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Jen's short vlog

positive vibes

01/10/2025

She never wanted to argue.
She just wanted you to understand how she felt.
She wasn’t trying to start a fight. She wasn’t trying to tear you down. She wasn’t “nagging” or “being dramatic.” She was reaching out. She was trying to connect. She was trying to be heard in a space where she started feeling invisible.
Because when a woman loves you, she doesn’t just care about what you do... she cares about how you make her feel. And when something hurts her, when something doesn’t sit right in her spirit, she speaks up… not to attack, but to heal what’s drifting. To fix what’s becoming unfamiliar.

She wanted a conversation, not a war.
She wanted your attention, not your defense.
She wanted your heart, not your ego.
But you heard criticism where there was only pain. You rolled your eyes at the same voice that used to calm you. You called her “too emotional” when all she was doing was being honest.
And slowly, she started going quiet.
Not because she didn’t feel anymore... but because trying to be understood started to feel like begging for basic empathy. And that hurts in a different way… when the person you care for the most acts like your emotions are an inconvenience.
She didn’t want to argue.
She just wanted you to care enough to meet her halfway.
To see beyond your pride and actually listen without getting defensive.
She wanted peace too... but not the fake kind that’s built on silence and suppression.
She wanted peace that comes from understanding… from knowing that her feelings mattered to you.
But now? Now she’s quiet.
Not because everything is okay… but because fighting to be understood by someone who refuses to hear you becomes more exhausting than the silence itself.
📌 And once a woman stops talking, not out of healing but out of hurt, that’s when you should worry. Because she’s not arguing anymore… she’s letting go.

CTTO.

01/10/2025

Sa Relasyon…💚
Ang tukso ay Kusang lumalapit yan ,inaalok ka ng sandaling ligaya,pero may kapalit na lungkot at wasak na tiwala.
Ikaw ang Magdidisisyon kung papatusin mo o iiwasan mo,
Pero tandaan mo, sa oras na kumagat ka sa bitag,
hindi mo na pwedeng sabihing “hindi ko sinasadya.” Kasi bago ka pa maakit, may ilang segundo kang pwedeng mag-isip.

Sa Mga Oras nayan Bago mo Gawin Tanungin mo muna ang sarili mo,
Handa ka bang may mawala?
Handa ka bang may masaktan?
Handa ka bang sirain ang tiwalang buong pusong ibinigay sa'yo?
Ang tukso, oo, masarap sa simula kilig, thrill,
at pansamantalang saya. Pero pag lumipas ang ligaya, ang kapalit ay luhang hindi mo kayang punasan. Sirang tiwala. Wasak na puso.
Galit na hindi mo na kayang bawiin.

Kahit nakapikit siya, ramdam niya ang sakit.
At kahit paulit-ulit kang magsori, hindi mo na maibabalik ang dating ikaw sa paningin niya.
Dahil niluko mo ang taong totoo ang pagmamahal,
at pinalitan mo ng tukso ang respeto. Ang Sugat na Ginawa mo ay HabangBuhay..✅