Virgin Hair Trap

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I used to think that if I loved someone hard enough, consistently enough, patiently enough, I could become the reason they finally chose to show up.

I believed this about a friend. A partner. A parent. Maybe all three, at different chapters of my life.

I thought that my steadiness could heal their inconsistency. That my reliability could become a mirror they would eventually want to look into. That if I just held on long enough, with enough grace, with enough understanding, with enough of myself quietly poured into the gap their unreliability kept opening, they would see it. See me. And stay.

What I did not understand then, and what cost me years I cannot get back, is that I had confused love with audition. With performance.

Every time they disappeared and came back, I was grateful. It felt like confirmation and proof that I was enough to return to. Every inconsistency I absorbed without complaint was me presenting my credentials. Every time I swallowed my hurt and smiled and said it's okay, I understand, I was making my case.

Working for something that should have been freely given. Competing in a contest I had not agreed to enter, for the basic dignity of being treated as someone worth showing up for.

But now I see that their inconsistency is not a code I am supposed to crack. It is not a test I am supposed to pass. It is not a wall I am supposed to find the door in through sheer devotion.

It is information. Plain, uncomfortable information about what they can offer, about the gap between who they want to be for you and who they actually are right now.

So you see, stepping back is not giving up. It is not a failure of love or a failure of nerve. It is the first genuinely loving thing you can do, for them, because you stop performing a function that prevents them from facing what they actually need to face, and for yourself, because you stop haemorrhaging energy into a wound that is not yours to close.

It is the moment you stop auditioning and remember that you were never supposed to be on that stage in the first place.

And that, for me, is closure.

Y’all think I’m playing about EASTER next weekend…
NO APPT NO SERVICE
NO I CANT WORK YOU IN
I’m NOT OVER BOOKING
NOT FEELING SORRY
yall had plenty of time to book so dont tag me In them last minute post … and if i do make sum happen its $100 off top so plan accordingly

I’m currently booking BLOWOUTS for EASTER
I will not be over booking and its appointment only if you know you or ya chap need a appt dont wait til the spots gone no same day appts or no working you in… YOU CANT BOOK ONLINE FOR EASTER I APPROVE ALL APPTS SORRY….

People pay for what they want so therefore my price is non negotiable you either pay the fee or go save a few dollars and end up calling me anyways once you not satisfied with your results 😎

As of JUNE 1st NO DEPOSIT NO APPOINTMENT I’ve avoided the deposit deal for years BUT people really mess it up for others... IF YOU FR ABOUT YOUR HAIR YOU WONT MIND SECURING YOUR APPOINTMENT... and once I update my booking site that’s the ONLY way to book... folks will have you waiting know damn well they ain’t coming so it’s OVA without a DEPOSIT 🤷🏾‍♀️ I ain’t even pulling up...

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MICROLINKS with i-tips start at $600 🤷🏾‍♀️ that’s hair included deposit and consultation REQUIRED...

If you want MICROLINKS you 1st have to make a consultation LINKS aren’t for everyone if you don’t NORMALIZE wearing you OWN hair links definitely won’t work for you....

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