Hairzillaa

I know something has to change… but insight without action is just self-awareness cosplay.

I feel messy, and unorganized; chaotic.

I’m confused, tired, and unsure.

But, im trying to reach a flow state, and to get there I have to cut through the fear.

Now if you know me, my risk assessment is always “but if I won’t die it’s probably fine.” So how could I be afraid

I’ve been exploring this too, because im not a person that scared of most things outside of being mauled by a bear.

But being seen, terrifies me; because I crave to be understood.

That’s where the fear is.
Where people commit to misunderstanding me
Where I don’t understand me 😆

I can only be me, I can’t be a character or different around you. So if you can’t understand me, then I ask that you accept me 😅

As is, for now, because this isn’t my final form.

So the shift for today? ➡️➡️ my content

I’ll connect with yall in the stories, and always have the mental health discussion; however I think it’s time I take the rest of me to my other page.

If you like hair, beauty, industry events and travel - stay here

If you like weird girls with good taste in music, head to my other page 🖤
scares.me

You’re invited, but don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Color doesn’t lift color …. all the time

But I can’t make it shift and alter color every time 😉

shades ALK is the game changer here

Jen is trying to have a softer grow out so I’m going to use the tools in my chemistry arsenal to help her do that, while keeping it healthy, and my timing behind the chair realistic

One level at a time 😜

Also trying to include more haircutting, so deal with those slides too

I used the R series and clear in ALK to bump Jenn, when she returns I’ll prob use the same tools (diff shades) to bump her again

80% of the time you don’t need lightener for none blondes ❤️

1. “What kind of services are you obsessed with?”

This tells you everything.
If they light up talking about lived-in blondes, extensions, or low-maintenance brunettes—you’ve found your match.
If not… keep scrolling. (Insert what services you’re looking for above)

2. “How often will I realistically need to come in?”

Not the fantasy. The truth.
A good stylist will align your hair with your lifestyle—not have you in the chair every 4 weeks if you’re a 12-week girl.

3. “What’s the real cost to maintain this look?”

Not just the first appointment.
Ask about toners, trims, glosses, move-ups, products.
Hot girls budget for the maintenance, not just the moment.

4. “What happens if I hate it?”

Uncomfy but powerful.
You want someone who has a plan, not someone who gets defensive.
Confidence = clear communication + a fix-it mindset.

5. “Will this actually work with my hair?”
Bring the inspo pic… and then let them reality-check it.
Face shape, density, history, extensions—this is where a real pro separates from a Pinterest yes-girl.

Getting your hair done should be a treat, not an anxiety trip.

Tag your stylist you love below 🥰 let them know they’re a vibe

At some point you have to decide…

Are you willing to feel confident, or just avoiding being seen?

My biggest limiting belief was “it’s not safe if I am seen.”
This is old, persistent programming that is not mine, it’s what kept a completely different version of me safe (from literal harm)

But it shows up in everything I do - till I decided it didn’t

Is it easy? Or that simple?

No.

But it a choice.

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