To Your Joy Aromas

Nurture Yourself Today

Hey Hey Hey,

I hope and pray you're doing well. How are you feeling?

It's all going to work out for the best. This too shall pass although life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and it’s easy to feel like everything’s moving too fast. Lately, I’ve been reminded that even during uncertain times, there’s power in pausing and caring for myself. I believe that when we nurture ourselves, we’re better equipped to handle whatever comes our way. Otherwise we may be caught out there in these streets torn up from the floor up.

Here’s a simple tip that’s been a lifesaver: take a moment each day—maybe first thing in the morning or before bed—to practice gratitude. Acknowledge at least one small thing you’re thankful for. It could be as simple as the warmth of the sun or a kind word from a friend. This practice not only lifts your spirit but helps you focus on the positive, even when the world feels heavy.

I'll go first, I'm thankful and grateful each day I wake up and I'm given the breath of life another day to expand in love, peace, joy and prosperity and inspire others to do the same.

I’d love to know: What’s one thing you’re grateful for today? Hit reply and let’s share a little light with each other.

SELF+CARE TIP:
Incorporate a "worry window" into your daily routine. Set aside 10-15 minutes each day to acknowledge and process your worries. This practice can help you feel less overwhelmed and more in control. After your worry window, engage in a calming activity like deep breathing or listening to soothing music to transition back to a state of relaxation. (Please note a friend told me about this and I'm paying it forward because I personally feel like worrying doesn't do anything but change your health and the situation you're worrying about is still there.)
Peace & Joy,
Toni
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Follow the Light...

Hey Hey Hey,

How are you feeling today? In a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming, finding moments of light can make all the difference. I remember my Grandma Joyner saying, "You think you got it bad? You ain't seen bad, yet. Baby, there's always somebody that's worse off than you." I remembering thinking (because I wouldn't say nothing other than," Yes Ma'am," to her,) that last person really got it bad! Since then, I've been doing my best to make each day better and better. Just like I pray for ALL of us during these unprecedented times.

I’ve been focusing on what I can control—taking time each day to nurture my spirit with simple acts of self+care, and I hope and pray you can do the same.
One thing that really helps me is a few minutes of mindful breathing. Just sit quietly, breathe deeply, and let go of what you can’t change. This small practice has been a game changer for calming my mind and recharging my energy. In the classroom we have this little wooden breathing board that when the students trace up with their finger they're simultaneously breathing in, the hold it at the top and while tracing with their finger going down the other side of the mountain they breathe out. It works for them and me.

Remember, it’s okay to feel vulnerable. I myself have traditionally tried to avoid feeling vulnerable. It’s in these moments of honesty that we find our true strength and I've lived to tell you the story.

If you have a self+care tip or a moment of light to share, I’d love to hear from you.

SELF+CARE TIP:
Gratitude: Take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate the good things in your life, whether you put it on paper or simply saying what you are grateful for...It's gotta' be something because you know, "Graditude is an Attitude." (Are you smiling with me?)

I’d love to hear how you’ve been taking care of yourself lately. What small things have helped you stay grounded? Hit reply and share your personal self+care tips or what you like to do for a self hug—let's inspire and uplift each other!

Peace & Joy,
Toni
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Here’s a Self+Care Boost for Today

Hey Hey Hey,

Woosah! I know these times have been challenging...many of us are feeling the weight of uncertainty, with federal jobs being cut and the economy making every day a bit tougher. I want you to know you’re not alone. I feel it too. We're in this together.

Today, I want to share a little self+care tip that’s helped me to breathe, take a moment for myself and to feel more grounded: after showering, I take an extra minute or two to pat dry and put on a combination moisturizer while my "mature" skin is still damp. It may seem small, but it creates a protective barrier, locking in hydration and a moment of calm for me. It’s a gentle reminder that sometimes, taking a moment to care for myself is a great way to help to weather life’s storms. It's the little things...

I love to hear how you’re finding moments of peace & joy these days.

Peace & Joy,
Toni
ToYourJoyAromas.com

"...I make an effort to find joy. I listen to music. I reflect and I pray. Once upon a time, reading did it for me. These days, not so much. My overall goal is to avoid negativity...." Thank you Cynthia for sharing and caring and I pray for peace and joy for you.

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Let's Catch Up

Hey Hey Hey,

I hope and pray you're doing well. How are you feeling? It’s been a while since we last connected, and I wanted to reach out to you.

For awhile, I've taken a step back to regroup and refocus. It's truly an ongoing process with all the craziness happening around us. I've found myself feeling anxious and even a bit numb at times. I know our GOD is an awesome GOD and things are happening for me and not to me. This is my version of positive self-talk. being mindful and leaning into the Serenity Prayer, "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

While focusing on what I can control, it’s helped me to have peace in the midst of the storm. I realize so many of us are directly and/or indirectly affected by the new administrations' divisiveness and personal political agendas. And if not that, then maybe natural disasters, personal situations and circumstances to work through. Thinking about the current state of affairs while typing this, I thank God for the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

This time away has reminded me how important self+care really is—not just for our bodies, but for our minds and hearts too. Whether it’s a quiet moment with a warm cup of tea, a book or a simple thing like applying moisturizer while your skin is still damp, these little acts of care make a big difference in how we feel. It's the little things that can have a big impact.

SELF+CARE TIP:
After your shower, try patting on your favorite moisturizer or body oil while your skin is still slightly damp. This helps you to lock in moisture, leaving you with a soft, glowing complexion that feels like a little daily hug. And who can't use a daily hug? I know I sure can use at least one a day.

I’d love to hear how you’ve been taking care of yourself lately. What small things have helped you stay grounded? Hit reply and share your personal self+care tips or what you like to do for a self hug—let's inspire and uplift each other!

Peace & Joy,
Toni
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CAN I ASK YOU SOMETHING?

QUESTION:
I NEED Extra Care for the Callouses under my right foot!!! ☹ I walk/jog and jump!

I have been using pumice stones, callous smoothing tools, and Pumice sponges but my callouses are HARD!

So IF you have something for COARSE, HARD to remove callouses, Let me know!

Thanks Girl! Hope you and yours are doing well!

ANSWER:
I can truly understand how frustrating it can be dealing with those stubborn callouses, especially with all the walking, jogging, and jumping you do—your feet definitely work hard and deserve some extra TLC!

Although I don’t have a specific product for coarse callouses just yet, I have a few tips that might help in the meantime:

Soak & Soften: Try soaking your feet in warm water with Epsom salt or apple cider vinegar for 15–20 minutes to help soften the calloused skin.

Moisturize Deeply: After using your pumice stone or callous tools, apply a thick layer of shea butter (or a heavy moisturizer) to lock in hydration and soften the skin more. Cover your feet with socks overnight for an added boost.

Exfoliate Gently: A natural sugar scrub or fine sea salt mixed with oil can also help smooth out tough areas.

I’ve been brainstorming ways to create a product for this kind of issue, so your feedback is so valuable! Thank you for giving me inspiration—this might be the perfect time to work on a formula specifically for hard-to-remove callouses. I’ll be sure to keep you posted if I can help with a new product.

In the meantime, if you want help customizing something, just let me know—I’d be happy to work with you!
Peace & Joy,
Toni

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QUICK TIP:
Magnesium may help prevent migraines by blocking pain signals and calming the brain. Affordable and natural, it could possibly be useful for quick relief for regular and menstrual migraines.

Eating more magnesium-rich foods (like spinach, nuts, and seeds) can be an easy way for a natural migraine defense.

POSITIVE SELF TALK ONLY
"I'm on top, in tune, in touch and living the dream."
– Joy

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

TAKE A MOMENT FOR YOURSELF

YOU DESERVE IT

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CAN I ASK YOU SOMETHING?

QUESTION:
Hello Dear. I hope all is well with you. I know it's been a while since you left MD but you're missed. Will you please tell me if you do scented body scrubs? I'm looking for anything with a scent akin to Marc Jacob's DAISY. It's my favorite even though it's a summer scent it's become my signature scent. Get back to me when you can and I look forward to hearing from you soon. Regards, P. Smith

ANSWER:
Hey Patricia, how are you? It's great to hear from you. Thank you for your forgiveness for me not properly addressing you previously in some prior emails sent to you. Somehow it happened to several accounts and it took awhile to work that out. So again, thank you for your patience and understanding.

It's been over 8 years since we left MD and not a day goes by that I don't think of y'all. Living in small town America made me realize how I kind of took where I grew up for granted. I enjoyed my family, friends, fellowship and the energy of just being there. The meeting, greeting, and conversing and all the wonderful things about living in the DC area is like no other.

Do I do scented body scrubs? Yes ma'am, I surely do make scented body scrubs in raw sugar and tropical sea salt and I can definitely do it in your signature Marc Jacob's Daisy scent. Here are the 2 links for some of them: Raw Sugar Body Scrub toyourjoyaromas.com/product/moisturizing-raw-sugar-body-scrub/18?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true (https://www.toyourjoyaromas.com/product/moisturizing-raw-sugar-body-scrub/18?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true) and tropical sea salt, toyourjoyaromas.com/product/tropical-sea-salt-body-scrub/19?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true (https://www.toyourjoyaromas.com/product/tropical-sea-salt-body-scrub/19?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true) . -Toni

What’s New & Noteworthy?

I'm excited to share our latest additions at ToYourJoyAromas.com ! Discover the delightful scents of Perfect by Marc Jacobs, Hareem Al Sultan Gold by Khadlaj, and the enchanting Rihanna Kiss Eau De Parfum. Each fragrance is designed to uplift your spirit and add a touch of luxury to your daily routine. This is your chance to elevate your smell goods game. We're here to bring YOU JOY every day.

QUICK TIP:
Magnesium may help prevent migraines by blocking pain signals and calming the brain. Affordable and natural, it could possibly be useful for quick relief for regular and menstrual migraines.

Eating more magnesium-rich foods (like spinach, nuts, and seeds) can be an easy way for a natural migraine defense.

INSPIRATIONAL & MOTIVATIONAL SELF TALK
"I'm on top, in tune, in touch and living my best dreams..." – Joy

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

TAKE A MOMENT FOR YOURSELF

YOU DESERVE IT

Discover a delightful selection of customizable personal care and aromatherapy products designed to bring you the joy you deserve and more.

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CAN I ASK YOU SOMETHING?

QUESTION:
Tell me: If you keep butters, oils and aloe over four (4) years does it go bad??? 😲
Please advise!

ANSWER:
I totally get it—having a lot of products can sometimes mean a few might sit longer than intended. Shea butter generally has a good shelf life, but after 4+ years, it can start to go bad. The easiest way to tell if it’s rancid is by the smell—if it’s off or sour, it’s likely past its prime. The texture might also change, becoming grainy or overly dry. If you’re unsure, let me know, and I can guide you through a quick check to be sure. Shea butter is such a treasure, and I’d love for you to get the full benefit of it.
Peace & Joy,
Toni

What’s New & Noteworthy?

Discover the delightful scents of Perfect by Marc Jacobs, Hareem Al Sultan Gold by Khadlaj, and the enchanting Rihanna Kiss Eau De Parfum. Each fragrance is designed to uplift your spirit and add a touch of luxury to your day. This is your chance to level up your smell goods game.

QUICK TIP:
Magnesium may help prevent migraines by blocking pain signals and calming the brain. Affordable and natural, it could possibly be useful for quick relief for regular and menstrual migraines.

Eating more magnesium-rich foods (like spinach, nuts, and seeds) can be an easy way for a natural migraine defense.

POSITIVE SELF TALK ONLY
"I'm on top, in tune, in touch and living the dream."
– Joy

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

TAKE A MOMENT FOR YOURSELF

YOU DESERVE IT

Discover a delightful selection of customizable personal care and aromatherapy products designed to bring you the joy you deserve and more.

How do I know if my natural product has gone bad? Click here for an update from To Your Joy Aromas!

CAN I ASK YOU SOMETHING?

QUESTION:
"Hey Toni! YOU have come a LONG WAY TONI! It's about to be Winter here on the East Coast and look FORWARD to your Products! Question: Is the Yellow color of the African Shea Butter "RAWER" than the light IVORY Color? I was Thinking about changing the size of the Light Ivory color to 3.4! Thanks Toni! Val

ANSWER:
"Hey Val! 😊 Thank you so much – your support really means the world to me! I'm glad to hear you're excited for wintertime with To Your Joy Aromas products; Thank you for your recent order. It's my pleasure to keep you stocked up and ready!

As for the shea butter, the color differences come from the natural variations in shea nut types and processing regions, not necessarily the level of “rawness.”
1) The yellow shea butter gets its color from an added natural ingredient called borututu root (also known as camwood), which some regions add for its own beneficial properties.
2) The ivory color you see in the other shea butter is also raw and unrefined – just without that extra ingredient, which is why it looks lighter.

Both types have the same nourishing benefits, so since you have ordered both, with use you can go with the one you feel best suits your skin care needs.

I've found some clients prefer one over the other because of what they were first introduced to and others like the ivory color because the yellow can stain light colored clothing. That can be prevented by giving it time to absorb before getting going to bed or getting dressed. It's really a personal preference though. Just remember, with shea butter a little goes a long way."
-Peace and Joy,
Toni

What’s New & Noteworthy?

I'm excited to share our latest additions at ToYourJoyAromas.com ! Discover the delightful scents of Perfect by Marc Jacobs, Hareem Al Sultan Gold by Khadlaj, and the enchanting Rihanna Kiss Eau De Parfum. Each fragrance is designed to uplift your spirit and add a touch of luxury to your daily routine. This is your chance to elevate your smell goods game. We're here to bring YOU JOY every day.

QUICK TIP:
Magnesium may help prevent migraines by blocking pain signals and calming the brain. Affordable and natural, it could possibly be useful for quick relief for regular and menstrual migraines.

Eating more magnesium-rich foods (like spinach, nuts, and seeds) can be an easy way for a natural migraine defense.

POSITIVE SELF TALK
"I am on top
In tune
In touch and
Living my best dreams..."
– Joy

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

TAKE A MOMENT FOR YOURSELF

YOU DESERVE IT

Discover a delightful selection of customizable personal care and aromatherapy products designed to bring you the joy you deserve and more.

What's the difference between the shea butter colors? Click here for an update from To Your Joy Aromas!

CAN I ASK YOU SOMETHING?

QUESTION:
"Hey, Do you sell "REAL" African Shea Butter? I NEED some. I moved back up north and I suffer from VERY DRY SKIN! HELP HELP HELP! Please Contact me and let me know what you got! Thanks!"
-Val

ANSWER:
"Hey Val, aside from your skin being very dry I pray all is well with you. Yes, we do sell real raw African shea butter. Here's a link to it toyourjoyaromas.com/product/raw-shea-butter/103?cp=true&sa=false&sbp=false&q=true on the website.

Some tips to use shea butter for your very dry skin, scoop a small amount of raw, unrefined shea butter and apply it directly to your skin after cleansing pat dry, and while your skin is still damp, massage the shea butter in until it's completely absorbed into your skin.

For more care and hydration, apply shea butter with oil before bed and allow it to work overnight. When using it as a nighttime moisturizer, focusing on your dryer areas like your elbows, knees, and hands, and let it sit and absorb overnight."
-Toni

What’s New & Noteworthy?

I'm excited to share our latest additions at ToYourJoyAromas.com ! Discover the delightful scents of Perfect by Marc Jacobs, Hareem Al Sultan Gold by Khadlaj, and the enchanting Rihanna Kiss Eau De Parfum. Each fragrance is designed to uplift your spirit and add a touch of luxury to your daily routine. This is your chance to elevate your smell goods game. We're here to bring YOU JOY every day.

QUICK TIP:
Magnesium may help prevent migraines by blocking pain signals and calming the brain. Affordable and natural, it could possibly be useful for quick relief for regular and menstrual migraines.

Eating more magnesium-rich foods (like spinach, nuts, and seeds) can be an easy way for a natural migraine defense.

INSPIRATIONAL & MOTIVATIONAL SELF TALK
"I'm on top, in tune, in touch and living my best dreams..." – Joy

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

TAKE A MOMENT FOR YOURSELF

YOU DESERVE IT

Discover a delightful selection of customizable personal care and aromatherapy products designed to bring you the joy you deserve and more.

Hey, Do you sell "REAL" African Shea Butter? Click here for an update from To Your Joy Aromas!

What’s New & Noteworthy?

I'm excited to share our latest additions at ToYourJoyAromas.com! Discover the delightful scents of Perfect by Marc Jacobs, Hareem Al Sultan Gold by Khadlaj, and the enchanting Rihanna Kiss Eau De Parfum. Each fragrance is designed to uplift your spirit and add a touch of luxury to your daily routine. This is your chance to elevate your smell goods game. We're here to bring YOU JOY every day.

YOU DESERVE A BREAK TODAY

QUICK TIP:
After your shower, pat dry and use a little body butter or oil while your skin’s still damp—it keeps that moisture locked in and feels like an instant refresh.

Words of Inspiration
"Self-care isn’t just about treating yourself—it’s about honoring yourself." – Lisa Nichols

Some Fall Favorites You’ll Love:

Rich Butters & Oils
Nothing like smooth, hydrated skin for fall. Trust me, your skin will feel amazing.

Aromatherapy for Every Mood
Whether it’s a boost in the morning or winding down at night, there’s something to set the right atmosphere for you.

Raw Brown Sugar Scrub
This one’s a gentle yet effective exfoliator, perfect for keeping your skin soft and ready to soak up all the extra hydration.

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