Love thy neighbour as thyself
Nazia Anwar Smith
02/07/2026
"Walk the Line"
30/06/2026
đź’ś The Love That Lets You Be a Kid Again
There’s something sacred about a love that lets you be a kid again. The kind of love where you don’t have to perform, pretend, or constantly protect yourself. You can laugh too loud, act silly, make mistakes, and still feel completely safe. It’s a love that invites your inner child to come out and play instead of teaching it to hide.
The true nature of love isn’t found in control, possession, or perfection. It’s found in the moments when two people finally put down their armor and meet each other in joy. They choose play over pain, connection over fear, and understanding over judgment. They hug instead of running. They dream instead of dreading. They stay present when old wounds tell them to pull away.
A love like that doesn’t make you smaller. It gives you room to breathe, heal, and become more of who you truly are. You don’t have to lose yourself to keep it. You feel safe enough to rediscover the parts of yourself that life forced into hiding.
When you find a love that feels like home, you don’t just fall in love... you rise through it. You rise into your highest self, your truest self, and the version of you that feels closest to God. Wide open. Innocent. Playful. Trusting. Fully alive.
That’s the kind of love we were made for. 💜💜💜💜💜
ZF 🔥
Fisher
30/06/2026
Woman, you will always be a beggar in relationships until you heal your wounds, because your begging did not begin with a man. It began in childhood.
You begged to be seen. You begged to be chosen. You begged to be loved. Today, you call it love, but it is the same wound wearing a different face.
Men come and go. Some use you, put you down, and treat you like a staycation hotel. They come when they need comfort, leave when they are satisfied, and return only when it is convenient for them.
You keep opening the door because your wound tells you that any attention is better than being alone.
In that relationship, you are no longer there. Your body keeps showing up, but your soul quietly disappears. You laugh, you smile, you sleep beside him, but deep inside you no longer exist.
You stop listening to your own truth. You stop feeling your own needs. You become so focused on keeping someone else that you completely forget yourself.
You tolerate disrespect because your wound whispers, "At least he didn't leave."
You confuse attachment with love. You confuse fear with devotion. You confuse emotional starvation with intimacy.
No man can heal the emptiness that was created before he entered your life. He only touches the wound that already exists.
The day you stop begging for love is the day your life begins to change. You stop chasing. You stop proving your worth. You stop abandoning yourself.
A healed woman carries a different presence. She cannot be manipulated because she no longer negotiates her self-respect for temporary attention.
If you need my help, just send me a message. I will walk with you as you heal your wounds and reconnect with the woman you were always meant to be.
- Abhikesh
30/06/2026
21/04/2026
Or**sm was considered a natural form of medicine for women in ancient times. It was not seen as something shameful or hidden, but as an essential part of a woman’s well-being and vitality. Women understood that their bodies were designed to feel, to receive, and to experience deep pleasure as a way of maintaining balance within themselves.
In those times, a woman’s connection to her body was sacred. Pleasure was not disconnected from health, it was part of it. Or**sm was believed to nourish her entire system, supporting her emotional, physical, and energetic state. It helped her stay alive, radiant, and connected to her feminine essence.
If a woman does not experience or**sm in her life, it can feel like something inside her slowly shuts down. Not physically in a literal sense, but emotionally and energetically. Her body may begin to feel numb, disconnected, or distant from sensation and joy. Over time, she may lose touch with her natural aliveness.
Many women today are not fully aware of what a real or**sm feels like. Because of this, they often fake the experience. Not because they want to deceive, but because they have never been guided into truly feeling it within their bodies. They perform what they think it should look like, instead of experiencing what it actually is.
A real or**sm is not just a moment of release. It is a full-body experience that moves through her breath, her muscles, her emotions, and her energy. It is something that cannot be forced or imitated, it arises naturally when a woman feels safe, relaxed, and deeply connected to herself.
In modern life, many women have become disconnected from their bodies due to stress, trauma, shame, and societal conditioning. From a young age, they are taught to suppress their feelings, hide their desires, and disconnect from their sensual nature. This creates a barrier between them and their ability to feel pleasure.
When a woman lives disconnected from her body, her nervous system often stays in a state of tension. This makes it difficult for her to relax enough to experience deep pleasure or or**sm. Her body may be present, but her awareness is somewhere else, occupied with thoughts, fears, or expectations.
True or**sm requires presence. It asks a woman to be fully inside her body, to listen to her sensations, and to allow herself to open without control. This level of surrender can feel unfamiliar or even unsafe for someone who has spent years protecting herself.
Another reason many women fake or**sm is the pressure to meet expectations. They may feel responsible for their partner’s satisfaction, or fear being judged if they do not respond in a certain way. Instead of honoring their own experience, they act out what they believe is expected of them.
Healing this disconnect begins with awareness. A woman needs to slowly rebuild trust with her own body. This includes learning to feel again, starting with small sensations, breath, and gentle presence within herself, without any pressure to perform.
Creating a safe and supportive environment is essential. When a woman feels emotionally safe, her body begins to soften. As she relaxes, her natural sensitivity and responsiveness start to return. Pleasure is not something she has to chase, it begins to arise on its own.
It is also important for her to release shame around her body and her desires. Her body is not something to hide or judge, it is a source of intelligence, wisdom, and life force. When she accepts her body fully, she opens the door to deeper experiences.
Over time, as she reconnects with herself, or**sm becomes less about an end goal and more about a journey of feeling. It becomes a natural expression of her aliveness, rather than something she has to achieve.
Or**sm is not just about physical pleasure—it is about connection. Connection to her body, her emotions, her breath, and her inner self. When this connection is restored, a woman does not need to fake anything. Her experience becomes real, authentic, and deeply fulfilling.
If you feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, or your ability to feel deeply, you do not have to navigate this alone. This journey requires patience, safety, and the right guidance.
I offer a 3-month one-on-one deep healing, hands-holding coaching program where we gently work with your body, your patterns, and your stored emotions. This is not about forcing change, it is about creating a safe space where your body can slowly open again.
In these 3 months, we go step by step, rebuilding your connection with your body, releasing stored tension, and helping you feel again without fear or pressure. You will be supported, seen, and guided throughout the entire process.
This is a space where you can finally come back to yourself, where your body is no longer a place of numbness, but a home of sensation, trust, and aliveness so message me for more information.
- Abhikesh
05/04/2026
Happy Easter ❤️
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