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most guys are dating you for marriage but your attitude towards money changes their intention. 💔😔

A clear rejection is better than a false hope 💛

SECRET! MEN TELL HER THIS AND SHE STICKS TO YOU

When it comes to relationships, language is everything. Just as soon as the wrong phrase can set your lover off, a perfectly worded sentence can also unlock her heart. And while no two women are exactly the same, there are indeed phrases that just about any gal on earth would love to hear.

1. “Guess What I Love About You”

“You Know What I Love About You?” Followed by something very detailed, women love specifics. A little extra thought can make sweet nothings into sweet somethings so tell her even the little things you think are unnecessary.

2. “You’re Right”

Sometimes, it’s better to own up to the fact that she’s right and you’re not. Humility is a virtue most women can appreciate. It also wouldn’t hurt to know how to say you’re sorry. Let’s face it, women are always right, arguing about it lands you into that fire.

3. "I Love You"

These words take the number one spot. When a woman loves a man, she never gets tired of hearing these three words from him. She longs to hear this, especially he being the one to say it first not she initiating it then him saying it back every time. Don't deny her these three words if you really mean them.

4. “I Don’t Understand, But I’m Going To Try.”

“Let’s be honest: Communication between the genders can be a minefield,” Burton says. “You’re not always going to get where she’s coming from, but you definitely get points for trying.” Now, here’s even more great advice on how to keep your wife happy.

5. "I Am Sorry"

It takes humility for a man to apologise. Too many men are governed by ego and pride to even say sorry to their own lover. Sometimes all a woman is waiting for is her man to say 'I am sorry".

6. “I Appreciate You”

Kenyan men hii ni yenu,. It's nice to hear thank you or I appreciate you, every once in a while. A lot of women juggle work and family life - which can be very stressful and exhausting. Women want to know that their hard work is appreciated and recognized.

It hurts when you are losing bond with someone you planned to be with forever😞💔

Never replace someone who loves you for someone who only likes you..

THINGS NOT TO DO IMMEDIATELY AFTER A BREAK UP plz read .

1) RUN INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP

Don't try to use a new relationship to forget an old one,

Relationship is not a App you install just to help you forget your Ex, after you forget your ex, what then happens to the INSTALLED App?

Don't let mourning confuse you.

2) ISOLATE YOURSELF FROM HELP

You just came out of a break up, it's only normal to be in some sort of pain or hurt, you NEED help at such a time, you NEED company, you NEED advice...

Isolating yourself for too long from friends who want to help you heal can end you in depression, and worse.
No matter how bad you are hurting, allow friends who care have access to you.

3) STAY IN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX

Except you never loved them, but if you genuinely and intensively did, it's advisable you cut connections with your ex AT LEAST for the mean time, so you can get over them,

Stop sending them messages,
Stop calling them.
Stop texting them and hoping they pick and come back to you, you are delaying your healing time, you are making it hard for your body, soul, emotions and all to adjust to their absence.

Some people are stil obsessing over their ex that left them 4 years ago, going through their social media pages everyday, stalking them, you will NEVER heal this way.

4) ATTEMPT TO END IT ALL.

Su***de is never the answer.

God knows why that relationship had to end, why not trust him and stay alive to see what he has in store for you in the future.?
Why not TRUST GOD?
INSEAD, AFTER A BREAK UP DO THIS.

1) MOURN

Yes oh.
Crying helps to release the pain and hurt.
So don't form "I am strong, I am strong".. Is a lie, cry now, or cry later, fact is you will cry.

Mourn the Relationship, look at their picture if you must and allow yourself the luxury of a good heart felt cry.

You'll find this to be therapeutic.

2) EVALUATE

After mourning, when your head is clearer, evaluate.

What went wrong?

What red flags did you miss?

Where did you go wrong?

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

1 Laziness kills Marriage

2 Suspicion kills Marriage

3 Lack of trust kills marriage

4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage

6 Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage

7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage

8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

9 Poor Communication kills marriage

10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage

12 Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable s*x kills marriage.

13 Nagging kills marriage

14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage

16 Being too independent minded kills marriage

17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kill marriage

18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage

19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life

20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.

23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage

24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.

26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional, financial and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.

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W O M A N:
● changes her name.
● changes her home.
● leaves her family.
● moves in with you.
● builds a home with you.
● gets pregnant, the pregnancy changes her body.
● she gains weight
● almost gives up in the labor room due to the unbearable pain of childbirth.
● even the kids she delivers bear your name...
Til the day she dies, everything she does cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefits you...sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies, and beauty.
So, who is really doing whom a favor ?
My Dear brothers, let's together appreciate the good women in your lives always, because it is not easy to be that Good chosen loyal and dedicated Woman.
Being a good woman is priceless. 🖤

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ABOUT EXS & PAST RELATIONSHIPS

You must know this that it is not all exs you should accept back into your life either as a relationship or friendship.

The bitter truth is some exs can destroy your new relationship especially if you've had s*xual acts with them before or they're outside Christ.

Your ex is your ex and your past is your past, you can't find yourself in a new relationship and still accommodate your ex by being too close to them, that is stupidity and immaturity!

How will you be in a new relationship and your ex keeps calling you, chatting you as if he or she's the one you're in a relationship with and you can not curb such acts.

How will you be in a new relationship and your ex is telling you he or she wants you back and all you could do about it is nothing but gives him or her a green light, that is disrespectful to your new partner.

Is your ex still disturbing you even after you're in a new relationship? Let him or her know you're in a new relationship and set strict boundaries with them.

Before you think on accepting your ex back be sure what separated both of you before is not something that you should never go into again.

Your ex was cheating on you and was treating you like an option, not even showing they care about you and you think he or she coming back into your life after breakup is a solution to you being single? Don't be carried away with your emotions and open your eyes wella.

There are some exs you must not even think of giving a second chance to if you truly value and love yourself.

Not all exs should be accepted back into your life and before you will even do that, make sure what separated you both in the first place is not something that can destroy your life.

And if you're already in a new relationship, be wise to set boundaries with your ex and stop giving access to them into your life again.

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ABOUT AGE IN RELATIONSHIP.

To some out there, age really matters to them as some can not be in a relationship with those who are older than them due to one reason or the other best known to them.

If you're the type who can't get into a relationship with someone older than you, then you don't need to force yourself into having a relationship with one.

Age matters when it comes to relationship but maturity matters most when it comes to this.

For instance, you can not advice a teen who is 17 or below to go into a relationship, what does he or she has to offer in the relationship unless they do immoral acts in it, such age is a sensitive one that facing their studies, discovering and fulfilling purpose is very important.

Whether you're in a relationship with someone younger or older than you are, make sure the person is mature because most times age doesn't proof someone to be matured.

Before you conclude whether age matters or not in a relationship, make sure the person's perspectives and way of thinking will not affect you in the relationship.

Don't be surprised someone may be 30 or 35 years of age and can not handle a relationship well while someone who is in their early 20s knows how to.

Don't because of age choose a life partner alone, check some qualities too and involve God to guide you through.

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HOW TO SHOW LOVE TO YOUR FIANCÉ WITHOUT S3X

Dear ladies,

Let me teach you how to show love to your Fiancê.

Some of you ladies do not know how to show love to the person you're in a relationship with .

Some ladies think that the only way to show a man love is by having s3x with him; that is why some ladies do not have anything to offer a man except s3x.

I remembered many years ago when I was dating a girl, I bought gifts for her, then she said, "I will pay you back this night by giving you a hot s3x." I just laughed.It is very funny.

A real man that has you in heart for future will not ask you for s3x, my father in the LORD said, "YOU DON'T EAT WHAT IS MEANT FOR THE FUTURE NOW". S3x is not a prove of love.

Don't use s3x to prove that you love a man.

As a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the following ways:

1. Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, un**es, singlets or even a phone if you have the money.

2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.

3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.

4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.

5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a month or once in two months s, but not everyday/time like a housewife.

6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.

7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die.

8. Pray for him

9. Advise him to know God

10. Help him to build a bright future.

11. Don't give him s3x instead encourage him to know God and come and pay your bride price first.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for a man, not s3x at all.

A real man will appreciate this and do more for you in return.

Thank you.....

Italian Relationship:
1st day= Sêx
2nd day= Sêx again.

French Relationship:
1st day = movies & kiss
2nd day = Sêx
3rd day = Sêx again

British Relationship:
1 day= hangout & kiss
2nd day = kiss & hug
3rd day= kissing, hug and smooching
4th day = sêx and more sêx

American Relationship:
1st day= Date
2nd day= Hug
3rd day= Hug again (warmly)
4th day= Kiss
5th day= Long kiss
6th day= Sêx

Nigeria Relationship:
1st day= Toast
2nd day= Toast
3rd day= Toast again
4th day= Agree
5th day= Date
6th day= Date again
7th day= Date again with three of her hungry friends or cousins.
8th day= Date & Hug
9th day= Tried to peck but failed.
10th day = Peck
11th day= Tried to kiss but failed.
12th day= kiss
13th day= Long kiss
14th day= Tried to have s*x but failed.
15th day= Tried to have s*x but quarrelled
16th day= Didn't talk to each other
17th day= Malice till the next day
18th day= The man called but the woman didn't pick
19th day= The man called, the woman picked and asked: "what is it?"
The man apologize and the Ital replied: "Leave me alone, am not that type of girl"
The man continued to beg till the next day.
20th day= The woman accepted the unwarranted apology
21st day= Hug
22nd day= Long hug
23rd day= Kiss
24th day= Long kiss
25th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman complains that her phone is bad. Guy promises to buy her a new one.
26th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman said until he buys the phone
27th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman asked: "where is the phone? U are not serious, call me when you are serious"
28th day= Ràpe.
29th day= Police case.
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