Dera peace Chidera

Don’t ever date someone because people around you pressured you to.
Some people get into relationships because everyone else is doing it and they feel like they’re “supposed” to. Wrong.

Some stay with someone because they’re lonely, unhappy, or hoping love will fix the emptiness inside them. Also wrong.

Eventually you realize something that should’ve been obvious from the start:
the only real reason to be with someone is because you genuinely love being around them.

Not pressure.
Not fear of being alone.
Not status.
Not validation.

Just peace, connection, and the simple joy of their presence.