RAE Aesthetic

Let us get our ‘tox and filler in peace 😂

Fifteen years ago, I was the one showing up to trainings, soaking up every lesson I could.

Now I get to be on the other side, teaching injectors across the country, sharing what I’ve learned through thousands of patients, countless hours of education, and years of refining my craft. It still feels surreal. 🥺❤️

But one thing I’ve learned is that you can’t keep pouring into everyone else if you never pour back into yourself.

After a week of trainings, mentoring, and business building, I carved out a weekend to slow down. Good food. Great coffee. Time with one of my best friends. A little peace before jumping back into clinic.

Teaching is one of the greatest privileges of my career, but taking care of myself is what allows me to keep showing up for my patients, my students, and my family.

What’s one thing you do to recharge after a busy week? I’d love to hear in the comments.👇

Who has tried Sculptra?? Are you team Radiesse? They are both collagen builders.

I show both on my Patreon but let’s break down Sculptra… it is one of the treatments that drives the most incredible results for both male and female patients, but it took me yearssss of training to actually master it. The way I did it 10 years ago is 100% different!!

I DON’T do it for bulking… I do it for tightening and posterior support of the face, glow and preventing laxity.

Next week I’m breaking down a full Sculptra case on Patreon, start to finish.If you are new to Scupltra or experienced - this is for you!

I break down a male patient: the reconstitution, the product analysis, the prep, and the injection itself. Every decision explained, not just shown.

Collagen loss is the actual aging process. Everything else is just masking it.

If you want the real thinking behind how I approach Sculptra, comment “SCULPTRA” and I’ll send you the link to get in before it launches.

Can we please normalize not freezing the entire under-eye? 😅 yes this is coming from an injector lol.

I know under-eye tox can be amazing but when it’s frozen , it looks so weird.

Everyone sees a wrinkle and thinks, “Just add more tox.” But your under-eye muscles actually have a job. They support your smile, help with lymphatic drainage, and create natural facial expression. Overdoing it can leave the area looking puffy, heavy, or just… off. I did wayyyyyy too much when I did a commercial last year and I looked emotionless

Not every wrinkle needs to disappear. Sometimes the answer isn’t more tox…it’s understanding why the wrinkle is there in the first place.

I go into all of this in the video because this is one of those things the aesthetic industry has started normalizing that I don’t love.

Watch before you let anyone inject your under-eyes. I promise it’ll change the way you think about this area. 👀

Who’s been told they “need” under-eye Botox? Tell me in the comments. ⬇️

also DM me for my fav Undereye remedy 🤫

Motherhood, entrepreneurship, and medicine have taught me one of the hardest lessons I’ve ever had to learn: let go of perfection.

I used to think I had to do it all and do it all perfectly. Now? I’m just trying to be present and do the best I can.

Some days, getting my kids to practice on time feels like a miracle... and then we realize we forgot someone’s cleats. 😅

Some days my inbox is overflowing because I spent hours giving thoughtful responses to Patreon messages instead of checking off emails.
And yes... I even forgot my own mom’s birthday this year. 🫣 I had talked to her at 8 a.m., but Olivia was climbing all over me and demanding every ounce of my attention. It completely slipped my mind until later. I called her back around 9 a.m., apologized profusely, and thankfully she gave me grace and laughed (prob a fake laugh lol) but I felt awful.
That’s real life.

The truth is, my life isn’t as polished as it may look on Instagram. And neither is anyone else’s, no matter how perfectly curated their feed seems. That’s the lie social media sells us.

Behind every highlight reel is someone forgetting the cleats, drowning in emails, missing a birthday, or wondering how they’re going to get everything done.

Motherhood, entrepreneurship, and medicine are not for the faint of heart. They’re messy, humbling, exhausting, and incredibly rewarding all at the same time.

And despite all the chaos... I don’t regret a second of it. ❤️

If you’re also learning to trade perfection for presence, you’re in good company.

Share this with someone who needs the reminder. 😂

Who’s guilty of an AI plan of their face??? Meeee but as an aesthetic Np, I know they aren’t 100% reality or achievable. And most people know that’s but…

I have some wild stories about patients bringing in an AI plan… and let’s just say, I got some red flag vibes. DM me for the stories hahaha injectors - always so NO when your guy gets that feeling… I can’t say it enough- listen to your guy!

Go to an experienced injector to get a real plan. DM mw for a plan!