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In "You Become What You Think," Shubham Kumar Singh explores the profound impact of thoughts on personal development and success. The book emphasizes the idea that our mindset and the beliefs we hold shape our reality and influence our actions. Through a combination of personal anecdotes, practical advice, and motivational insights, Singh encourages readers to cultivate a positive mindset to achieve their goals. Here are ten key lessons and insights from the book:

1. The Power of Thought: Singh underscores the foundational belief that our thoughts shape our reality. He explains how positive thinking can lead to positive outcomes, while negative thinking can create barriers to success. Understanding this power is the first step toward transformation.

2. Mindset Matters: The author distinguishes between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset. He emphasizes that adopting a growth mindset—believing in the ability to learn and develop—can open doors to new opportunities and foster resilience in the face of challenges.

3. Self-Awareness: Singh encourages readers to cultivate self-awareness by reflecting on their thought patterns and beliefs. By identifying negative or limiting thoughts, individuals can take proactive steps to change their mindset and align their thoughts with their goals.

4. Visualization Techniques: The book introduces visualization as a powerful tool for achieving goals. Singh explains how visualizing success can enhance motivation and focus, making it easier to take actionable steps toward desired outcomes.

5. Affirmations for Change: Singh advocates for the use of positive affirmations as a means to reprogram the mind. By regularly repeating affirmations, individuals can reinforce positive beliefs, boost self-confidence, and counteract self-doubt.

6. Surrounding Yourself with Positivity: The author emphasizes the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences, including supportive friends, mentors, and uplifting environments. Positive relationships can inspire growth and encourage a constructive mindset.

7. Embracing Failure as a Learning Tool: Singh discusses the inevitability of failure on the path to success. He encourages readers to view failure as a valuable learning experience rather than a setback, fostering resilience and persistence.

8. Taking Action: The book stresses that thoughts alone are not enough; action is essential for transformation. Singh motivates readers to take consistent, deliberate steps toward their goals, reinforcing the idea that progress is built on effort and commitment.

9. Gratitude as a Mindset: Singh highlights the practice of gratitude as a means to cultivate a positive mindset. By focusing on what one is thankful for, individuals can shift their perspective and enhance their overall outlook on life.

10. Continuous Growth and Learning: Finally, the author emphasizes the importance of lifelong learning and personal growth. He encourages readers to remain curious, seek knowledge, and adapt to change, reinforcing the idea that self-improvement is an ongoing journey.

In "You Become What You Think," Shubham Kumar Singh presents a compelling case for the transformative power of thought and mindset. By engaging with these ten key lessons and insights, readers can learn to harness their thoughts to create a more positive and fulfilling life. The book serves as a motivational guide for anyone seeking to improve their mindset, achieve their goals, and embrace personal growth.

I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.
She smiled and said to me..

“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.

I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me..

I stopped fighting with my in laws..

I stopped fighting for attention..

I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me..

I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people..

I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight..

And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.

The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.”

Some fights are not worth your time.
Choose what you fight for wisely.

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THINGS THAT CAUSE REGRET AT OLD AGE......

When younger, we make various choice's without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older.

1. Marrying the wrong person

When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young.

2. The opportunities you did not seize

When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances.

3. The bridges you burned

When we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.

4.The child you aborted

You are a young lady, you get pregnant and you are scared. You take the aborting option quickly thinking of that moment then. But when you are much older, you will look back and wish you kept that baby. When you will be rich and successful you will wish that child you gave up on would be around to enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Being a single mother doesn't mean you can't make it in life or you can't find a man in future.

5. The child you rejected

Young man, you impregnated a woman, she told you she's pregnant with your child. You rejected her and the baby and ran. But years later when you're 50 something, you will wish you were responsible, you will wish you manned up and became a father to that child. You will see that child excel and become an adult but will have no claim to that grown child who you rejected from the beginning. You will regret being a Dead Beat Dad by choice

6. The marriage you destroyed

So you get married to your good fiance; the first months in marriage were good but shortly after, with your money and charm, you started having affairs. You became unfaithful. Your spouse begged you to stop, your children started hurting, your marriage was collapsing. One day when you are older, it will hit you how foolish you were to destroy the good marriage you had began to build for mere temporary thrills in affairs that did you no good. You will realize the damage you caused to your children and spouse.

7. The God you disowned

When you are much older you become wiser, God becomes more real as you see life in a more meaningful way. But don't wait to get older to start enjoying a relationship with God. Know God when you are young, build your future with God. Don't be a young rebel who runs back to God when age catches up.

8. The body you messed up

You have only one body to live with all your life. The ci******es, the alcohol you are abusing, the drugs you are taking, the unhealthy food you're consuming; all that will destroy you slowly. When you are 50 and lifestyle diseases catch up with you, you will wish you took care of your body when younger, that you exercised more; but now the damage is done.

9. The time you wasted

The time you are wasting when younger in worry, wrong relationships, laziness, being a couch potato, giving excuses and pursuing meaningless things; you will never get it back.

10. The dreams and talents you shelved

Are you talented when young; are there things you love to do and you are good at them? Nurture those talents, exploit them, don't give up even if you encounter set backs, don't give up on your dreams. If you give up, when you're older you will look at your peers who stuck to what they love and made it and think to yourself, "That could have been me". Pursue a career, study a course you love. Don't waste years of your life in a field that doesn't fulfill you.

11 The name you defamed

When you are older, a legacy is very important, the value of your name is crucial. You will ask yourself what is your reputation, what are you leaving behind? Your legacy is a sum total of your actions since youthful days. We write our biography by how we live life everyday. When you look back your path and you see the mud you threw at your own name, the shame you attracted and the little value you have added to the world; you will regret.

12. The wealth you threw away

Are you riding on good money during your productive years? Earning good money? Don't throw away that money in clubs, reckless living and wasteful shopping. Invest with that money, widen your revenue stream, make that money work for you and keep it safe to take care of you in your older years. Leave an inheritance for your loved ones so that you will never say "I wish I knew better"

13. The good love that got away

Is there that great person in your life loving you good? Don't push that person away, or else that person will walk out your life and you will never ever find someone that incredible and who connects with you all your life. It will torment you to grow older with thoughts of "What if I was still with that person?"

14 The parents you despised

When younger, it is easy to show contempt to your parents; what do your parent's know? They are old-fashioned, shady and small -minded. But your parents are still your parents whether you agree with them or not, whatever their style. Don't let your parent die or age separated from you, reconcile and make up. When you get older, you will realize why your parents wanted to be close to you. The older you get, the more you see the value.
Thanks for reading

Stop pretending to be busy and start being busy making your life better.
Stop pretending to be what your not and face the reality of what and who you are.
Your not what you pretend to be ,you are who you you invest to be.

Everytime you lie to yourself about something ,you dont become it,you wake up to your reality❤️❤️
Happy new week and i pray this last half of the year makes you happy

You can completely recreate yourself. Nothing is permanent. You’re not stuck. You have choices. You can think new thoughts. You can create new habits. All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.

The biggest lesson for me this year is not to force anything; conversations, friendship, attention, love.
Anything forced is just not worth fighting for.
What ever flows flows
Whatever crashes crashes
It's what it is