Beyond.Through your eyes

As I am approaching another decade of my life...It makes me ponder over a thought ... that how relevant are those things in my survival and life, by and large... for which I was ashamed and outcasted in my formative years!!??
Let me cite a few experiences...

1. A habitual slow eater... my aunt ( my father's sister) used to publicly harass me and encouraged my friends to laugh at me as my food intake was very slow- paced. What is to be noted here is, she had no provisions to offer to help me feel like eating at a pace "DESIRABLE" to her!!!

2. I was and proudly still continue to prefer to rise late in the morning.... my SENIORS, especially, after I got married.... started TEACHING the 25 year old me the RIGHT TIME to wake up... but i am doing fairly well at multi tasking and time management!!! What i had soon realized is... tasks given to me if manageable by waking up at 8 in the morning, what for should i get up at 5 in the morning and feel drowsy during the peak hours of the day??? The significant SENIORS got tiered of shaping me up, and went on to invest a good part of their daily schedule, discussing me... I continued to maintain my waking pattern.

3. During my formative years..... school.... i was admitted to one of Kolkata 's premium institutes... I have learnt stupendously from my school... language, art, etiquettes, good friends.... a tiny question... my "INCAPABILITY" to solve geometric calculations and prove this is equal to that... and so on so forth... for which i was detained in class 9.. lose of a year... receiving a report card written
"promotion refused"... on the 1st floor of krida kunj building in the school compound .... how relevant are those geometry sums now????? Interestingly, something for which i was detained in the class... i could not improve much the following year... what an useless Evaluation and silly goal setting of the
ASS - ESSORS!!

4. My short stature....

More to share.... about life and living...
"Life" might set templates for you... because one is surrounded by many, but "Living" be your own.... very own.. it is based on waste paper bins, tissue papers, locks and keys, ear buds and YOU, the YOU...

Let's spread our wings.. through health and care

A synonym for
" openness to learn " is *possibility*...less possibility ... less adaptation... less adaptation... less futuristic

Imagine a song without a melody! It's like a relationship without peace, charm, bliss,shared fantasies...
# hope is eroded!

10th October, the world mental health day... is a day to take resolutions, reflecting onto the real self,with a sound and open perception of the happenings around🧡💚💛💚🧡💛

If one would realise and internalise the flavour of making own choices, one would eventually come close to not falling prey to others' Evaluation.. when others would quote, that one is " favoured", or one is "lucky", "oh no such a deprivation"... Making of Choices, once internalised, where no harm is intended, will ensure a sound mental health, with an inner peace and poise. No appeasement, no addiction to being GREAT!! The real emotions will operate... it might cast a tough impression of oneself onto the environment, however, the options remain... whether to be dominated by and succumb to and ideal self, featured on demands of others only.. with no real self involved , or , to talk to the real self and starting to negotiate and enjoying the choices hence made!!

On the world mental health day, wishing everyone happiness and a sound mind in a sound body! Both interacting to live a life with minimal complaints and optimum communication and negotiation!💛💚🧡💛💚🧡

It barely takes efforts to label...it is easy to slam... but it take efforts to unlabel.. a process which would have to pass through a tunnel of pain and denial... but once unlabelled, one will see the real colour of the skin, on which the label had once been slammed!! The tanned skin around couldn't potentially capture the true skin colour... Efforts, on unlabelling, though tough succeeded on revealing the true skin colour... it's all YOURS 🌿🌾🌿

আজ আপনার জন্মবার্ষিকীতে আমার শ্রদ্ধাঞ্জলি 💐
আপনার লড়াই নারী জাতির জন্যে আইন পাশ করেছে । মেয়েদের আর প্রকাশ্যে আগুনে পুড়ে মরতে হয় না। ঢাকঢোল কানে শোনা যায় না । তবে, মেয়েরা আজও নিপীড়িত । " কোন ছেলে তোকে বিয়ে করবে", "...এই জন্যেই মেয়েদের বেশি লেখাপড়া শেখাতে নেই", এমন নীরব নিরন্তর অবমাননার আগুনে দগ্ধ হয়ে চলেছে মেয়েরা । নেই প্রতিকার এই দহনের, আজও । এ আগুন চাক্ষুষ দেখা যায় না, আজও ঢাকঢোলের নহ্বত বসে, যার জন্যে সুএধর, সুরকার ও গীতিকার এর অভাব নেই ।

Mothers need more comfort than glory❤...let her make mistakes, she is eligible to make mistakes!!