Egem Elites Clinic

You unconsciously become a damaged and toxic person when a relationship you gave in your all didn't work out in the end. The zeal in you dies and the extreme alertness in you awakens.

WHAT IF?

There's no guarantee that whom we are so desperate to share the warmth of our bed with as couples won't be the source of our pain thereafter , what if that person experience shift in behavior, what if that partner got into an accident that puts the family on everlasting pain, what if there will be childlessness in the marriage, a health challenge? etc. However, it's common amongst humans to only hope for the best by so doing we dance on the stage of delusion that we can avoid pain and attract everlasting happiness. But it's also consequential to think of the worst, ask questions that makes our hearts restless and pounding.

It's easy to see someone else's life and wish we had this kind of life; could be their nice shoes, apartment, car, dresses, educational status, marriage, relationship, even their facial looks. But also it's important to sit in solitude and deliberate on the fact that the who we are now was what we once prayed or wished for.
Happiness is never reached because one point of achievement creates room for another problem to be discovered. The people suffer from constant unhappiness because we are always wanting.
This brings us to the big question Are we born to only keep wishing till we die?

It's sad to see that a large percentage of the young population go into marriage with a romantic expectation only.This particular expectation (romantic expectation) is just a major reason why many can't stand the reality of what marriage entails.there's no better way to sugar tongue this but marriages ain't just bed of roses, Marriage brings out the part of people they never knew about themselves!

The only solution to this is to be very aware that romantic marriages are only on screens, alot goes on in marriages and there's no better way to be a happy couple until every couple discover what works for them or not

It's evident in today's society that people are more delusional and capable of psychopathic tendencies because of availability of excess information. This has made cohabitating very difficult amongst people

Could it be that many marriages don't last because people have exhausted their fantasies with others before marriage?