #anxietyisreal #narcawareness #narcsurvivor #narcabuserecovery #narcissists #narcissisticparent #scapegoat #scapegoatchild #goldenchild

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