Aliyu Abdussalam Library

MY FATHER'S ADVICE...

1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.

2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that s**t delays blessings!

3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.

4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.

5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.

6. Chase goals, not people.

7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.

8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.

9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.

10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.

11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.

12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.

13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.

14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.

15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.

17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.

18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.

19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.

20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.

21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.

22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.

23. Never love someon

Ladies have you realized how USELESS you become once a man chop you? Have you realized how silent men become once they eat you?

You will be in his dm talking to yourself…hey how are you doing? How was work? Have you eaten? How is your mother doing? Bla bla bla and sometimes he doesn’t even respond or he will respond after hours and hours🤣 not that he hasn’t seen your message, he’s got his phone in his hand and he saw your message but he can’t respond because you have become USELESS and he doesn’t need you at that moment. All of a sudden he was good in the beginning, responding on time, calling you and all but once you give him the fruit from the garden of Eden he disappear like the snake that gave eve fruit 🍎

This must tell you something ladies, if you can’t be educated or if your education cannot give you value at least your private part must give you value “🍑” you must protect it and value it by all means to make sure it’s not easily accessible.

Men don’t respect women who can be accessed all the time infact they don’t even value women that can be eaten or chopped at any time. You must add value to yourself by making sure your 🍑is well taken care of and it’s not easily accessed.

Relationships are not hard to find but because you decide to reduce value and open your legs to anyone you reduce your value by not being marketable. A valuable woman is not the one with PHD, Degree or driving expensive cars but a valuable woman is the one who knows how to take care of her private part. I know a lot of women who are educated but very useless and they share their private part to anything that drives and give them money and that’s not value.

Protect your private parts because that’s where your value is!! All men need it, they need it 😀so you must make sure you realize that it has value.

How well you take care of YOURSELF DETERMINED HOW VALUABLE YOU ARE!