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Supporting Loved Ones Fighting Depression

When a loved one is affected by depression, it can be difficult to understand or know how to help
Depression is an incredibly complex and individualized experience. There isn't one truth or simple solution that works for every person.
Downward-spiraling staircase of depression

Gaining perspective on what your loved one is experiencing is a crucial part of the process. Visualizing depression as a downward spiral is one way to simplify and understand clinical depression.
One way to develop perspective is by visualizing depression as a steep, downward-spiraling staircase. Your loved one may be having difficulty finding an open door along that staircase or may not be able to turn around without your support and guidance.
The downward-spiraling staircase may start with the person feeling worse than usual from a physical, social or psychological stressor. A worsened mood may lead to taking part in fewer meaningful or enjoyable day-to-day activities. Self-criticism and stress increase due to mounting responsibilities or missed opportunities. Depressive thinking may encompass guilty thoughts, pessimism, putting themselves down and irritable behavior.
As the spiral develops, a complex dynamic emerges. Your loved one may become increasingly stressed while simultaneously less able to cope with stress. The response of the brain is to slow, stop and depress. A person can get stuck in the spiral for weeks, months or years.
The silver lining is that if people can spiral down, they can spiral back up. However, depression affects the motivation, energy and curiosity needed to spiral up.
It can be disheartening and stressful that you can't fix a loved one's depression. But you can help them start and continue moving on an upward path.
Symptoms of depression
Depression symptoms vary from person to person, including:
Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness or hopelessness
Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters
Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities
Insomnia or sleeping too much
Tiredness and lack of energy, so even small tasks take extra effort
Changes in appetite — reduced appetite and weight loss, or increased cravings for food and weight gain
Anxiety, agitation or restlessness
Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements
Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on past failures or taking unnecessary blame for things
Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions and remembering things
Frequent or recurrent mention of death, suicidal thoughts, su***de attempts or death from su***de
For many with depression, symptoms can be severe enough to cause noticeable problems in day-to-day activities, such as work, school, social activities or relationships with others. Others may generally feel miserable or unhappy without knowing why.