Destiny diaries

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Benedithal Imarhiagbe, Susan Khoza, Igwe Favour, Odibo Ehis

Christmas Season is here everybody is spending now don't forget January oh before we go hear say had I known

Comparison is the thief of joy avoid comparing yourself with others instead of you see something in them that you admire trying to also appreciate or be happy for them, that way you won't feel pressured
Social media will make you feel behind, your body will feel wrong, you may have the feeling that you are not doing enough Self-doubt is normal… but temporary.
Everyone feels insecure at times even people who look confident.
The difference is choosing to keep moving despite the fear.Growth is a process.
You’re learning, stumbling, and figuring life out and that’s okay.
Being authentic and consistent matters more than perfection.You are allowed to set boundaries.
Not everyone’s opinion is worth your energy.
Protect your peace. Say no when necessary
If this feels like you type I am enough

What I’m slowly learning as a girlie in her twenties,a student and plus size girly is this

You don’t have to have everything figured out to start becoming the woman you want to be.
You don’t have to shrink because of your size.
You don’t have to rush because of societal pressure.
You don’t need to prove anything to anyone.

Some of us are building our confidence from scratch.
Some of us are learning how to trust ourselves again.
Some of us are growing quietly, painfully, beautifully.And that’s still progress.

Every day you get up, even when life is heavy…
Every time you choose yourself…
Every moment you decide to try again…

That’s you winning. Even if nobody claps for you.

Shoutout to My fellow girlies who are working towards their financial independence it will soon make sense

Being a plus-size babe no funny oh have you ever wanted to try on a dress that doesn't fit very annoying

To every Nigerian babe carrying school stress, body insecurities, and future pressure at the same time you’re doing better than you think keep going don't give up # fblifestyle

To the girl who feels like she’s ‘not enough’ your story isn’t over. It’s just beginning, and I’m rooting for you.”

Being independent as a young woman is cute but don't just let it end as a dream but you must work towards it

New here? Come closer, sis 🫶🏽💗”

I created this page because I know what it feels like to be a young girlie trying to balance school, body confidence, growth, and the dream of a soft life… all at the same time.

I’m still learning.
Still figuring things out.
Still trying to become the girl I want to be

So hi, I’m Destiny
• A plus-size girly
• A student
• A girly who wants to lock in and build steady income for herself
• and a girl who wants independence, peace & soft life