Bigbrother NAIJA Addicts

Congratulations to Bells
She rang the Bells and conquered

Sheba and Goddessa talking about her Baby Daddy.👇🏽

Sheba: Anytime I look at Temi Nkem, this is a 21 year old girl. This is the me I trusted to marry? Where I came from, even with your profession, you have to do small small till you get married. There was one time I was learning how to drive, and my uncle saw me and was like, ‘Whose car is that?’ Then I explained, and he was like, ‘What kind of habît is this? Why am I learning to drive a car? What if the man I marry does not have a car?

Goddessa: What?

Sheba: So, as a woman, there are things you should not be acquiring. You should not live alone as a single lady; it almost reduces your dîgnîty. Why are you living alone when you are unmarried? Yeah, that’s the mentality.

Sheba: I don’t know if it’s the same now because I don’t live in Jos anymore, but yeah why are you living alone as an unmarried woman? Why are you buying a car as an unmarried woman? Don’t you know you are going to chase men away?

Sheba: So, it’s like a w0man is pr0grammed not to look for too much. Let the man be the one to make you or give you, or else you will chase him away.

Godessa: This is crâźyy. Does your baby have a relationship with him?

Sheba: I’m trying to do that.
Godessa: He didn’t even come looking for him?

Sheba: After everything, everybody went their way. In 2020, I asked for sole custody, and he just wrote that they should give me everything I asked for. And the thing pa!ned me. I’m like, "This boy is not even worth a f!għt? You don’t even want him?’ But yeah, then there was no contact from him up until last year, 2024 December.

Godessa: Four years after?

Sheba: Yeah.

Godessa: When the baby was seven?

Sheba: Ask me how long after that time. I was like, ‘I have to seek legal and spiritual counselling. Even when I let him come, I put certain rules in place and had aduIt supervision because he appears for one month and disappears for three months.

Sheba: And I’m like, you know what? This is my child’s father. Even if he is an aşs^!n or a c0n^v!cť, he is my child’s father, and we don’t choose our parents. But for now, you just have to let the child be. You just have to be there to protect and shield based on what you know.

Sheba: But I cannot infIuence my son in any way and be like, ‘This man, that’s sťup!d.

Godessa: How does your boyfriend

Sheba: Amazing, boo. Up till now, I have not introduced him.

Goddessa: But he knows that?

Sheba: Oh no. He knows that I am very particular about introducing my son to a man. I don’t want him, in general, to start having aß@^nd0nment lsşues because if he gets attached and the person just goes away, you, as a parent, may not know what this may do to the child.

Sheba: Because I know, even as a kid, there are certain memories and feelings I still have. I cannot explain a lot, but they are still in my memory. I try to keep a certain level of m0raIity because I am raising a son without the son looking at me like; Please, abeg, I cannot be the one "today this man, tomorrow that man" kind of thing.

Most of us had that kind of settings while growing up, we relearn, unlearned, and find our own part

We were made to acknowledge that all our lives revolves around marrige

Don't leave alone not to chase men away for marriage

Do not buy a car so that men would not be scared of asking your hand in marriage

Do not talk, not to seen as a wise woman, men are scared of women with wisdom and many more

Our purposes in life is not marriage' marriage is just a part of it, and I thank God most people have evolved.

After all the displayed f@ke affections with their writeups
Some even have to rewrite theirs because of shock, shame and disappointments😕
And I ask again, is there an actual "PadiOfLife" in that house
Like I said I do not hate the game😁 nor the player
The game continues
Congratulations to the winners of Aquafina task
Chimsom would always be a winner🏆
Our Aikou is too bright not to be recognized

Temi Nkem said she doesn't want Keivo anymore because his m£nțaIity is w£îrd... On the other side, Keivo is calling Temi a small ch!|d and saying his younger sister is even older than her. Keivo also told Aikou that the d!sřespect he has gotten from Temi is too much

These two are just tired😩

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Is there any real “Padi of Life” in the house, I do not hate the player nor the game🤭😁

Bells said she rather leave the Big Brother’s house than to wear the Bench warmer Apron. She said she’s not going to put on the Bench Warmer Apron. Even Yusuf is not happy with Big Brother’s decision. He said there should have given her another pun!shment.

This year housemates are bigger that Bigbrother😂🤣😂