Elucidate

Good literature teaches a person to speak beautifully. Reading develops not only speech, but also mental abilities. On the channel "Literature" you will find many interesting thoughts of great writers.

We treat our expectations like balloons. We let them rise higher and higher, until they finally burst and scattered from the sky on our heads. Stop confusing your needs, goals and expectations - stop cooking them in the same pot. There is a difference between them - separate them. The ability to consciously form your expectations is a skill for living a good life.

The best inspirer and guru for yourself is yourself. No other person has gone through the path and history that is vital for you. The best advice for yourself is your own. This way you can find the right direction yourself. Every mistake is an experience. You don't need to feel guilty about it, you need to understand it and let it go. Live without repeating yourself. This is just your story and it is unique.

Throw away anything that draws vitality from you. Silently so, quietly, without attracting attention, just move away from that which harasses you. Don't try to change something - it won't change. Do not try to explain - they will not understand. Don't try to get through - you won't break through. Sometimes the only way out of a situation is a way out in the truest sense of the word. This is not the choice of the weak. It is a smart decision to save yourself and save yourself from what is slowly poisoning.

To love what is, not to wait for the perfect moment, to try to live every day in full, not to lose heart, no matter how difficult it is, to believe in the future - this is gratitude. Inner peace comes precisely when you are grateful for the present moment, when you are not fussing and do not torment yourself with thoughts “could have been better”. Only in a state of rest can you hear the answers to your questions and understand where to go.

"When envy is unavoidable, it should be used as an incentive to one's own efforts, not to hinder others."

Those who start a new day by meeting the sea cannot be angry or unhappy. And what kind of sea it is - summer or winter - does not matter. When you see the sun waking up, how softly the water is stretched, squinting from the first rays, you understand that it does not matter at all what to sleep on, what you have and where you need to hurry after you wake up. The main thing is to wait for the morning to open your eyes and embrace the sea.

When you approach the water, you always feel what it is, a lake, sea or ocean, even if you don't see the horizon, you just feel the strength, the scale.
As you embark on a journey of change, you also feel the scale. You do not know everything that awaits you, but you understand that life will never be the same again, because you have come to the ocean.

The secret is to never stop noticing the simple, everyday miracles that make up our lives. Delicious food, good books, laughter, music, sincere conversations, nature, art. Look for them every day - and even when it seems that your world is bursting at the seams, there will always be a needle and thread at hand.

Worry less, less. Don't take everything to heart. Not everything that seems important to you right now is that. Instead of getting nervous, breathe in and breathe out and say, “I'm smart. I can handle". After all, that's the way it is.