Vows for Eternity

Marriage isn’t about ending up with the person who thinks exactly like you. It's the one you can disagree with… even on your worst days.

You keep telling yourself you’ll be ready someday. We're all waiting for life to become less complicated. More certain.
It rarely does.
Don't wait for everything else to settle down before you do.

People aren't milestones. We continue becoming long after everyone assumes we've already arrived. Ask yourself, "Who am I when no one needs me anymore?"

“The thrill of love turns into comfort. You want to be calm in love, not crazy.”

When we speak to couples who've been together for decades about ‘love,’ they will never ever even think of beginning with the proposal or the thrill of the jitters. It’s so funny how all throughout our youth and adulthood we were taught to chase intensity. To go after the chase and never the boredom. But what if the highest form of love isn't excitement.

The lovers will tell you all about the ordinary days. The house was left messy because it mattered less than peace. The vegetables washed, dried and chopped before dinner. The coffee bought without asking. The bed, made, after one woke the other up begrudgingly.

The freedom to become different people, without growing apart,
is the only way to go about it.

Perhaps that's the part we so often skip when we talk to the world about relationships.

Not every search needs more options. Sometimes, it just needs more intention.

Vows For Eternity is built for people who know what they're looking for.

Who is that person for you?
And do they know it?

Leo season gives you every reason to be seen. This month, notice who sees you when you're not trying to be.

The first time, you try to make it fit.
The second time, you learn to listen to what doesn’t.
Clarity doesn’t come from finding the right person.
It comes from asking better questions.