Quig’s Quests

Tonight was the third time seeing , and the first time singing together at our hometown bar. Life is a funny, funny thing. High highs, low lows. Make it count every chance you get.

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That time we went on a friend’s trip to Eureka Springs, AR with

Eureka Springs was a nice getaway for a bunch of ***r folks! Will be back since it was less than a 4 hour drive to the water, hills, trees, and big, open sky.

It was so fun shopping at the quaint stores! We spent most our night out on the town at where the was top tier!

Highly recommend Eureka Springs for a weekend getaway!

of The Quigley’s Quests ✈️ Here’s Sid’s contribution of our work trip to Vegas trip in August 🌎Sage is the designated photographer in this so stayed tuned for more 📸 ***rcouple

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Art by: kiracyan.design

Life is a journey, don’t feel bad about living yours authentically—however that looks.

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.
—brightwanderer.tumblr.com

artwork by Kaethe Butcher Illustrations

just a lil reminder for any ghosties taking up new hobbies or passions 💙 the world wants to see it, honest x

You deserve more, babe, never forget it. 😘

Love yourself first.