Chris O Nwufo

People always Gossip on what they have no idea in . What you see is not always true.
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Celebrating my 5th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

14 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR HUSBAND WITHOUT HURTING HIS EGO

1. LOWER YOUR VOICE

Don't shout at him..He is not your child. Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in a minimum volume tone.

2. DO IT IN LOVE
Correction should be done in love. Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistakes and so are you.

3. NEVER EVER CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR INFRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.

Stop criticizing him, especially infront of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper with a gently hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl, men have egos too.. there self esteem are easy to breakdown.
Correction is the act of offering better options.
Correction and criticism are never the same

4. LETS CUT THE SAYING “WHATEVER MY WIFE SAYS”

Girl, YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS! And so does your husband.
Every decision should be talked and planned with the both of you.
If he said your cooking is a little salty, NEVER WALKED OUT OF THE TABLE…instead appologize and offer other options. Give him sugar instead. 😂 and impove your cooking by watching cooking videos on youtube.

5. PRAISE HIM FOR HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS

If he puts the curtain rod straight or your wall decor in perfect angle, appreciate that.. you know how meticulous they are when it comes to putting wall decor. They really mean business when you request them to do that, with all the use of measuring tapes and torpedo level and rulers. An extra appreciation will make him love you more.

6. DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN
Avoid correcting your husband in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your husband infront of your children will make them disrespect him. Remember HE IS THE HEAD OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD.

7. DON'T CORRECT HIM IN PUBLIC
Avoid correcting your husband in public, it does not show you as a virtuous woman and will affect his self-esteem. If you do that in public, you will look like a mad dog without breeding.

8. AVOID CORRECTING IN ANGER.
Stop correcting your husband in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Never push your husband to the point of him to fight back and protect himself from a rascal act of yours. By doing that, you are like adding kerosine on a burning house. Instead, invite him for a walk, hold his hand and talk about the problem.

9. DON'T COMPARE HIM WITH ANY OTHER MAN! NEVER EVER!!!
Thats where jelousy comes from.
In your thought of correcting him, you might have been comparing him with other men.
"Don't you see what your friend is doing?" Can't you learn from our neighbors husband?" "Can’t you be like cheska husband? Or susie’s husband? Or can you be like ADAM IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN? Or like SAMSON or SOLOMON? Girl, your husband is different. When you come to a point of doing these, then REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN HE STILL COURTING YOU and why you choose him and remember how you are head over heels in love with him.

10. NEVER GET BACK TO OLD ISSUES
There is no reasons why you need to get back to old issues… like “remember what you did before?? I will never ever, ever forget that!!! Bla bla bla!!!” Once the issues are done and solve, it should be totally erased in your memory… never try to open a grave… well mannered woman never do that. Stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.

11. DON'T ATTACK HIS MANHOOD
"And you call yourself a MAN ENOUGH?, REAL MAN don't behave like this, you better change before I change you!." This is very wrong, don't do it… LADIES WE DON’t change MEN! if they want to change, they will change because of LOVE. Don’t try to be a sculptor of water. For sure you can’t do that.

12. DON'T ATTACK HIS DIGNITY
GIVE YOUR HUSBAND A BUNCH OF RESPECT!!!
Thats all that matters. If you don’t have enough respect for your husband then you are not worth the respect of your children.

13. DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE
Most WIFES do want to correct in the heat of their anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result at all. MEN is simple…they have SELECTIVE HEARING. they can only hear in. Low tone of your voice.

14. GIVE A HELPING HAND
Work together for good… change tire together, try your best to help in your most seductive way. That will make their job easy and fast. If he is fixing a broken leg of a table, hand him the things he need. Don’t just stand and watch your husband like you are an egyptian pharaoh mandating a slaves and ready to give a whip when he makes a mistakes.

Husband most of the time are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support him to be better husband and father.

THE REAL IMPOWERED WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RESPECT MEN.

IF YOU EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO BE A RESPECTABLE KING IN YOUR PALACE, THEN YOU SHOULD FIRST CREATE A PEACEFUL PALACE FOR HIM!

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How to treat your wife as a Queen!

CHRISTIANITY IS ADDICTED TO GULLIBILITY

Now, someone will not read this post and voom make terrible assumptions because of my headline. Earlier this year bloggers came out that a portion of Brazil was flooded because they hosted a satanic carnival and mocked Jesus, Christians came out in full to defend God and shout yes, God has shown them HE IS GOD😂🤣🤣, only for some of us to do research upon research to find out if was all a lie, yet some of you didn't come out to apologise to the people of Brazil. The arrogance in ignorance of this new age Christians smell to the highest heaven. Christianity on impulse i dare to say.

One church I know that is very conservative and traditional is the Catholic church, plus the pope cannot and will not give a dicta that Contravene a DIVINE LAW like marriage it's tantamount to removal, yes the pope can be removed. For some of you that don't know the Holy See which controls the doctrine and doctrinal Exegesis of the Church have different colleges of theologians, Esoteric, divine and inspired Ecclesiastical Legislators that are watch dogs of everything the Pope Speaks Ex Cathedral. The Moment his name changed from Begoglio he ceased from having any personal opinion on doctrinal issues.

The pope's Birthday was few days ago, many of you did not post his picture like your supposed God's Generals, because he wasn't deserved of it according to your standard including Catholics and me, but you heard a lie born from misrepresentation and mischief, you believed it because it fed into your ignorance and you needed to finally say Ahaaa, we said so and his pictures is now Living rent free on your status 🤣😂. I WON'T EVEN BOTHER to discuss the document, if you're Intelligent and not gullible you should know the Pope cannot and will not change the Dogma of the Holy and Apostolic Church....make Una di read, Una no gree, see ya life outside awwon I read the Bible cover to cover can not read a simple document and understand, abi it's only the scriptures you need the Holy Spirit to explain ni😂🤣🤣

Immediately the word Same s*x was used as headline, your hate for the pope and the Catholic church went into overdrive. Most of you don't even have the discipline to read. Same way we misquote scriptures and have caused division in the body of Christ because of queered mindset is what is at play now. When did Blessing mean approval. When did irregular union become only same s*x marriage, shey you don't know that Polygamy is irregular union, abi you put woman for house or you live for man house wey neva do small tin for ya head be irregular union ni, dey play 😁. Have you ever seen any Vatican dicta ever written first in English? most of you didn't even go to the source, which is the Vatican, now all of you are now defenders of the faith.

Nobody should ask my opinion again ooo🤣😂😂. If you have decided to not still be spiritually Intelligent after all I have been doing here then I am not your problem. You honour your Daddy GOs and won't allow anyone talk to them even when they err, but the pope....I mean the pope ooo can be Dishonored. When it comes to the Catholic church you suspend the Law of Honour. When it comes to the Pope we no longer leave him to the God that called him. The truth is Christianity as I see it is messed up, I listen to many men of God, but I don't rate them, I hold their messages to heart, but their soul is weightless because they all hate the Catholic church and are masquerading it.

Although, I like the way that the Catholic Apologists are taking their time to explain the document, which is the Catholic way to ensure everyone is properly in the know, which is Catechism, but many of you are already in Mental overdrive(see attached document from CBCN). Me sef won't bother to respond to the matter, say what you like, worst have been said about the Catholic church, but she remained and will remain even after Francis if Jesus tarries. I am only using my platform to stand for something and not to explain. If you come to my comment section, don't come wearing the populist cap....

It's events like this that make me not rate Christians of this age. To the Holy Father, keep doing that which is in the Spirit of St. Francis of Assisi (Brother Sun and Sister Moon)

See Thee Beneath God.

A snake began to chase a firefly that only lived to shine. The firefly stopped and said to the snake:
"Can I ask you three questions?"
The snake said, "Yes."
- Do I belong to your food chain ?
The snake said, "No."
Did I do anything to you?
The snake said, "No."
Then why you wanna devour me?
"The snake replied, ""Cause I can't stand to see you shine."".

Moral of the story...
Often, some people can't stand to see you shine, and that's why they act like snakes, silent and ready to destroy you!
The bitter truth

Author Unknown

The most wonderful thing said in the time of the wise
Drink where horses drink, a horse will never drink bad water.
Put your bed where the cat sleeps, as it loves calm.
And each of the fruits that the worm touched and did not pe*****te, it is always looking for the ripe fruit.
And plant your tree where the mole digs, for that is the fertile land.
Build your house where the snake sits to warm itself, for that is the stable ground that does not collapse.
And dig to find water where the birds hide from the heat, where the birds stand, the water hides.
And go to sleep and get up at the same time with the birds - that's the quest for success.
Eat more vegetables-
You will have strong legs and a resistant heart like jungle animals.
Swim whenever you find time and you will feel like fish in water on land.
Look at the sky as often as possible and your thoughts will become bright and clear.
Be calm and silent, and tranquility will come to your heart, and your soul will enjoy peace and peace...

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