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I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.
My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.
After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.
There is no benefit in pride!

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Your relationship with urself is the longest & most important relationship u will ever have!

Loving urself makes all the difference to how u experience ur life. When u love urself and I mean really being u, the whole world seems to treat u differently. When u love urself people are nicer to u and show u more kindness. People love being in ur company bcos u radiate positively and love. You make people feel brave about living fully.
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If u do not love urself, it doesn't matter how much anyone else loves u. You will always be looking for something that only u can give to urself - true self-love and care.

You will be needy, seeking approval and reassurance constantly. Loving urself frees u and the people in ur life of this burden.
Learn to love, encourage, praise and nurture urself. Do whatever u need to do to get there. Make this ur life's mission to heal and love urself forever more!
If there's a hole inside ur heart, that u think someone else can fill. look in the mirror - that person looking back at u, She's the only person that can truly feel it. It is you... Ure the love of ur life.
Feel ur emptiness with love and ur whole life will change. Believe it. I will say it again, ure the love of ur life.
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SELF IMAGE; LOVE YOURSELF
If u wan to be loved and treated right then, it's up to u to show others how u dey expect to be treated by loving urself and treating urself right.

A Dream girl has dignity and pride in who she is, She's a one of a kind, there's only one of her in the world, and that's pretty special. She expects a man to respect her and she respects herself.
You my darling, have a family history going back through time. It is full of amazing women, they cam b4 I and make up a lot of who u are today. Stand proud to be leading the way forward for ur family, choose to feel pride and dignity in who ure as a woman.

U ARE BEAUTIFUL AS YOU!
No other woman out there is exactly like u, that is precisely why he's with u!
Never be just a yes girl, be honest about what u like, ENJOY asserting yourself in a loving and graceful way. When ure eager to plead, u may lessen his respect for u & it could give the kiss of death to his attraction.

BE easy about life and be u, expect to be loved and respected, you re not afraid to be without him.
You deserve an amazing life, start cultivating your own interests, Be aware of urself and the world around you.
This is where beautiful confidence comes from, Let it flow...

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