About Time We Talk Infertility and More

I’m not enough for him.

That scene from S*x and the City where Charlotte tells Harry that she may never be able to have children hit me in a way very few scenes have.

Not because of the diagnosis.

But because of the guilt.

The guilt of feeling like your body has let down the person you love the most.

The guilt of wondering if he deserves someone who can give him what you can’t.

Infertility has a cruel way of making women question their worth. It convinces us that we’re somehow “less than” because our journey looks different.

I remember carrying that guilt too. Not because my husband ever made me feel that way, but because infertility makes you tell yourself stories that no one else is saying.

That is why **About Time** exists.

To remind every woman that her worth has never been defined by her ability to conceive. To create a space where we can talk about the guilt, the fear and the thoughts we are too ashamed to say out loud.

Because the moment we say them out loud, we realise we’re not the only ones carrying them.

If this resonates with you, our sisterhood is waiting. Join our WhatsApp community. Link in bio. ❤️

There is a scene in **Good Newwz** where Kareena Kapoor’s character finally says out loud what so many women silently carry after years of infertility and IVF.

Everyone thinks the hardest part is getting pregnant.

Sometimes, it isn’t.

Sometimes the hardest part is carrying the fear, the trauma and the emotional scars that infertility leaves behind. Pregnancy does not magically erase years of loss, failed treatments, injections or heartbreak.

That scene resonated with me because I lived it.

After my own 10 year infertility journey, I became a mother through surrogacy. I thought the judgement would finally end. Instead, it changed. I went from being asked, *”When are you having a baby?”* to hearing whispers about *how* I became a mother. Somehow, society always finds a way to judge a woman.

That is exactly why I created **About Time**.

A space where no woman has to explain her journey, defend her choices or suffer in silence.

If you have ever felt judged during or after your infertility journey, join our WhatsApp community through the link in our bio. You do not have to go through this alone. We are here to listen, support and heal together. ❤️

10 years of fighting infertility.
The judgement around IVF.
The emotional weight.
The financial pressure.

And finally… becoming a proud mom of twins. ❤️

IVF is not “just a treatment” for everyone going through it. For many couples, it can be one of the most emotional and financially demanding chapters of their lives.

This , we want to start a different conversation.

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25th July | World IVF Day

Today, we celebrate science.

But more importantly, we celebrate every woman and every couple who chose hope, even when life gave them every reason to give up.

IVF is not an easy journey. It’s endless injections, waiting rooms, failed cycles, heartbreak, financial stress, difficult conversations and holding on to hope when it feels impossible.

And for many, the journey doesn’t end with IVF. It stays with you long after.

That’s why I created About Time.

Not just as a page, but as a safe space where women navigating infertility can finally say, “Me too.” A place where no one has to explain their tears, hide their triggers or carry this journey alone.

Our vision is simple.

To ensure that no woman ever feels alone in her infertility journey.

If you’ve ever felt isolated, misunderstood or wished you had someone who truly gets it, we’d love to have you with us.

Join our WhatsApp community through the link in our bio and become part of a sisterhood that listens, supports and walks beside you.

This World IVF Day, let’s do more than spread awareness.

Let’s break the taboo. Let’s start the conversations. Let’s remind every woman that she is never alone.

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This scene from *Good Newwz* made me smile... because it’s funny.

But if you’ve ever struggled with infertility, you know it’s also painfully real.

The moment people find out you’re trying for a baby...

Suddenly everyone becomes an expert.

*”Relax kar.”*

*”Vacation pe chale jao.”*

*”Itna mat socho.”*

*”Doctor change karo.”*

*”Meri cousin ne ye kiya tha...”*

Everyone has advice.

Very few people ask...

**”Tu theek hai?”**

As someone who battled infertility for 10 years, I can tell you this—

I don’t remember every piece of advice people gave me.

But I do remember how lonely it felt when nobody simply listened.

Sometimes we don’t need another solution.

We don’t need another miracle story.

We don’t need another comparison.

We just need someone to sit next to us and say,

**”I’m here. Tell me how you’re feeling.”**

That’s exactly why I started **About Time**.

A space where women don’t have to explain their pain before they’re allowed to feel it.

A space where we’re not trying to fix each other...

We’re just making sure no one walks this journey alone.

If you’ve ever received unsolicited fertility advice, tell me...

**What’s the one comment you’ll never forget?**

Let’s remind people that listening is sometimes the greatest support we can offer. ❤️

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